Why is it so hard to find good (hot) kissing in gay porn?

[CaptainCastro]

I originally posted this in the kink and fetish category, but was told that I'd have a better chance finding what I was looking for if I posted it here. So, here goes:

I don't just mean plain, boring kissing. Call me gross if you want, but what really turns me on is the deep, wet and sloppy kissing. Noisy tongue kissing with that sweet spit. Sometimes, if I'm really in a wild mood and I'm horny as hell, I really wanna see some snot. Yeah, I guess you can call me gross.

Well, the problem is, it's just about impossible to find this kind of stuff. Now for some reason, it's pretty damn easy if you're looking for lesbians doing it, because that kind of nasty stuff is apparently more popular if it's two girls doing it, and it kinda pisses me off. I've hardly ever been able to find anything like this on the gay side, and even though every once in a long while I'll find a video with some pretty hot kissing between two guys, it's still not what I was ultimately looking for. Most of the time, kissing in porn videos that I've found is pretty wimpy, and consists of little nips and pecks that move way too slow. What also gets on my nerves is when there's some really hot mouth-to-mouth action going on, but there's some annoying music track playing over all the real sounds. Am I the only one who thinks the sounds are just as important as the visuals? This is why I hate seeing really hot kissing GIFs that were obviously taken from a video, but one that I'll never be able to find. What I also hate is when there's some really hot kissing, but it stops just as quickly as it started, because the guys start to fuck. Then, that's all the rest of the video is. Just fucking with no sensuality. To be honest, the up-close and personal kissing and licking turns me on more than the actual fucking does. Am I the only one like this?

Sorry for the rant, this is just something that I've always had a problem with. I'm starting to feel like I'm the only one who likes this kind of thing, and I was hesitant to even bring it up, as I'm sure people will probably think I'm weird/too nasty. I'm actually bi, but prefer men. I don't want this nasty talk to make me seem like an aggressive person, because I'm actually quite the opposite. I'm still a virgin, as I struggle with depression and anxiety, so it's hard for me to even be around people I don't know. I've always wanted to be intimate with someone really badly, especially another guy, but obviously that's just not easy for me. I guess you could say I've become afraid of people over the years. If I were finally intimate with someone, I'm sure it wouldn't start off nasty like this, seeing as I've never actually kissed anyone before. I guess this kind of stuff is my inner sex animal, and it just hasn't had the chance to be real with someone yet.

What I came here to ask is, does any other guy like this kind of stuff, too? If so, it would be awesome if you could point me towards any videos like this you've found.

Thanks for reading all of that. A rather strange first post this turned out to be.

 

[CaptainCastro]

Seriously? Nobody? Hell, at least in the old topic I got a some responses. This certainly doesn't give me any hope.

 

[CaptainCastro]

Bump......

 

[oaken88]

I find guys passionately kissing a hell of turn on as well, I'm guessing its difficult to find because you need to usually be really into the person you are kissing and in porn they've usually not long met each other before they start shooting.

 

[CaptainCastro]

I find guys passionately kissing a hell of turn on as well, I'm guessing its difficult to find because you need to usually be really into the person you are kissing and in porn they've usually not long met each other before they start shooting.

I get that. Although it seems like if you're really into someone, even if you haven't known each other for very long, you'd still be able to get intimate. Like I said, it's easy as hell to find prolonged deep kissing in lesbian porn, and I seriously doubt every single one of those videos were of two girls that have actually met before. Hell, some of those girls aren't even real lesbians. So what's the excuse for gay guys? It just irritates me. I really can't even get off watching two guys just plain fucking with no intimacy anymore than I can get off staring at a brick.

 

[dozyk74]

It's probably (from my hours of research watching porn) that kissing is the final frontier for straight guys. It's something they see as for their girlfriends only. More intimate than sticking their dick up an arse.

At one point I had thousands of porn scenes on my hard disks and recently I decided to start deleting the ones that didn't have any kind of passionate kissing. Like you, I can't get off without some passion between the two performers. (I realise that I'm probably desensitised to a lot of porn having watched so much.) So far, I'm probably deleting 98 out of every 100 videos I watch. Gay porn is just that rubbish if you want intimacy.

