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Why is it that no one wants someone who won't cheat on them, compliment them regularly, treat them with respect, and ALL this other stuff...it seems like EVERYONE else can get a boyfriend, but I can't....wtf is wrong with this....:cry:
 
I think I'll need a little more info before I can attempt to answer this question. You just keep striking out?

Lex
 
<-- Can't* get a boyfriend either.
Don't worry about it.
Someone will come along when you least expect it; or so I'm told.

*Can't. Won't. Meh, same diff right?
 
Cool. Are you one of those guys, who is simply hoping that your future Mr. Right will simply walk through the front door one of these days?

I am only asking.

Tell us, what are doing, save for having a good attitude, towards really getting yourself a BF?

Frankly, I also think that most Mr. Rights are neith found nor caught nor hunted down nor anything. They are mostly made by your reciprocal interaction.

SC
 
You have to be proactive, and I am sorry if you are being already, but most people who complain about being single are just sitting in front of their computers all day saying I want a BF.

You have to get out there and date and meet people etc. I have been single for the last few months, but I try and make sure that I can get a date set up for nearly every weekend, and if not that I get out to bars and clubs and meet people, either with friends or alone.

Some dates turn out disaterous, sure and in so many different ways, but afew are nice and get a second date and slowly the group dwindles but some potentail bfs are there and I can decide who to get more serious with.

But this takes time and energy and commitment to meet new dates and a certain amout of proactivness.

There are guys out there, but you have to be looking.
 
I'm another one who cant seam to find a partner, need a jub singles night!

Okay so I'm not exactly chucking myself out there, but I'm not hiding away either. It just pisses me off everyone else falls into a relationship, yet I have such trouble.
 
You have to be in the right place at the right time.

You have to be open to experiences that maybe you haven't tried yet.

You've also given us the list of good qualities. Maybe you just come off as appearing too good for some guys....maybe just a little needy or clingy for instance.

As you can see, there are a number of guys with the same problem.
 
You have to be in the right place at the right time.

You have to be open to experiences that maybe you haven't tried yet.

You've also given us the list of good qualities. Maybe you just come off as appearing too good for some guys....maybe just a little needy or clingy for instance.

As you can see, there are a number of guys with the same problem.

I agree with this, love seams to find people when they least expect it, just by being open your allowing people in, it seams to me that the people who look for love dont really find it, yet those who have no intrest just fall into long term relationships.
 
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