Why the obsession with (BIG) size?

[TheTrish]

Hi! Does it feel better? Or do you think it should feel better? Or are you turned on that someone so obviously sexual is turned on by your scrawny body?



I know this topic is “Just 4 fun,” but I would like some serious answers too.

When I was 13, my family went to the same beach where we had been going for years, and I was getting bumps and curves, tho most of my friends were a lot more developed than I was which was kind of embarrassing to me. Anywho, this man in his 40s who had worked there for years and knew me told me how pretty I was. We were alone and he eased up next to me and said “I want to FU CK you.” I didn’t say anything, so he continued. “I want to stick my cock in your pussy and FUCK you.” I knew what he wanted, but I still did not say anything. He backed up: “I guess you’re still too young.” I‘ve thought about this a lot over the years and wish I had of said something. Who knows where I’d be today, maybe not obsessing over older people because of their more sexually developed bodies and their experience? It is quite a mind trip to think that I, with my petite body can be sexually attractive to peeps who have it all! LOL

T

 

[Mutinous]

I'm a skinny bitch really, and I think bigger men just are a turn on because you feel more protected and that, its a power thing I guess.

Don't regret things you can't change, just go out there and try to make it happen

 

[incognito604]

I'm a skinny bitch really, and I think bigger men just are a turn on because you feel more protected and that, its a power thing I guess.

Don't regret things you can't change, just go out there and try to make it happen

Same for me too ..... we are talking "body" size.
Cocks are a different catagory

 

[racer2438]

My b/f is tall and husky 6'2" and I am much smaller at 5'7. But he is a big furry bear and is well built did alot of football and wieght lifting. I look at him as my big protector. when he hugs me I just feel so secure and safe.

I have sometimes gotton my self in trouble and he is right there to help and stand up for me.

I love him to death and we have been togther for 24 yrs now.

 

[sentirpromesas]

yeah...i like being the smaller guy in the relationship...i kinda like to be slightly smothered during sex...i guess it goes back to The Smooshing Game, where me and a friend of mine (we were like 9) used to take turns laying on top of each other...sometimes back to front, other times front to front or even back to back...but for my own personal convictions ive realized that whenever im with a bigger guy, i end up letting myself be controlled cuz its easier to fit into gendered terms...so i force myself to date guys about my size...but sometimes, i wonder how it would feel to be with someone who could literally protect me from the world...

 

[TheTrish]

Hi, everybody! Thanks, and I agree. I usually go for the 6'2", 225 guys. Tho my current boyfriend is a 5'9" beanpole.

But really, tho, I was talking about cock size. For example, when peeps here refer to a guy, they'll say "He's got a BIG cock!" Why that obsession?

T

 

[evil_danger]

I'm a bigger guy, I dont like it, I love to be the submissive person in the relationship, I want someone to hold me, make me feel protected and loved, but then I never had that at home much, so I guess thats where it comes from.

 

[MrBarbrey]

i'm 6'2" about 6'3" and my weight is 190 which is just sad

 

[TheTrish]

i'm 6'2" about 6'3" and my weight is 190 which is just sad

Hi, MrB! Why is that sad?

T