Working With Will

[inlovewithblair]

Hopefully Will ends up being better than Josh was... that fucking idiot!

LMFAO.

 

[ProfessorD]

Oscar Wilde is probably cumming in his grave. I know I am.

Good for you, babe!

 

[Kyanimal]

And then he undid my pants and told me to take them off. Of course, I didn't hesitate, but I was really surprised.

Overall, it's been a really good weekend.

... just ... !!!



Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[cityboi]

If you truly believe he hasn't been with any other guys, at least in a while, why not let him penetrate you? Some guys have asked me to pull out before cumming, which I did, as difficult as it was. After a while they got to trust me and let me explode in them. It's a matter of trust.

 

[hotatlboi]

If you truly believe he hasn't been with any other guys, at least in a while, why not let him penetrate you? Some guys have asked me to pull out before cumming, which I did, as difficult as it was. After a while they got to trust me and let me explode in them. It's a matter of trust.

Because that kind of casual trust leads to spreading disease in many cases. Sex without condoms should imo only take place in a committed relationship where both people have been tested and completely trust the other to not sleep around.

 

[kramer362]

If you truly believe he hasn't been with any other guys, at least in a while, why not let him penetrate you? Some guys have asked me to pull out before cumming, which I did, as difficult as it was. After a while they got to trust me and let me explode in them. It's a matter of trust.

Some people are selfish hedonists and would lie in order to bareback because it feels better than sex with a condom. Not implying Will is like this but better safe than sorry right?

And just because he hasn't been with guys doesn't mean he couldn't have some std in remission, guys can get stds from chicks too...

 

[inlovewithblair]

I'm afraid to say what's been on the back of my mind this whole time, but I honestly don't know how long this will last. I've been through all this before with Josh and I just keep seeing this whole thing mirroring my best friend in high school. Around 10th grade, we experimented--which is what Will is doing now. I don't even remember how it started, but we'd stay the night with each other and it started with just jerking each other off before we went to bed, then it was blow jobs, and eventually we finally had sex. Up until the time we had sex, we'd pretend like nothing was happening and like there was nothing between us. After we had sex, things got weird between us and we eventually stopped being friends. Now he lives in another state and I haven't talked to him in 5 years. I've heard he's a youth minister at his church and is getting married next year. And now I'm afraid the same thing will happen with Will. And yes, I realize it's my fault for putting myself in this situation, yet again. I just needed to vent.



I don't want to offend anyone for their personal opinion here, but I just wanted to be a positive influence. Not to mention, std's scare me a little.

Will seems like he's too much of a good person to stop talking to you. But, if you're scared, then that's the risk you're taking. You only live once. You don't want to think, in five years, Oh what could have been.

 

[kramer362]

That's what I've been telling myself. I just hope it's true.

I gotta say though, Will seems like a good guy. You never know how he's handling the fact that if things between you two get serious other people will find out, but he seems to be dealing pretty damn good with his feelings at least between texting you saying he misses you when he was away, to grabbing your leg (I think that's what you wrote) riding in your pickup with other people there.

I don't know about your friend in high school but there's probably a maturity difference between a 16 year old kid who was more than likely in a religious household since he's a youth pastor now, and Will. And as for Josh, well I will say that Will doesn't seem to be afraid of his feelings the way Josh was. The only worry that hasn't been made clear is how Will would react to other people finding out about you two, but he CLEARLY digs you.

 

[yeahman21]

Exactly Kramer. Your friend was young. Will is not.

 

[star-warrior]

You lucky devil

 

[inlovewithblair]

I want a picture of Will so bad though! LOL.

 

[danniflava]

^^ Yes, a picture sounds perfect right about now. Picture perfect, actually.

 

[nautiboyjeff]

How much of you and your high school best friend is YOU? Many times when things get weird it's usually because there is something someone needs to say so most people just take the easy way out and AVOID EACH OTHER.

