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wisdom for a 1st timer

Exploring said:
No insults intended here, but I do find it curious that the gay world seems to be about jumping from one guy to another, glory holes, bars, etc and yet I'm getting lectured pretty strongly about being faithful. Truly - no accusations here - just observations.
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Oh.

No.

You.

Fucking.

Didn't.


this is a no-flame zone. which means you're going to get the Soilwork-Lite version.

My first relationship was for 3 years. We were totally monogamous. It ended when I was 22.

My second relationship was for 13 years. We were totally monogamous. It lasted for 13 years. We're still very close friends.

My present relationship is ALMOST monogamous.. meaning that we have - on rare occasions - had sex with other men at the same time.. never when the other guy isn't there.

I've never stuck my dick in a glory hole, jumped from bed to bed and last time I checked, straight people have bars too. I may be wrong.. I live in WeHo and don't see many straights in their native environment.






My heart still pounds to think about being in that hotel room for two nights with him!!!
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well then.. guess you're not as happily married as you claim. Enjoy. But don't expect us to cheer from the side-lines
 
And now for Uncle Soil's advice.

Exploring said:
So, it's the typical question I guess. Do I try something? How? Or do I just jack off in the hotel shower and forget it? Obviously I'm nervous but can hardly wait to be in a hotel with him for 2 nights!!!!
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Jakc off right now. Think about him. Then wipe your hands and look at a picture of you and your family. Multiply that feeling by 25 and THAT is how you'll feel for the rest of your life. (if you have any dignity as a man at all, that is)

No, you do not "try something" other than getting your own room and calling your wife.

THanks!
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you're welcome.
 
KennyD said:
What is the chance that this guy is just pulling our leg and playing like "Devil's Advocate" ; just to see what our responses will be .... ???
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then he now knows that gay men don't just blindly support cheating on your wife.
 
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