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Would it be a problem if you are permanently infertile?

I'd be pretty upset. I might want kids one day, so it's still nice to know that you have the option of having a kid who's biologically yours.
 
this is something that i thought about yesterday that got me really upset. as far as i know, i have the ability to have kids but since i'm gay, the thing that really hit me hard yesterday was realizing that my chances to be a father to a child with my dna are now slim to none. that was one of the things that i was living for. it was one of those things where i would have played the straight card even though i'm not just to have kids. i know the issue about my sexual orientation would have haunted me if i decided to get a woman, settle down with her and have a kid where i probably would end up miserable as all hell with her to the point where i would have to acknowledge that i'm gay, come out the closet, and etc. but at least i would be able to pass my genes, make my parents grandparents and get a chance to be a damn father.

this to me is one of the downsides to being gay. i don't want to adopt or take care of anybody elses kids. i don't even know if i want my child to have two fathers and no mother in their life. i want him or her to know their mother. it wouldn't be fair to them to not know who their mother is or to find out they came from a testtube or technology. my parents didn't do that to me. this is one of the things that have made it difficult for me to accept that i'm gay.
 
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Wouldn't bother me the least. But since I'm slightly Bi, I could branch out without ANY worry. :D
 
It wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Even if I was straight or bisexual, I don't think I would be able to have a child of my own knowing that there are already so many children out there in desperate need of a real home and a loving family.
 
asu1117 said:
Firstly, I'm bisexual, so yes I can. And secondly, there are ways for gay men to have biological children if they really want to (and have the money). You know what they say about assumptions..
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Fair enough!! You got me on both points!!
 
If it had happened when I was younger I'd probably have been devastated by it. But as I get older the thought of having a child of my own makes me cringe so I wouldn't care if I was sterile at this point.
 
Ehh, it'd be okay. I would just adopt a kid instead of providing my own sperm. Or my partner can provide his sperm if we wanted a kid.
 
^The overpopulated state of the world is a good reason for not having a child. It however doesn't control how you individually feel about it.

Saying "I don't care if I'm infertile because the world is overpopulated" is not an appropriate sentence. Baseline, the person saying it doesn't want a child, so s/he doesn't give a fuck if s/he can't reproduce; s/he doesn't have a problem about it on an individual level. The passage above would be more appropriate if: "I don't care if I'm infertile because I don't plan to have kids," continued by, "The world is overpopulated and I don't need to increase the burden of the earth," and ended by, "So, kids? Nah. I'd slap them every day, anyway."

It's like answering, "There are people in Africa starving," when being asked, "Do you eat steak?"
 
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