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Why would a straight guy do something like this?

After me googling to check if it's common for brothers who share a room to jerk off together I just found this thread in the Fetish forum
http://www.justusboys.com/forum/threads/342951-Brother-on-Brother-Incest

Should have known I didn't need to go too far to find out that it's very common :-)

Maybe that is the reason why he's jerking off like that. He's just used to it and doesn't think there's anything wrong with it.
 
halunke said:
No, like I said, I'm extremely shy, very much to myself. I've been brought up that way and right now I cannot even imagine I could as much as be naked next to someone, let alone other things.
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What you call "extremely shy" could come across to your roommate as "prude". How he was raised may be way "too open" for you sexually, but in his mind he's the normal one. Typical college roommate stuff. He's not going to change, and neither are you it seems, so I'd say either ignore it, and not worry about it. Or if you can't stop yourself from obsessing on his motives, behaviors, and habits, change roommates. *shrug*

I remember one year when there were 4 of us in a college apartment. One roommate had a g/f and was always gone, but would pop in for 15 minutes every other day, eat a can of cold ravioli out of the can, toss the can in the trash, and leave. His total time in the apartment was maybe 2 or 3 hours per week. This drove one of the other roommates absolutely mental. He bitched and moaned about it nonstop. He had to move out finally because we couldn't take his bitching any more. I never could understand why he cared so much, but he did. Some people just aren't meant to live with other people. It is what it is.
 
Now my stupid ass would have put the can in the microwave blown out the circuit box.
 
offthewall14420 said:
That sounds like the perfect roommate. Ravioli dude.
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As long as he was paying the rent :D

To the OP if it's a distraction from what you need to get done, homework and studies, find a new place.
 
Oh boy, I could say quite a bit on this. Where to start?

First off dude, there is a lot of good info and advice in this thread. Head it wisely.



eastofeden said:
What I would do...sleep naked with no covers yourself...just because it feels good to sleep naked. See what happens....
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^this


jayallday said:
I have been on many all-male sports teams and all of the guys I basically grew up with are straight, so trust me when I say this: that's just what straight guys do :) And only us - the gay guys - will notice that they put a hand in their pants and start playing with their balls ;) Thats just how most of them are. Same with showing off their dicks :) If a guy has something to show, you will probably see it at some point :) It's just showing that they feel comfortable. Hell, I'm gay, but act the same way around them, cuz that just how it always was and probably will be.

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If, and thats a BIG if IMO, he makes a move then you can think what to do about it, but for now I would just enjoy the views and not think about it much. Think about it this way: it may actually help you - you will get used to see guys naked and when you have a boyfriend you will feel more comfortable taking your own clothes off from the get go :)
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^ and this.


I'm coming from the perspective of your roomie.
I am a nudist and very much a "man's man" type of dude.
You would hate me as a roommate.

Because I would be naked all the time and jo around you, piss and shit with the door open and if you didn't reciprocate, it would weird me the fuck out.

Even though I never had brothers, I'm a military brat who grew up with two large sets of buddies who were brothers (6 brothers in each set) and included me in with their respective"packs". I also played sports growing up and I've had male roommates off and on for several years now.




Question for you.
You said he didn't do these things before you came out to him, but started soon after.
Seeing as how school just started for most college kids only about a few weeks ago, how long are we talking here where he didn't do these things before your big reveal?





Last year when I moved into a dorm-like complex for college students, it took at least a couple weeks for the roomie and I to become comfortable with each other before we could be ourselves around each other. I was fortunate to discover he was a fellow nudist who eventually joined in on occasion to the open jo sessions. He was also straight, only 19 and had a girlfriend. Interestingly, he initiated much of the nudity and jo sessions himself and I was constantly catching him checking me out, sometimes blatantly staring at my junk, so I returned the favor and even complimented him a couple times....he had a nice cock. We eventually bonded to where he felt like a little brother to me, but his school year was up in August and he decided to take a year off and move in with his girl, so now he is missed.




My point.
It may have taken a few weeks for him to be comfortable to be himself around you.
Wanting to bond with other dudes to feel accepted, inclusive and seeking "approval" from someone you like, respect and admire doesn't always mean there is a hidden agenda of wanting sex from you. Even though the things he does to him are normal but to you are awkward, absurd and inappropriate.


It sounds like you both grew up differently, like, polar opposites of each other.
If you're not willing to either join in on the whole nudity and open jo sessions or at least let it go and not let it bother you, all you can do is request to be paired with someone more conducive to your social sensitivities.

Just remember though, the whole point of college is to help you gradually become exposed to the larger world, to help you come out of your shell. You will have to stop hiding at some point.
 
Enjoy the eye candy and don't tell him you don't think he's attractive. Maybe he wants a blow job, as some have said, but not likely. My gut instinct is that he really is 100% straight, but also vain. He wants to show off his body and he wants positive feedback. Whether from a man or a woman. Go ahead and compliment him on what's good. Don't do in in a "oh yes, papi, give it to me long, hard and deep" kind of way, but just in a "man I envy you for that" way.
 
Make him jealous bring a cute boy around and ignore him completely see how to reacts to that :)
 
Good Grief. Using jealousy just to get someone's attention? That's about the behavior level of a 12-year old.

But more importantly, learn to approach others. Staying in your own head about your shyness is a form of self-absorption: all you can think about is what you feel. If you're ever going to have a healthy relationship, get out of your head, perhaps into therapy and learn how to engage a guy so that you are thinking about him instead of all your fears. You're young. Shyness is normal, but as you get older, if you don't learn how to attract guys by being the initiator instead of the wallflower, you may find yourself very alone in the later years of life.
 
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