Would a Straight Guy let Another Guy Suck His Dick? “A Blow-Job is a Blow Job"

[mcbrion]

Actually, that's not "his" definition. It has long been a theory that who you have sex with is not THE determinant of sexualilty: it's who you feel romantic towards, who you'd want to be waking up to. Makes a lot more sense, although until you think that part through, looking at it as "I think, therefore I am" is the more common way of human beings seeing Life.

 

[dukemike]

Bear in mind like it was stated by another post from someone else I am not attracted to men, I don't fall in love with guys. A mans body is not exciting to me in the least. but to this I still seek a gay or bi cocksucker because it seems like it is the same as with a girl but much easier to find a guy willing to suck your dick just for the pleasure of doing it. They don't add all the extra relationship bullshit.

I wish I could find a "straight" guy like you to let me suck off. I agree with what you say and I'm ready, willing & able.

 

[bankside]

Actually, that's not "his" definition. It has long been a theory that who you have sex with is not THE determinant of sexualilty: it's who you feel romantic towards, who you'd want to be waking up to. Makes a lot more sense, although until you think that part through, looking at it as "I think, therefore I am" is the more common way of human beings seeing Life.

There are lots of gay guys who only want hook-ups, only with other guys, because they are not into relationships, and we never question their gayness. They are just gay guys not into relationships, not into kissing, not into romance... And they're still gay.

A "straight guy" who is not into romance with another dude but is happy to have a blowjob from him, is a 100% authentic bisexual, who just doesn't want romance with another guy.

It's what people choose to do that matters, not how they feel about it.

 

[mooki33]

There are lots of gay guys who only want hook-ups, only with other guys, because they are not into relationships, and we never question their gayness. They are just gay guys not into relationships, not into kissing, not into romance... And they're still gay.

A "straight guy" who is not into romance with another dude but is happy to have a blowjob from him, is a 100% authentic bisexual, who just doesn't want romance with another guy.

It's what people choose to do that matters, not how they feel about it.

I respectfully disagree. I think there is a such thing as someone just being horny or curious. I hooked up with a friend of mine who was married and he now has four kids. I sucked his dick like three times. He was drunk twice and sober the last time. He came all three times. The first time it happened he had a big fight with his wife about money, bills etc. I lived 5 minutes away. We went out to a local bar for drinks. He flirted with our waitress and got us free appetizers. He got drunk. I was just sorta tipsy. We went back to my place and we were watching some TV. He was going to sleep on the couch so I went to get him some shorts and when I came back in the room he had taken off everything but his boxers. I threw him the shorts and he put them on. I sat next to him and said his legs were muscular etc. I asked him if he was horny. He asked me why. I said because I am and I've always fantasized about doing something to him. He asked me what? I said let me go down on you. If you hate it after a minute. I'll stop. I promise to never tell anyone. He hesitated. I just went for it. I pulled down the shorts and his boxers and I went to work. He closed his eyes and put his head back and he simply enjoyed it. He came. He said it was weird but good.

It happened two more times. We never talked about it. We are still friends. If you blindfold a guy...any guy and someone sucks his dick...what will happen? He will get hard. He will moan and he will have an orgasm. Why? Because he is responding to the stimulation from a warm mouth and/or stroking from a person giving him oral pleasure. The human body will respond.

 

[ceejmaster]

It happened two more times. We never talked about it.

Tell us! How did it go down the other 2 times?

 

[southportscott]

Do You Think a Straight Guy would receive a Blow-Job from another Guy (Str8/Bi/Gay) if he knew that no one would ever find out about it or he wouldn’t get caught?

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I was chatting to my brother in law in the pub, who is as straight as anything. He knows I have gay feelings so we where chatting. After he had about 7 pints we where talking about blow jobs and he said that when he was in his 20's his mate said he had a BJ form a guy and it was the best ever.
My bro in law then said, if he'd had a few more drinks he would have let his mate blow him,!
thus was musical ic to my ears.!!! This was music to my ears. He's not really my type but he has a cute bum and always talks about sex. We always get into the subject of sex when he gets drunk, and all his sexual conquests.

