Would a Straight Guy let Another Guy Suck His Dick? “A Blow-Job is a Blow Job"

[Kaigon]

Apparently you didn't understand what I wrote because I'm pretty sure I said

No dude, I understand what you wrote just fine - just a bunch of really childish assumptions and generalisations.

If you were a feminine gay guy then most likely you would not be hanging out with those straight guys unless you know them for a long time and you guys were friends before they found out you were gay.

what

"If you were a pink elephant, you would most likely not be hanging out with blue rhinos"

Sexual orientation and gender perception are not "camps" or "categories" that people file themselves into in order to befriend others. They are independent of one another when it comes to friendship.

That part of socialising is not something that is binary - "You are gay, I am straight, I WILL NOT BEFRIEND YOU." or "You are straight, I am straight I CAN BEFFRIEND YOU."

I really don't understand how your concept of friendship works.

ANd besides, why would my bunch of straight mates be less likely to befriend a feminine guy? My straight mates aren't all laddish jocks that fuck women between drinking beer from the tap, bemoaning their homosexual counterparts, as per your bizarre generalisation of them.

I don't understand how your point that "good straight mates support their gay mates when they come out the closet" somehow justifies your weird generalisation of the relationship between straight and gay men =S

 

[Jason25]

Guys give great head..I have been sucked by a gay friend and a straight guy who is more a casual aquaintance..they both felt fucking awesome!

 

[chrisw87]

A blowjob isn't just a blowjob.
When done with the opposite sex, it's heterosexual foreplay.
When done with the same sex, it's homosexual activity.
What about kissing? Do straight guys kiss each other passionately?
Since we become an age at which we first can reason, we are constantly bombarded with the appropriateness of heteroseuality and the disdain for homosexuality. Many of us get past that, but many others don't. The ones that don't would never consider the mildest form of homosexual acts. The degree of religious training/beliefs also plays a significant role.

Regarding the kissing, I hold kissing as two seperate things;

1. intimate kissing, I love it and hold it dearly for close partners
2. General kissing, it could just be a meet and greet thing with friends.

General kissing, so what, male or female I've done it. Heck even one of my friends is a muslim middle eastern guy and we are close enough friends that we do many things together, and when dared by one of the girls in our group to kiss me because she thought he was 'acting gay' for being that close to me he did it, and we all had a laugh. Took me by surprise though haha.

I also have a fair few italian friends who kiss a fair bit, not lips but you know what I mean, it is still considered rather 'gay' in the majority of western society.

 

[JNewYork]

Would "a" straight guy? Maybe, maybe not. Depending on the straight guy.

It's common. Any quick look on meet up sights will prove that, but does that mean most guys would do it? I don't know. I wouldn't bet on it.

I think most guys would if they could pick the guy.

 

[brandon69xoxo]

i LOVE getting head from another guy. SO much better than from a woman. I've always had trouble cumming when a women sucks me, but not when a man does. I also enjoy giving head. Tomorrow I'm getting a massage. The first thing Im gonna do is suck his dick. Last time I went he finger-fucked me....this time i sure hope he sticks his beautiful cock inside me! man Im getting really horny thinking about it!!!

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

I personally think that “a blow-job is a blow-job" no matter who’s giving it to you…it’s not intercourse or anything…so with that being said I honestly think that 75% of Straight guys would let another guy “most likely their friend” suck their dick if they knew that no one would ever find out about it or they wouldn’t get caught!!!

Guys “Str8/Gay/Bi” think about sex 24/7, so unless their girlfriends/wives are just as equally horny as them then they would let another guy suck their dick…depending on the situation. For example, if two guys were watching porn together and there’s no girls around or if two guys just hanging out together in general and one of the guys offer to give the other guy a blow job, he would let him do it knowing no one would ever find out about it.

If a "blowjob is a blowjob", where are all the gay dudes looking for head from chicks? A "straight" guy that gets oral from other dudes isn't straight- he's delusional.

 

[FuryOfFirestorm]

A friend of mine who is straight came over to my apartment last night to hang out...we were having a few beers and watching some porn...we started wrestling... He has the hottest ass..I pulled his jeans down and massaged his butt cheeks...then licked and kissed his ass and rimmed him till he was moaning..I slid a finger up his wet ass, rolled him over and sucked his hard cock..he has about six inches with a nice mushroom ...I rolled him back over and slowly slid all nine inches of my cock up that gorgeous tight straight ass..I fucked him twice ...it was so hot..
Having been straight for so long myself until recently made it so fucking hot to be naked with another straight guy..

I SMELL BULLSHIT. If this really happened, he'd freak out and run the second you slipped a finger in his ass.

Either this dude is pretending to be straight to get in your pants (like straight dudes that play gay to get with chicks) or you're making this shit up.

 

[mario24]

I SMELL BULLSHIT. If this really happened, he'd freak out and run the second you slipped a finger in his ass.

Either this dude is pretending to be straight to get in your pants (like straight dudes that play gay to get with chicks) or you're making this shit up.

we all agree it's a bs story that way made up. The OP must have been watching some porn an posted the script

 

[EdsonDotado]

I've gone down on three "straight" guys in my life (meaning that what they told me when we first met). In two of the cases I discovered that they were bi. My impression has been that most guys who really are straight aren't comfortable with the idea of a guy blowing them.