Communication is the key in relationships and friendships.

If things get a little awkward, you can try to talking him to help him out. I am making a HUGE LEAP that he's straight (which I don't believe). He obviously has had the desire to be with a guy before with his other friend that he regretted, further he thought about you on vacation and verbalized that to you. But anyway back to the point, if you did have sex and he gets a little weird, then say "maybe this isn't for you" or give him some opening to explain. Most people want to talk they just don't know how or are afraid of what YOU think.

Here's the other thing James. If he is using you to see if he is gay or he wants to explore with you but he's really not gay, then the whole basis of your friendship is suspect. Why not explore a little and see if that's the true intentions? Word of caution; you should be careful not to push him - because you need to know - into something that's not his real motivation or you set up a scenario for failure. You will have to just use your judgment. If he does have feelings for you and he is gay, you are the guy who helps him have that realization - I think you are a terrific guy to help someone get there and decide if this is the thing for them or not.

This is a fun time in relationships, it's fun not knowing everything about another person. If this blossoms into a relationship, I am sure you will have some good times laughing and talking about how you got there. If there isn't a relationship, you had an extraordinary adventure with a guy you really like and can put this down as a good learning experience.

Still wishing you luck and hoping eagerly checking daily for updates.

Jeff

 

[954dude]

This thread ROCKS! Honestly, it's one of the best and I look forward to updates. Wherever this friendship or relationship is heading, no one knows. But be there for each other and be strong.

 

[Muscles4daze]

If you truly believe he hasn't been with any other guys, at least in a while, why not let him penetrate you? Some guys have asked me to pull out before cumming, which I did, as difficult as it was. After a while they got to trust me and let me explode in them. It's a matter of trust.

He is just starting to get to know this guy, he does not need to be having unprotected sex with him, or anyone else for that matter.

 

[AstareGod]

Will told me today that he's quitting. It's taking too much time away from his studying.

Oh jeez, for a quick second I thought you meant he was quitting spending time with you But glad to know it's not that. I just hope this doesn't put any strain on the finances and that you two can continue doing fun stuff together.

 

[inlovewithblair]

Will told me today that he's quitting. It's taking too much time away from his studying. He's taking some online classes. But it's okay. I'm glad he's focusing on school. And we'll get to hang out more, so I can't complain about that. But I'm not looking forward to not seeing him at work.

Nooo!

That's where the adventures began. Tear.

 

[Kyanimal]

Whew! THANK GOODNESS! Will is "only" quitting The Job, and not YOU!!! For a second, there, I think I was experiencing Heart Palpitations!!

This does sound like a good, Conscientious, decision on his part. I am truly heartened that he is putting his education First!!

Though your schedules will change, and you won't be seeing him at work (Absence makes that Heart ...), the UPside is, His time may now be freer to spend more time with You!!

I'm sure you Two will be keeping in touch! And ... I do mean ... in Touch!!

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

 

[gameboy 11]

He fits one of two categories: 1) He's straight, comfortable with his sexuality and isn't afraid of being called gay; 2) he's curious. Trying to figure out which he is will drive you crazy. The best thing to do is ask him. Say something like "You know I'm gay. I don't know if all your jokes are just your way of showing me you are OK with me being gay and you're just joking around or if you are hitting on me. I'm cool with either one. I just don't want to misinterpret anything."

To answer your question, straight guys joke around like that all the time.

I'm probably not gonna read anymore responses after this, but I like this answer. A lot.

 

[Vespoli]

Hey James!

Wowza, I finally got a user-name just so I could reply to this. What an amazingly captivating story. For real. I love checking it when there's a new update, I get so excited!

I really think you have it pretty well nailed down in terms of advice by now LOL. It seems like he really honestly cares about you, which is way cool.

Keep it up man! Your story and escapades are probably read by so many different types of people! (30,000? How cool is that?)

Oh and by the way man.. You are HOT! (I had to)

Later,