 

[Junior42]

I used to have a best friend that moved in with me after I graduated high school and he was still in his senior year. I worked in landscaping and worked really long hours most days, and I always enjoyed getting home and getting my 2nd wind, having dinner with my family, which now included one of my best friends and getting to hang out with him until we would go to bed. My room was in the basement of my parents house and he was supposed to be sleeping on a couch I had in my room, but because he was tall it was not very comfy for him. We started sharing my bed at night and because I was so tired from work I would just pass out quickly. One weekend we were watching tv and laying in bed together, him shirtless and in boxers, and I opened up to him, telling him that I thought he was damn good looking and confessed that I liked girls and guys, which was partly a lie. Im gay, but did not want to tell him that, and figured it would be easier if he thought I was bi. I told him about one of our mutual friends who I had messed around with often before he passed away in a car accident. He did not seem to put off by my confessions so later that night as we turned out the lights and the tv I made my move. We were both lying on our stomachs so I placed my arm across his back, and sort of rested it there. After awhile he moved to his side so his back was to me but did not move my arm. I started caressing his arm, his side, touched his ass above his boxers. He eventually laid on his back, put his arms behind his head, basically leaving himself open to me. I rubbed his chest, his stomach and eventually slid my hand into his boxers to rub his penis. I was pleasantly surprised to find him semi hard and seemingly enjoying what was happening. That was the first of many, many times I gave my best friend a blowjob while living at my house. The best times would be when he was talking on the phone with his gf who lived a few towns over, and I would be servicing him and watching him try and control his breath while talking to her to not let on what was happening to him. We never went any further then that, and unfortunately I eventually kicked him out of my house and our friendship eventually went away. He is now married, has two kids and as far as I can tell happy. I think at that age, he was young, horny and it did not matter that I was a guy, his needs were being met, so yes, a straight guy will choose to get off with the help of another guy.

 

[peeonme]

Straight does not mean a guy can't or won't have sex with another guy, it means that they prefer woman but if bored with masturbation and horny enough they will let another guy service them in some cases.

Of course there are str8 guys who would never let a dude suck them, at least they think they wouldn't.

 

[mooki33]

Tell us! How did it go down the other 2 times?

The second time was after a bachelor party. We were both pretty drunk. There was a party bus and it dropped us off at my place. I live very close to an all night burger place and we walked over and got some food and after we ate....he put his feet on my lap and I slowly started to massage his feet. He said it felt good but tickled and so he took his feet off me. I told him we should probably get ready for bed and so he stood up and took off his shirt and his jeans and his socks. I dropped to my knees right then and started messing with his penis. I pulled down his boxers and kissed and then licked his dick and started blowing him standing up. He's bi-racial. About 5'10" and 175 pounds. I'd guess his cock was 7-7.5 and thick. I was working his knob good....like it was corn on the cob but no biting LOL. He was moaning and said he had to sit down. He sat down and I increased my speed and stroking and he came and I swallowed it. He said: I can't believe you just did that. We went to bed.

The final time was when he was sober. I know he was because he only had one drink. I know exactly when it happened because we watched the series finale of the TV show Lost. We were both big fans. I asked him if he wanted another drink. He said no. I asked if there was anything else he wanted and I put my hand on his crotch. He didn't really say anything. I told him to close his eyes. He did. I got on my knees and undid his pants...he sat up slightly so I could slip them off. I then hurried his boxers off. I told him to keep his eyes closed. He said he's not sure if we can keep doing this. I made sure that I brought my A+ game the kind that had him opening his eyes and looking down to see what I was doing. Loved looking down and watching his toes curl in his black silver-toe dress socks. I could still smell the pleasant aroma. He was really moaning now and I got the warning. I kept going. He warned me again. I kept going and he then said....Shit, I'm cumming. And I milked every last drop. He went to the bathroom and got dressed and then started talking about Lost lol. It never happened again after that. I text him once to see if we could have round 4 and he said that it was good and fun but let's just leave it at the three times. And there you have it.