 

[GayZombieMaster]

From what I've read on other sites on the internet it seems there are a lot of straight guys who think that kissing a guy on the mouth is way more gay than sucking a guy's cock. That could explain why there's not much passionate kissing in gay porn that has straight pornstars. Although I personally really enjoyed watching Paddy O'Brian kiss with Kyle King and Paddy is straight. But I also assume that not everyone has the same idea of what 'passionate' kissing looks like, so some kissing I found pretty hot might not turn other guys on.

 

[EasyRory]

The kissing tends to be tepid when one or more of the kissers happens to be straight or maybe just inexperienced.

 

[CaptainCastro]

So nobody has any recommendations? Is intimacy in gay porn really that hard to come by?

 

[oaken88]

Maybe try former boyfriends Austin Wilde and Anthony Romero either their scene on cockyboys or on guysinsweatpants the latter site showing the closest thing to real sex instead of just porn.

 

[MoufOfKhaos]

So nobody has any recommendations? Is intimacy in gay porn really that hard to come by?

What you're talking about in the first paragraph alone is NOT intimacy, it's really sloppy kissing.

So, to answer, intimacy is not hard to find(twink porn seems to... have that, but I'm too old to enjoy twinks). Licking up your partners snot and sticking a tongue so far down a partners' throat that he begins to choke only appeals to the most hardcore of kissers, if you can really call it that(seems you really want some sort of mouth rape, to be honest).

 

[jktoooo]

I, too, can seriously orgasm when i see a guy i deem hot passionately kissing another guy.

But, i just think u have a very narrow, specific view of what u want. I suggested paddy o'obrian like a poster above and in your original thread but that didn't seem good enough. I would say try some Dennis from Sean Cody kissing, especially in his bareback videos. Or try Lucas and Dawson clips from Corbin Fisher, Lucas especially is hot as an apparent straight guy passionately kissing guys.

Another guy is Jarek, his Sean Cody scenes kissing guys are real hot! Also, Abe from Sean Cody

So many of the CF and SC scenes lack the music and IMO the kissing amongst certain guys is real hot!

 

[jktoooo]

Some older scenes from Parker, Sean Cody he passionately kisses guys at the beginning and ending of his scenes, but not too much while fucking them. Though Parker fucking Terry partway through the fucking parker kisses him long and hard.

Also, Parker-Billy, their scene at the first is some hot, eager, kissing, with great close ups and sounds.

I get really turned up when the top eagerly moves to the mouth to kiss whomever he is fucking.....so hot!!!

And, if you find kissing hot, i find guys/tops rimming like they're making out with a mouth so fvcking hot! Thats a major turn on. Like Lucas rimming Zeke, CF, Lucas does some serious tongue and SUCKAGE action on Zeke, and the noise is super hot!!!

 

[CaptainCastro]

What you're talking about in the first paragraph alone is NOT intimacy, it's really sloppy kissing.

Actually, no, it IS intimacy. Passionate, prolonged kissing in porn is intimate, seeing as most porn is just plain fucking and it's over with. What I described is just my personal preference for that intimacy.

I suggested paddy o'obrian like a poster above and in your original thread but that didn't seem good enough.

I actually looked for him, I just wasn't really able to find anything. I do appreciate that suggestion, though.


Anyway, thanks everyone.

 

[xhrxxx75]

IMO, it's also a cultural thing. In Anglo-saxon countries kissing often appears like an optional thing, some guys like to do it, some not so much, or it's more or less considered like foreplay (there are exceptions of course). In Latin countries making out and kissing are really an integral part of making love, there is no good sex without kissing, before, during and after.
Try exploring South American and Latin Porn (FuckerMate, SanDiegoBoy, HotBoys.com.br, OTB, RedHotLatinos, etc.). Most of these guys seem to be born with a special gift for kissing and enjoy doing it immensely.