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Why is it so hard

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Why is it so hard to obtain real guy friends that you can call to talk to about a number of things, do stuff with, fuck and give them your load? Not necessarily a couple, just good friends. I don't understand. I'm really beginning to believe that gay guys just want dick and nutt! After that they dissappear until wherever
 
Where are you meeting these guys?

I never had that problem...which is why I ask
 
Where are you meeting these guys?
I never had that problem...which is why I ask

I'm meeting them in the wrong places, but online sites and apps are a joke, few guys at the bar meet my expectations, a lot of times I just don't feel like putting up with the club.

I doesn't matter where you meet gay guys, a lot of them have the same agenda. Whether it be a bar, app, club, or bookstore. Getting lucky
 
How many of these friends/sex partners do you want? One? Fifty? Do you want this kind of relationship with all your male friends or just the ones that make you horny?
 
I'm meeting them in the wrong places, but online sites and apps are a joke, not all the guys at the bar meet my expectations, and a lot of times I just don't feel like putting up with the club.

Friends happen naturally IMO...you click or you don't. Are you a critical person in general? I ask because I am not sure what "meet my expectations" indicates.
 
How many of these friends/sex partners do you want? One? Fifty? Do you want this kind of relationship with all your male friends or just the ones that make you horny?

I don't want too many friends, never have. That's too many variables with the capability of altering my world negatively with merging their problems into my life . I do want to go back to having options.

Just the guys that make me horny. The others, just friends to hang out indulge in common hobbies
 
Friends happen naturally IMO...you click or you don't. Are you a critical person in general? I ask because I am not sure what "meet my expectations" indicates.

I try to choose wisely the people I let into my life. But lately I feel that I've been dropping the ball.

Sometimes I have a problem initiating brief conversations with strangers. If we start talking about something I'm into that really oils my machine.
 
I try to choose wisely the people I let into my life. But lately I feel that I've been dropping the ball.

Sometimes I have a problem initiating brief conversations with strangers. If we start talking about something I'm into that really oils my machine.

By choosing wisely...do they need to be attractive?...and make you horny?...a certain age group?....or something else?
 
It sounds like you want somebody to service your needs - social, sexual, and perhaps emotional. And I get very little sense that you would have any interest in their needs. (Saying "I want somebody to have sex with" might suggest you'd care what their needs are. Saying "I want somebody I can give my load to" suggests you don't.) Those sorts of one-way streets are usually the kind that people have to pay for.

Lex
 
ooh try fine auction house
_lot folk buy ans sell auction house_

or lots

thankyou
 
It sounds like you want somebody to service your needs - social, sexual, and perhaps emotional. And I get very little sense that you would have any interest in their needs. (Saying "I want somebody to have sex with" might suggest you'd care what their needs are. Saying "I want somebody I can give my load to" suggests you don't.) Those sorts of one-way streets are usually the kind that people have to pay for.
Lex

Because I said give my load instead of saying somebody to have sex with? It's the same fucking thing! I'm a top. You dudes on here make something out of nothing. No wonder most of you all all have post totals in the thousands. Get out
 
Because I said give my load instead of saying somebody to have sex with? It's the same fucking thing! I'm a top. You dudes on here make something out of nothing. No wonder most of you all all have post totals in the thousands. Get out

OK, now I REALLY know why you can't find somebody to have sex with. :)

Lex
 
Based on your few posts, you don't want a friend, and you don't deserve one.

You want a bottom that clings to you; one that's your "buddy", but also your sex partner when you feel you need one.

And you don't deserve one.

Now, feel free to make fun of my post count - but bear in mind, I have gay, bi and straight friends. No problem in finding them. Next time you want advice, try not being an asshole.
 
Why is it so hard to obtain real guy friends that you can call to talk to about a number of things, do stuff with, fuck and give them your load? Not necessarily a couple, just good friends. I don't understand. I'm really beginning to believe that gay guys just want dick and nutt! After that they dissappear until wherever

I'm meeting them in the wrong places, but online sites and apps are a joke, few guys at the bar meet my expectations, a lot of times I just don't feel like putting up with the club.

I doesn't matter where you meet gay guys, a lot of them have the same agenda. Whether it be a bar, app, club, or bookstore. Getting lucky

I don't want too many friends, never have. That's too many variables with the capability of altering my world negatively with merging their problems into my life . I do want to go back to having options.

Just the guys that make me horny. The others, just friends to hang out indulge in common hobbies

I try to choose wisely the people I let into my life. But lately I feel that I've been dropping the ball.

Sometimes I have a problem initiating brief conversations with strangers. If we start talking about something I'm into that really oils my machine.

Because I said give my load instead of saying somebody to have sex with? It's the same fucking thing! I'm a top. You dudes on here make something out of nothing. No wonder most of you all all have post totals in the thousands. Get out

You certainly don't make a good first impression. You could work on your people skills. Honey... it isn't them... it's YOU.
 
Because I said give my load instead of saying somebody to have sex with? It's the same fucking thing! I'm a top. You dudes on here make something out of nothing. No wonder most of you all all have post totals in the thousands. Get out

As I suspected. It didn't take long.

pssstt...the problem isn't the other guys...

pssssttt again...you don't need to thank me....I can feel your warmth and gratitude through the screen already.... and it's more than enough..|
 
Looks like we've been fooled by a very bored sock. Naughty.
 
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