We're still friends. There is no awkwardness.

 

[Inverted]

Actually, that's not "his" definition. It has long been a theory that who you have sex with is not THE determinant of sexualilty: it's who you feel romantic towards, who you'd want to be waking up to. Makes a lot more sense, although until you think that part through, looking at it as "I think, therefore I am" is the more common way of human beings seeing Life.

Who0 we feel romantic towards is not a determinant of sexual attraction. Romance and sex are not the same things. There are plenty of gay men who have no interest in romantic relationships with men. Are you going to tell them they're not gay lol? Also, there are plenty of gay men who still want a romantic relationship with women because they've grown up being taught it's what's normal. Some even do despite lack of sexual attraction to women. Are they straight? Nope.

I respectfully disagree. I think there is a such thing as someone just being horny or curious. I hooked up with a friend of mine who was married and he now has four kids. I sucked his dick like three times. He was drunk twice and sober the last time. He came all three times. The first time it happened he had a big fight with his wife about money, bills etc. I lived 5 minutes away. We went out to a local bar for drinks. He flirted with our waitress and got us free appetizers. He got drunk. I was just sorta tipsy. We went back to my place and we were watching some TV. He was going to sleep on the couch so I went to get him some shorts and when I came back in the room he had taken off everything but his boxers. I threw him the shorts and he put them on. I sat next to him and said his legs were muscular etc. I asked him if he was horny. He asked me why. I said because I am and I've always fantasized about doing something to him. He asked me what? I said let me go down on you. If you hate it after a minute. I'll stop. I promise to never tell anyone. He hesitated. I just went for it. I pulled down the shorts and his boxers and I went to work. He closed his eyes and put his head back and he simply enjoyed it. He came. He said it was weird but good.

It happened two more times. We never talked about it. We are still friends. If you blindfold a guy...any guy and someone sucks his dick...what will happen? He will get hard. He will moan and he will have an orgasm. Why? Because he is responding to the stimulation from a warm mouth and/or stroking from a person giving him oral pleasure. The human body will respond.

Well, if he's just responding to the physical stimulation, it's not genuine attraction. You mentioned a blindfold, but what if the guy thinking about with the blindfold on? Attraction determines sexuality. The person you're responding is just debunking your claim that sexual orientation is related to romance. It's not. It's about attraction. Like he said, there are plenty of gay men are who are not interested in a romantic relationship with men. In fact, some of them still fantasize about having a romantic relationship with women because it's obviously accepted thing.

 

[bankside]

I respectfully disagree. I think there is a such thing as someone just being horny or curious. I hooked up with a friend of mine who was married and he now has four kids. I sucked his dick like three times. He was drunk twice and sober the last time. He came all three times. The first time it happened he had a big fight with his wife about money, bills etc. I lived 5 minutes away. We went out to a local bar for drinks. He flirted with our waitress and got us free appetizers. He got drunk. I was just sorta tipsy. We went back to my place and we were watching some TV. He was going to sleep on the couch so I went to get him some shorts and when I came back in the room he had taken off everything but his boxers. I threw him the shorts and he put them on. I sat next to him and said his legs were muscular etc. I asked him if he was horny. He asked me why. I said because I am and I've always fantasized about doing something to him. He asked me what? I said let me go down on you. If you hate it after a minute. I'll stop. I promise to never tell anyone. He hesitated. I just went for it. I pulled down the shorts and his boxers and I went to work. He closed his eyes and put his head back and he simply enjoyed it. He came. He said it was weird but good.

It happened two more times. We never talked about it. We are still friends. If you blindfold a guy...any guy and someone sucks his dick...what will happen? He will get hard. He will moan and he will have an orgasm. Why? Because he is responding to the stimulation from a warm mouth and/or stroking from a person giving him oral pleasure. The human body will respond.

