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Why The Obsession With Str8 Guys?

Can a man still be str8 if he has sex with other men?

  • Yes

    Votes: 24 40.0%

  • No

    Votes: 25 41.7%

  • Not Sure

    Votes: 1 1.7%

  • I dont give a rats ass!!

    Votes: 10 16.7%
  • Total voters
    60
  • Poll closed .
Some gay men seem to put heterosexual men on this pedestal. Straight men are hotter physically, and so are their actions. Many dating sites you see 'straight acting, no fems.' I think a lot of gay men are fascinated with this 'boy next door image' because a) it is less obvious that he's gay and b) it's 'normal' and c) getting a straight guy is certainly a stroke of the ego ;)

Experimenting is normal, but there's a point beyond experimenting...to where this 'straight' guy is doing it for pleasure...and he may oppress his sexuality because he is denial.

Personally I stick to gay men. We're hotter and know what we want in the bedroom (sometimes).
 
Excluding experimentation, he is either gay or bi.

I have no clue as to why some guys are obsessed with str8 guys. Seems like a great deal of unnecessary anguish to me.
 
i really can't understand the obsession that gays have with straight men.for me the very thought of having sex with a straight men is a turn off,i can barely tolerate a bisexual guy,imagine a straight one.

i think that this is sort of like a cultural thing,because in Europe i don't think that they care much about straights the way they do here in the USA,but i may be wrong,i guess.
 
Why are we trying to cram everyone into strictly defined boxes? If he does this, or that, is he gay/bi/straight? Does it really matter?

Guys are willing to try just about anything depending on the circumstances and those involved. If they are assured of the safety of their social standing, lots of "straight" guys will try "gay" things.

Human sexuality is extremely Fluid! What defines us is not what we might do, but rather what we are primarily attracted to.

As "gay" guys, we're attracted (mainly) to Guys, PERIOD! And, according to statistical percentages, we're surrounded by a vast majority of "straight" guys. (How we handle/deal with that is an entirely different matter.)

Can a straight guy get a blowjob, fuck, or even be fucked by, another guy, and still be "straight"? Well, if he's still Primarily attracted to Girls, then YES! What he did does not change his core attractions. And, it doesn't make him "bi", either.

But, that brings me back to my original question. Does it really matter??

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz :luv:
 
Kyanimal said:
Why are we trying to cram everyone into strictly defined boxes? If he does this, or that, is he gay/bi/straight? Does it really matter?
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This is my belief.

Labelling is a product of a personality that absolutely needs to define other people according their reckoning, and understandings that are measured according to their own life's experiences.

In my many years fucking with men I never discuss sexual labels, rather much preferred to concentrate on the matter at hand. No hang ups, and no psycho analysis of my partners' place in the bigger picture.

I am a happier man for avoiding generalisations, and for not labelling people who just happen to share my bed.
 
Jayden said:
If a guy is having sex with a gay man. Wants to have sex with a gay man. Guess what, he aint Str8. He is Bi.
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You really need to stop making sense, lol. It's all a fantasy, pure and simple. I had a roommate who was obessed with "str8 guys" and I kept telling him str8 guys don't fuck around with other guys and if he does, its only once and he's drunk and trust me, he doesn't go there again. If he has to be drunk or only calls after dark, he is just a closet case.
 
justdra said:
You really need to stop making sense, lol. It's all a fantasy, pure and simple. I had a roommate who was obessed with "str8 guys" and I kept telling him str8 guys don't fuck around with other guys and if he does, its only once and he's drunk and trust me, he doesn't go there again. If he has to be drunk or only calls after dark, he is just a closet case.
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Amen!! . . . .
 
I've said it before, I'll say it again... Animal, Vegetable, or Mineral, Living or Dead - somewhere a guy has stuck his dick in it to get off. It seems to be men's natures to spread his seed as far and as wide and as often as he can.

Occasionally, in this quest I'm sure it does happen where a straight oriented guy will choose to get off with a gay oriented guy...

I don't necessarily think that ALWAYS means the straight guy is gay, or bi-curious... It just means he was exceptionally horny at that moment, and you were in the right place at the right time.
 
Jayden said:
If a guy is having sex with a gay man. Wants to have sex with a gay man. Guess what, he aint Str8. He is Bi. Thread after thread of this hot str8 guy this n that. Why the obsession with str8 men?

So my question is this.

If a man has sex with another man. Is he Gay, Bi or can he really remain str8?
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This is what I think too. I think if a man is willingly having any kind of sex with another man, blowjob or whatever then he is at least to some degree of bisexual. Still can be much more straight than gay but if people want to label themselves as straight I don't really care. I guess at the end of the day people are what they believe they are.


As far as the obsession with straight guys, I think the reason is straight men have a raw masculinity that you don't see as commonly with gay men.
 
It just means he was exceptionally horny at that moment, and you were in the right place at the right time.
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Yes, cause the pinnacle on any gay man's existence is to be in that right place at that right time to satisfy the non-discriminate urges of what has been described by you as nature's sexual lemming. Let's hear it for the boy... :=D::=D::=D: :badgrin:

BTW, nice avatar...
 
I've had sex with a "straight" guy before, still do actually. He's a regular fuck-buddy.

But he came to me.


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I think the reason is straight men have a raw masculinity that you don't see as commonly with gay men.
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I think this is less a reason and more an excuse.

That raw masculinity you speak of, I know it. It's not what I consider attractive. To me, it denotes a person who has not been challenged throughout life. It's a naivety that is often confused as confidence. IMO, these guys are weak as water.
 
Sexual orientation isn't necessarily about with whom you have sex. It's about to whom you are physically and emotionally attracted. People can have sex with other people without necessarily being sexually attracted to them. Sometimes people are just turned on by the sex itself, not the person they're with. So, no, if a man has sex with another man, he isn't necessarily gay or bi. He is, however, rather slutty.
 
Words have a plain meaning and how people "feel about their identity" has nothing to do with it.

If you like women only, for sex or romance, you're straight.

If you like men only, for sex or romance, you're gay.

If you can see that potential with both men and women, you're bi.

You can be gay or straight, and willing to explore the other. That would make you bi-curious. If you try it and don't want any more of it, you can go back to being gay or straight. If you try it and like it, you're bi! Congratulations.

These are just words used to describe our willing behaviours or our cherished fantasies; if we "feel they don't apply," it doesn't really have any traction.

There are other possible words, but these ones have discrete meanings already.
 
fetaby said:
I think this is less a reason and more an excuse.

That raw masculinity you speak of, I know it. It's not what I consider attractive. To me, it denotes a person who has not been challenged throughout life. It's a naivety that is often confused as confidence. IMO, these guys are weak as water.
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Can you explain? How does it mean someone is weak?
 
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