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Why is it so hard to find someone to date

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Seriously, 19 and never been in a relationship and already had my fill of hookups( not a slut i can count all the guys I've been with on two hands). Ive tried the online thing and everyone there is just looking for a hole to fill or fill a hole. I just don't understand why I am having trouble. To make matters worse my gay roomate( just because hes gay means i am attracted to him ..we dont like each other very much) is have sex in the next room and I can here them and it makes me feel so lonely:(
 
Keep loking dude, know how you feel , hope the right guy turns up for you :)
Perhaps your roomie has lower standards than you !
 
Try different websites and try more in-person ways like networking, organizations, clubs, etc.
 
Or change the ways in which you go about it. This is 2012. People meet online all the time, and make meaningful connections online too. Start generalizing and being all bitter about it, and you've shot yourself in the foot.

Don't make a profile, saying how disappointed you are, how you don't expect much, what you don't like and what you don't want. Focus on exclusively positive things - what you DO like, what you DO want. People are drawn towards positive energy, not bitter lonely guys expressing their bitter loneliness...
 
As soon as I saw your age, I figured.

Dude you're 19, get your head in those books and start thinking about your career. A man's crotch is the last thing that should be in your mind.

Buddy your gonna have your whole life to find a loser to be with, there are a million pickles for you to suck in this world. Slow your role and get your priorities in order.
 
Taralen said:
As soon as I saw your age, I figured.

Dude you're 19, get your head in those books and start thinking about your career. A man's crotch is the last thing that should be in your mind.

Buddy your gonna have your whole life to find a loser to be with, there are a million pickles for you to suck in this world. Slow your role and get your priorities in order.
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wow - sorta mean spirited - likely not intended

i agree that the focus should be on long lasting benefits - studies, etc.

not sure having a guy/relationship is at the expense of that - but can be a negative distraction perhaps (depends on the guy)

as for the "loser" to be with - silly and cynical

pass

my advice is to get out there and meet people - that's how connections are made - in real life - doesn't matter how you get to the first in person meet - just that you connect with people

i think online is great when it's used to enhance meeting people not as the sole means
 
Taralen said:
As soon as I saw your age, I figured.

Dude you're 19, get your head in those books and start thinking about your career. A man's crotch is the last thing that should be in your mind.

Buddy your gonna have your whole life to find a loser to be with, there are a million pickles for you to suck in this world. Slow your role and get your priorities in order.
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dear, mr.bitter
Your comment is way to serious and cynical for my taste and I just have a few thing to say. Firstly, I am sure when you were 19 you were thinking about a man's crotch. Secondly , any where in my original post did it say I want a guy crotch trust me there's plenty of places I can get it. My head is in the book i started college while I was a sophomore in high school and am still in college, thank you very much. Your comment seems like you think yu know me and you don't. Next, what is with the word "loser" I do not know who screwed you to make you bitter but keep your bitter bitchness. Also, I want relationship not a random Popsicle from the grocery store freezer so obviously of opinions differ there. That is all :D
 
As for there you other guys Ilan on going to the gay oriented club and events on campus. Thanks for commenting
 
I know what you mean, I'm 19 and in college and feel the same. I'd definitely recommend going to your campus's LGBTA groups. Even if you don't find anyone attractive enough to date, it's still good to make friends. I recently posted something similar to your thread; a good piece of advice I got was to network. If your friends have gay friends, let your availability known.

Which brings a question: are you out?

also you can PM me if you wanna talk more
 
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