Ok, I agree with the curious thing... A guy can be 100% straight, be bi-curious, try it, and then go "Nahhh...just wasn't what I imagined" and then he goes back to women for the rest of his life...he's a straight guy that was once bi-curious. I congratulate him for having a sense of adventure.

But if it takes him 3745 blowjobs while he "tries to make up his mind," we have a 100% authentic bi guy, whether he wants to propose to the dude or not.

 

[mooki33]

Who0 we feel romantic towards is not a determinant of sexual attraction. Romance and sex are not the same things. There are plenty of gay men who have no interest in romantic relationships with men. Are you going to tell them they're not gay lol? Also, there are plenty of gay men who still want a romantic relationship with women because they've grown up being taught it's what's normal. Some even do despite lack of sexual attraction to women. Are they straight? Nope.



Well, if he's just responding to the physical stimulation, it's not genuine attraction. You mentioned a blindfold, but what if the guy thinking about with the blindfold on? Attraction determines sexuality. The person you're responding is just debunking your claim that sexual orientation is related to romance. It's not. It's about attraction. Like he said, there are plenty of gay men are who are not interested in a romantic relationship with men. In fact, some of them still fantasize about having a romantic relationship with women because it's obviously accepted thing.

My friend that I sucked is straight. There was no blindfold involved. Alcohol and/or weed + horny guy + lowers inhibitions = blow job. He moaned. He shot his load. The end! Sure there are curious guys like you said. But there are also guys who can screw girls and get an occasional blow job from a guy and view it as nothing more than a sexual act so they can bust a nut. I don't get why everything has to be labeled. its just

 

[peeonme]

When I was a teen, perhaps 17, I had a job and the word was out that I was gay, just because I was checking out other guys.
My boss was in his early 20s and "very" straight (supposedly) and also quite homophobic.
I went down stairs for some supplies and found him waiting for me, he dropped his pants and invited me to suck him, I declined by just walking away, he was not my type and I didn't like the guy.

I knew what I was, he thought that he was straight, I look back now and see him as a predator of sorts, he had 5 years on me and was my boss.
His boss some months latter invited me to stop by and have a beer at his house, after about 6 beers he wanted to have sex with me.
I sometimes wonder if anyone is truly straight.

The irony of it is that I am gay and in a hetero marriage (since I was 21) and have never made a move or tried to have sex with another guy, we are all actors of sorts.

 

[sultrysam]

When I was a teen, perhaps 17, I had a job and the word was out that I was gay, just because I was checking out other guys.
My boss was in his early 20s and "very" straight (supposedly) and also quite homophobic.
I went down stairs for some supplies and found him waiting for me, he dropped his pants and invited me to suck him, I declined by just walking away, he was not my type and I didn't like the guy.

I knew what I was, he thought that he was straight, I look back now and see him as a predator of sorts, he had 5 years on me and was my boss.
His boss some months latter invited me to stop by and have a beer at his house, after about 6 beers he wanted to have sex with me.
I sometimes wonder if anyone is truly straight.

The irony of it is that I am gay and in a hetero marriage (since I was 21) and have never made a move or tried to have sex with another guy, we are all actors of sorts.

LOL Sure...

 

[mcbrion]

There are lots of gay guys who only want hook-ups, only with other guys, because they are not into relationships, and we never question their gayness. They are just gay guys not into relationships, not into kissing, not into romance... And they're still gay.

A "straight guy" who is not into romance with another dude but is happy to have a blowjob from him, is a 100% authentic bisexual, who just doesn't want romance with another guy.

It's what people choose to do that matters, not how they feel about it.

