Why the hell would an homo want to be fucked by an hetero....?

[boxerdudeuk]

Everyone's different and likely they have their own motivations or reasons for finding that scenario desirable. You probably can't apply a blanket reason.

 

[jfrankie]

Well, it's about seduction...

Someone people like to be seduced... some people like to be seductive. I know that's very eurythmics, but the idea is that I feel most sexy when I'm able to seduce someone else... the bigger the challenge, the sexier it is. If you're in a relationship with someone, trying to turn them on in completely inappropriate places is fun. Think libraries and museums and funerals. And now imagine seducing a "hetero..." very sexy if you ask me.


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[saymyname]

Some people like being demeaned and degraded during sex... duh...

 

[MarkDW]

I don't understand this at all.....to be fucked by a guy who doesn't have any interest in you at all sexually would be very demeaning and humiliating....

i know some who fantasise about this....is it something to do with being fucked by a *real man*???

hahahaha!!!!!

I think if the str8 is fucking you, then he has interest, sexually. So you've never had meaningless sex?

 

[SilverWolf]

Some reasons...

1. Straights are more masculine because they are straight
2. More desirable
3. Real men
4. Straight cocks give life and gay cock gives death
5. Sex with straight guys is not gay
6. Forbidden fruit
7. Challenge of the hunt
8. Not feminine (see 1)

I tried to thinking logically about these reasons and came to the conclusion that most of gay men suffer SLHS (self loathing homo syndrome)or in mild cases have an obsessive desire to be with straight guys (which has a higher chance of changing than SLHS) and only go after straight guys.

Some don't have SLHS but just want a challenge...I don't see what the challenge is in seducing a guy that has no sexual interest in you, but whatever.

And the remaining few of us, actually desire gay men

And no, those aren't the only reasons, but just the ones I've heard most here.

 

[SilverWolf]

We are attracted to people, not sexualities.

Our physical bodies do not know the difference between a hot gay man and a hot straight man, we just know "HOT!"

It is our minds that we must work on to remind us what happens when the sex is over

So why? Because MEN are hot and being gay doesn't make you immune to being attracted to straight men, it is an annoying fact, but a fact none-the-less.

In reading your post, I have to add something to mine.

I was not referring to the guys who see a guy and think he is hot. I was talking about the guys that see a guy they think is initially hot, find out he is gay, then think he is not as hot. But when they see a guy they think is hot, find out he is straight, and think he is more attractive because he is straight.

Initial attraction to people does not notice sexuality, but once you learn where they stand (gay, straight, bi or other) and you find yourself more attracted to straight guys more, and not so attracted to gay guys, that is where I talked some possible reasons some gay men want straight men.

 

[MercuryJones]

Several potential reasons, as well as combinations of more than one of the following:

1. Some guys are very hot and happen to be straight
2. Some people like a challenge
3. The more rare the commodity the more interesting - and a straight guy who will fuck another man is rarer than diamonds
4. A feeling of power
5. Just to see if you can

I don't see anything necessarily demeaning or humiliating in it for the gay guy - if he's doing what he wants to do, how is he demeaned?

 

[jdbadboy]

I'd rather just fuck the str8 guy if he has a nice ass.

 

[MercuryJones]

The reason why i'm asking this is in the Hot Men and Gay Porn is that i have read some of the comments about 'gay for pay' actors on here,and wondered how some of the gay actors feel about being screwed by them.......can they just switch off emotionally?...is it going through their mind that this guy does not really want to be there?...is there any rules about not kissing?...etc

In porn and in prostitution there are probably a lot of people having sex with people they're not attracted to, regardless of sexual orientation.

 

[Rex]

It's a fetish thing.

Straight men are usually more masculine and are associated with more manly things, which makes them attractive to gay guys.

It's also the seduction thing that someone else mentioned.

 

[HornyHenry]

I never understood why either but I would be perfectly happy to be the Top and screw a hetero, pump a load in him and add him to my list of conquests.
I have actually fucked a couple and three gave good head as well.
Of course if a dude fucks women and has sex with men he is actually bisexual.
Most heterosexual men are less masculine than the gay men I knew.

 

[neruda]

Mikey we gay guys are largely less confident in our sexuality.
Mostly because of widespread social disapproval.
But yes, I agree our sexuality has little to do with our masculinity.

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

Straight men are usually more masculine and are associated with more manly things, which makes them attractive to gay guys.

They are?
...manly things? Like standing up to pee?

It [masculinity] used to be measured by the content of one's character and the size of one's weapon (now it's the weight of one's purse), and lets face it--a bloody nose tends to bring out the feminine side in most everyone regardless of whether they're straight, gay, bi or jedi.

 

[Willie Boy]

I don't understand this at all.....to be fucked by a guy who doesn't have any interest in you at all sexually would be very demeaning and humiliating....

i know some who fantasise about this....is it something to do with being fucked by a *real man*???

hahahaha!!!!!

For those that fantasize about it it isn't so much about the fucking. It's all about the "forbidden fruit", about something out of reach. They just have to sample it. Its the opposite side of playing hard to get.

 

[bankside]

No straight guy would fuck me because if he would be fucking me then he wouldn't be straight.

It is possible that a guy who likes to pretend he's straight would want to fuck me. It is also possible that a bi-curious guy who only has known the straight side of life would want to fuck me, but then he wouldn't be straight, he would be bi-curious. If he liked it, he would be bi. If he didn't, he could either be straight, or he could just look for another situation with a guy that he would enjoy.

Straight men don't fuck men, period. Gay, bi, or bi-curious guys do.

 

[ShihTzuTylenol]

No straight guy would fuck me because if he would be fucking me then he wouldn't be straight.

It is possible that a guy who likes to pretend he's straight would want to fuck me. It is also possible that a bi-curious guy who only has known the straight side of life would want to fuck me, but then he wouldn't be straight, he would be bi-curious. If he liked it, he would be bi. If he didn't, he could either be straight, or he could just look for another situation with a guy that he would enjoy.

Straight men don't fuck men, period. Gay, bi, or bi-curious guys do.

Good point, but what if the above mentioned guy picks up a tranny and discovers the extra appendage after he already got a hard-on, so he thinks "what the hell" and gets a piece of ass. And lets say he liked it. Does that make him Tran-curious, Slightly-Bent or Straight with benefits?

 

[bankside]

That would make him Trans-inspired.

LOL.

 

[lucem-ferre]

it's all about the hunt and getting something that is supposedly "unattainable." and once you get it, it's amazing.

 

[PhunkSpunk]

such a complex question.

I agree to have some straight guy use you as his 'bitch' would be demeaning. I'd recommend therapy over sex, though as has been pointed out above, some guys get off on this, just like some straight guys get off on being demeaned by women. They feel 'guilty' about their sexuality, and can only get off in the setting of punishment or humiliation.

In the first episode of the current season of 'Mad Men' the newly-divorced Don has a hooker slap him during sex. My take is that since he's no longer cheating on his wife, he needs to feel like he's doing something 'naughty' to get off.

Many of the otherwise straight 'curious' guys I have run into are actually more curious about getting fucked than fucking.

Of course 'straight' guys are by definition unavailable and therefore more desirable. I think that's a human thing, not a gay one.

However there is an unfortunate tendency among gays to see straight guys as somehow being more 'masculine'. That's more a stereotype than a reality.

 

[diamondstar]

Personally, I feel it's all about attraction. It really doesn't matter to a gay man if the person they desire is gay or straight. However, more importantly what his eyes and body find appealing.