 

[mario24]

I've gone down on three "straight" guys in my life (meaning that what they told me when we first met). In two of the cases I discovered that they were bi. My impression has been that most guys who really are straight aren't comfortable with the idea of a guy blowing them.

Many aren't conformable.. but some st8 guys def will..esp young. Lot of it is about context and situation as well. There is some truth to that old joke about a 6 pack and and guy str8 to gay. Inhibitions down things can happen that woudlnt normally.

 

[Kaigon]

The thing that's easy to forget is that no amount of alcohol would make me (100% gay) get blown by a chick. Surely it's the same for straight guys? TRULY straight guys, I mean.

 

[bedshaped85]

The simple answer is yes there are certain st8 guys caught in the right situation sure will get a blow job from another dude. Happens every day.

It happened to me one summer ago!

 

[askerby1]

No one even addressed the level of a friendship- how close 2 people become- or have shared experiences- even life threatening ones, and whether or not a level of closeness- comfortability, or intimacy(non sexual) could lead to this situation- It's all revolving around GAY or NOT GAY. When 2 people- male/female-male/male-female/female- click- and are both willing- things happen. As far as a blowjob(or other acts)- maybe. Most likely not. But things happen that aren't "straight" mainstream thought. And whatever flirtations, actions, reciprocations or consequences of 2 mutual friends that choose to engage in such actions- aren't up for the world's judgement. This got way off thread and argumentative- Can 2 straight guys blow each other?- sure! Are one or the other straight after that? Someone fund that study so I can be continually employed- Cause I'd love to HEAD that research Grant!

 

[mario24]

No one even addressed the level of a friendship- how close 2 people become- or have shared experiences- even life threatening ones, and whether or not a level of closeness- comfortability, or intimacy(non sexual) could lead to this situation- It's all revolving around GAY or NOT GAY. When 2 people- male/female-male/male-female/female- click- and are both willing- things happen. As far as a blowjob(or other acts)- maybe. Most likely not. But things happen that aren't "straight" mainstream thought. And whatever flirtations, actions, reciprocations or consequences of 2 mutual friends that choose to engage in such actions- aren't up for the world's judgement. This got way off thread and argumentative- Can 2 straight guys blow each other?- sure! Are one or the other straight after that? Someone fund that study so I can be continually employed- Cause I'd love to HEAD that research Grant!

One of the more intelligent posts around here on the topic.. As if've said before the sexual behavior anyone will engage in as much about context of a situation and comfort level with a person. That in it self does not define someones sexuality. There are a lot of situations where folks are just caught in the situation and will go out of their norm.

 

[BiBlackMan]

One of the more intelligent posts around here on the topic.. As if've said before the sexual behavior anyone will engage in as much about context of a situation and comfort level with a person. That in it self does not define someones sexuality. There are a lot of situations where folks are just caught in the situation and will go out of their norm.

That's what I meant by saying that sexual behavior and sexual orientation are not always the same thing. I don't think any particular sexual encounter necessarily defines an individuals orientation. If the situation arose and my best friend, who is straight, let me suck his cock I guarantee he would still be straight when it was over.

 

[Bi Married Male]

 

[MindYourOwn54]

Theres no definite answer. Within whichever sexuality you choose to identify with, if any, theres a whole spectrum. A straight guy may very well be straight, but open minded and realise that having a guy suck his dick doesn't make him gay. Another straight guy may be genuinely 100% turned off by the idea and never entertain it, no matter if discretion was guaranteed. Ultimately, there are both still straight guys.

I guess what i'm saying, a straight guy might let another guy suck his dick depending where he falls on the straight spectrum. Theres no conclusive answer that can be applied to ALL straight guys.

This is exactly how I feel on it, I'm straight but I'd let my gay friends give me a blowjob but in discretion just for the fact that I know that a lot of my straight friends are totally against the idea...or they just haven't been offered yet

 

[Levi1982]

I would have to say yes and I agree that one encounter would not define you sexually!!!

 

[bottomboy69d]

I think that staight guy will let you suck him as long as he knows you won't try to get him to suck you back. And he beleives no one will ever know.

 

[Mickmorris1888]

I personally think that “a blow-job is a blow-job" no matter who’s giving it to you…it’s not intercourse or anything…so with that being said I honestly think that 75% of Straight guys would let another guy “most likely their friend” suck their dick if they knew that no one would ever find out about it or they wouldn’t get caught!!!

Guys “Str8/Gay/Bi” think about sex 24/7, so unless their girlfriends/wives are just as equally horny as them then they would let another guy suck their dick…depending on the situation. For example, if two guys were watching porn together and there’s no girls around or if two guys just hanging out together in general and one of the guys offer to give the other guy a blow job, he would let him do it knowing no one would ever find out about it.

What do you guys think!

I would say yeah, if no one would ever find out, 100%. I considerered myself straight, note past tense ha, but due t lack of action at home , i'd love a bj, off my "friend"