So, you subscribe to the "you ARE what you DO". That's pretty static: it locks a person into a box. That would be like my believing that if someone is a bigot, they'll always be a bigot. I can't conceive of that. There's a difference between being "happy to have a blow job" (if offered) and going looking for another guy to get a blow job from. If a guy goes looking for sex with another guy, I'd call that "bisexual." Your definition completely ignores that adolescent guys fool around with each other as a phase of growth. Are you saying they're "bisexual"? Sorry, that's just absurd. A pretty significant number of "straight" guys do this. I had two friends who let me blow them, and I wouldn't even think of them as "bi." And in some cultures (I am assuming you're American), sex between men can have a completely different meaning. Americans seem to think "whatever we decide is how it is." I'm not a fan of such myopia.
And the concept of what people "do" being the final arbiter of one's essence instead of using consciousness (which is NOT static) as a guide doesn't say a lot about how humans develop. People are considerably more complex than simply "what they do."

 

[bankside]

So, you subscribe to the "you ARE what you DO". That's pretty static: it locks a person into a box. That would be like my believing that if someone is a bigot, they'll always be a bigot. I can't conceive of that. There's a difference between being "happy to have a blow job" (if offered) and going looking for another guy to get a blow job from. If a guy goes looking for sex with another guy, I'd call that "bisexual." Your definition completely ignores that adolescent guys fool around with each other as a phase of growth. Are you saying they're "bisexual"? Sorry, that's just absurd. A pretty significant number of "straight" guys do this. I had two friends who let me blow them, and I wouldn't even think of them as "bi." And in some cultures (I am assuming you're American), sex between men can have a completely different meaning. Americans seem to think "whatever we decide is how it is." I'm not a fan of such myopia.
And the concept of what people "do" being the final arbiter of one's essence instead of using consciousness (which is NOT static) as a guide doesn't say a lot about how humans develop. People are considerably more complex than simply "what they do."

Nah, it's not static at all, because....wait for it....you are...what you do...

If you try out a blow job with another dude, never do it again, and never want to, then you're straight. You were bi-curious. But not any more.

If you keep going back for more because dicks are yummy or you want to feel the stubble while getting your balls drained...you want to do that... no box. no lock.. it's the thing you wanted to do.

As long as people have a choice in what they do, they are exactly what they do. (Of course that doesn't apply to someone who is raped.)

 

[peeonme]

Seems to me a straight guy that is in a place where he can't score with a girl (maybe just a dry spell) and knows a friend who is gay and gets a bj from him and closes his eyes and imagines a hot chick doing it is no different than the gay guy who screws a girl and thinks about men while he does it.
Even if this goes on for months or years it's still the desire that define our sexuality, not the activity.

 

[bobafatt]

I know, personally, I have never been with guys, but I would love to. I am married and for me to be able to share a guy or group of guys with my wife would be awesome, or even just be used by them myself. I look at it as a sexual thing. A nice cock, some piss, some cum, anal, all that is hot to me, but I don't find men attractive in the sense i do women. I am attracted to cock but not guys. I know how that sounds. as for the BJ, as a 'straight" guy, i would both give and receive because it's sexy to me. that's it.

 

[Apollosfire]

I know, personally, I have never been with guys, but I would love to. I am married and for me to be able to share a guy or group of guys with my wife would be awesome, or even just be used by them myself. I look at it as a sexual thing. A nice cock, some piss, some cum, anal, all that is hot to me, but I don't find men attractive in the sense i do women. I am attracted to cock but not guys. I know how that sounds. as for the BJ, as a 'straight" guy, i would both give and receive because it's sexy to me. that's it.

I am a gay guy who has blown married guys like yourself and I have no problem with you
saying you are straight by way of marriage and love to your wife but I am curious why if you find pussy and anal and cum and m/m blowjobs "sexy". You don't consider your self "bisexual".
not "bi-romantical".Im just in awe as to what straight men who enjoy sex with guys consider or imagine the life of bisexual guy to be. If I am super attracted to guys, but find eating out a hoy girl pussy hot...i know I am lightly bisexual, I say Im gay so women don't get any impression/but I also dated and HAD emotional connection with women. I dont understand aversion to term bisexual if its you find both sexes "sexy"?

 

[mooki33]

I am straight but when I'm horny, I let my gay mate suck me and swallow!

Good on you mate!