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Why most gays DON'T have a big wedding ?

Telstra

Telstra

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Sad isn't it ? :(


Oh well no wedding is better and richer. :)
 
In my book it is not about the wedding. It is about the partner and our relationship. Then I want the civil rights and laws to support us like it would any so called heterosexual married couple.

I will stop there, before I become offensive. Thanks for posing this question.

Shep+..|;):kiss:
 
I'd love a big wedding surrounded by friends and family but considering my family is 100% conservative, straight, and hardcore Christian, I don't think that'll be happening.
 
Well if I was straight I would've had a huge wedding, because in Indian weddings you invite every person who is related to you (unless there is beef than of course you wouldn't invite those people :rolleyes:), all of the in-laws of every person that is related to you, and of course you're friends and friends of your family. But since I'm gay I'm glad I won't be having all those people at my wedding. I seriously doubt many of them will come now when they find out I'd be marrying a guy, which is a good thing, because I wouldn't want all these people I've never met at my wedding anyway.
 
We're having to attend a wedding reception for cousins who married in Turks and Caicos and honeymooned in Fiji.

It will be at a wedding palace. they have rented everyone hotel rooms.

It will be 'glamorous'.

and big. and awful.

I'm praying for early death.
 
rareboy said:
We're having to attend a wedding reception for cousins who married in Turks and Caicos and honeymooned in Fiji.

It will be at a wedding palace. they have rented everyone hotel rooms.

It will be 'glamorous'.

and big. and awful.

I'm praying for early death.
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Fiji isn't exactly the greatest country to be gay, I believe there are still some fellow Aussies in jail there for being gay.

On a light note, Telstra I will invite you to my wedding because it will be big and ultra glam and I'll be looking prettier then Cheryl at Daz's wedding!
 
slickery said:
Fiji isn't exactly the greatest country to be gay, I believe there are still some fellow Aussies in jail there for being gay.

On a light note, Telstra I will invite you to my wedding because it will be big and ultra glam and I'll be looking prettier then Cheryl at Daz's wedding!
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I'm sorry, but it ain't great being gay in Australia either. You don't have gay marriage or adoption or anything like that.

Sure, you won't be put into prison for being gay, but you still don't have some of the basic human rights, which is sad.
 
My ceremony was small, we only had the people we wanted there, we actually told people they weren't invited.
 
We had a relatively small but very elegant wedding with roughly 80 family and friends. We were legally married (as opposed to civil union) in July this year after living together for 10 years. We had the wedding at our home in our summer gardens. My sister was my best man, my partner also had his sister as his best man. We had his sisters partner marry us as she is a licensed minister. His parents were there, and my Mother, (my father died three years ago) His three siblings were there and three of mine as well. The sun shone throughout the whole day but it wasn't too hot. Just a lovely lovely day. I had several cousins pissed off with me because I didn't invite them, one still isn't talking to me.
 
As long as two people who love each other are allowed to marry, then *every* wedding is a big wedding to me.
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(But of course, an open bar and a little salmon in dill sauce is nice, too... :lol: )
 
Imagining a huge bunch of gay people in a grand place gives me the idea of a formal orgy :lol:

But I don't think a glamorous flamboyant wedding concept reflects the next stage of the couples.
 
I think the amount of money some people spend on a wedding day is pathetic.

Even if I had the right to get married I wouldn't waste good money on a wedding. They just seem pointless. I much prefer funerals. At least you kind of know what to feel at a funeral. Everytime i've been to a wedding I just feel bored and like "what's the big deal" about the sorry affair.
 
sokker said:
I'm sorry, but it ain't great being gay in Australia either. You don't have gay marriage or adoption or anything like that.

Sure, you won't be put into prison for being gay, but you still don't have some of the basic human rights, which is sad.
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What are you on about, we've got all human rights here! If you're referring to marriage as a human right, it isn't really as its not needed to live.

And it is great being gay here as well. I've lived in many places around the world in past lives, and I must say (despite the patriotism) that my country has been the most comfortable to live being gay.
 
Well we have our civil partnership ceremony on the 28th of this month so 3 week to go and have only 20 people going including our self's. We don't want big.
 
I would probably buy a nice suit but I don't want a big ceremony either. A lavish honeymoon on the other hand...
 
Well, i wouldn't want to waste money on weddings.

Spend money on your house is better.
 
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