Woah! Red Alert! Advice, Please!!

[SayWhat]

In almost every thread I've read and/or started that involved initiating something with a "straight" guy, someone says "Get them to watch a porn with you and wait 'til they get turned on and go for it."

I always disregarded this suggestion because I thought it would be too obvious to the guy that it was a seduction technique.

Then tonight threw me for a loop!! The "straight" guy flipped the scenario. We were watching TV and he suddenly suggests "Let's download some porn and watch it in your room".

The movies are downloading now (stupid slow internet connection!!!) and he wants to watch them tomorrow night. They're straight porn, but he specified he didn't want lesbian porn because he wanted to see a guy fucking a girl.

Do straight guys seriously plan on watching porn with other guys? Especially guys they know are gay?! I could maybe disregard it as a random horny impulse, but I think making plans to watch it the next night is a little different.

Am I overreacting, or does this seem like he's using the advice that I threw out the window against me??

 

[Lefty]

You advertise yourself as BI. maybe he wants to watch some porn with that straight side of the fence.

I watch M/F porn with my straight friends, even have a little stuff besides the popcorn....and no, I don't mean soft drinks or sex.

Dude feels comfortable with you...

course, he just might be curious...go and enjoy....but he makes the moves
(if any) not you.

 

[evanrick]

there are no straight or gay men, only men with penises.

 

[SayWhat]

there are no straight or gay men, only men with penises.

Hahaha. I love this.

 

[123kid]

there are no straight or gay men, only men with penises.

uhhhh yeah, couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[SayWhat]

Well that was a total wash. He picked out the porn and didn't even get into it at all. He made comments about things the guys and girls were doing that turned him off the whole time.

The only semi-interest he had was when he made comments like "I hope he cums on her face or chest" and then he got annoyed because the guys were busting inside the girls.

I dunno... I wasn't expecting him to be like "Oh my God, I'm so horny I can't take it! Blow me now!!!", but I thought he'd at least show some interest. I'm kinda thinking "What was the whole point of this again??"

 

[lambdaboy]

One of the str8 room mates I had came home one nigth (Knew I was Gay) and said you have any porn. I said 3 of them but they are gay he said Oh. I said we could do pay porn on cable. He sadi you just have the one TV with cable rigth. I said yeah I like porn he said did not think youd get into str8 I joked that I liked at least 50% of it he laughed knwoing I mean the guys. He said not sure it would work I was wanking to watch it in my room and use the old hand. I said us guys do that too and he laughed. He sadi oh what the fuck if you seer me rin to the joh you will know hway and laughed. 15 min later I was kneeling between his legs giving him his first blpw job from a guy and I guess his last. Stayed with me 6 more months we just never talkjed about it. Vant blame me for trying he was hot grin

 

[BoiOnFire]

OK even though it's against my better judgement I'm going to give you some advice. However I am not going to take responsibility for the outcome. In my experience 99.9% of these situations never end well and usually both parties end up never speaking again. I have in my life noticed 2 types of encounters with straight men, the ones secure enough to ask outright for a blowjob and the ones who can only vaguely hint at what they want. It sounds to me that your friend is hinting to you that he wants something to happen. If you want to have an encounter with him you're going to have to be the one to initiate it. That being said be prepared to end up losing him as a friend. While curious guys can rationalize the act it's self they tend to hate seeing a reminder of it. And here's a line that rarely failed to get me into a straight guys pants, if your talking about sex brag that you give the worlds best head, and when he says his girlfriend gives great head tell him only a guy can give the best head because he knows exactly what another guy wants and how to do it. For some it becomes a sort of a challenge thing and for others it sticks in their minds. Within a week at most of saying that, in my experience, they will be asking for a demonstration....enjoy

 

[SayWhat]

OK even though it's against my better judgement I'm going to give you some advice. However I am not going to take responsibility for the outcome. In my experience 99.9% of these situations never end well and usually both parties end up never speaking again. I have in my life noticed 2 types of encounters with straight men, the ones secure enough to ask outright for a blowjob and the ones who can only vaguely hint at what they want. It sounds to me that your friend is hinting to you that he wants something to happen. If you want to have an encounter with him you're going to have to be the one to initiate it. That being said be prepared to end up losing him as a friend. While curious guys can rationalize the act it's self they tend to hate seeing a reminder of it. And here's a line that rarely failed to get me into a straight guys pants, if your talking about sex brag that you give the worlds best head, and when he says his girlfriend gives great head tell him only a guy can give the best head because he knows exactly what another guy wants and how to do it. For some it becomes a sort of a challenge thing and for others it sticks in their minds. Within a week at most of saying that, in my experience, they will be asking for a demonstration....enjoy

I actually value his friendship more than I'd value him as a conquest. So I'll probably never try to initiate something because I'd hate to see him uncomfortable around me. It's just frustrating because he usually initiates things between us and it seems like we've been getting more and more physical, just nothing actually sexual yet. Bah!