Would this annoy you?

[Ben_1982]

Would you rather he just thought about the other guy's arse and how nice it was? Allso, you've now got an idea of what kind of arse he likes!

 

[jaysizzles]

nope...it wouldn't annoy me.

I'd be more upset if a fine ass went by and he didn't point it out for me to enjoy as well.

I'm all for checking out hot guys and sharing comments on them...but, I'm also not insecure or the jealous type...well...just as long as he doesn't go and hit on the guy or dwell on it.

 

[star-warrior]

He should've grab his ass or at least felt it.

That way you could've dumped him there and then.

Why on earth are you with him stll anyway? It's only gonna be one of the nagging factors that will mar any sort of dealings you're gonna have with him in future.

 

[amapornfreak]

Did he have a cute ass?

 

[Corny]

I don't see a problem with saying that someone else has a nice butt. I would feel bad if the other guy hears it, and my guy is complimenting him. But if he says to me that this guy has a nice butt, I don't have a problem with it

 

[Ekim23]

I m surprisde with the number of guys being annoyed about it... LOOOL

 

[pancake]

I think you guys have over analyzed this a bit

But yeah, it was a really big turn-off. Not because I expect "exclusivity" bullshit on a second date , not because I'm insecure with myself, etc.

But because I treat my dates with respect and douche-baggery makes me want to vomit.

 

[G-Lexington]

I would've egged him on. Gotten really excited and said, "You should ask him out!"

Lex

 

[looseliam]

Wouldn't bug me. I know there are those better looking than I.

He must understand that I, too, will gaze from time to time.

It's harmless. Given all the other crap there is to deal with in a relationship, this kinda thing is small potatoes.

 

[Willie Boy]

You are on a date, second one to be exact.
At a concert, and a couple squeezes by to go to their seats.
Your date, completely stares at the guys butt , and then two seconds later comments on how nice his ass is. Within earshot.

Maybe I'm different than most guys, but seriously?? How does saying that make me more attracted to you?

On another note, Death Cab was fucking AMAZING.

Well, was it?

What would annoy me would be the man who brought his donkey with him to the concert.

Yes, that would be annoying. (Note to self: don't bring donkeys to concerts anymore, no matter how much Frankie begs to ride it! )

lol nice.

I have a "look but don't touch" rule. Maybe he's just use to being open like that. If
you're really interested in him let him know that you don't appreciate it. Communication is key

A good answer.

Honestly he was probably just making conversation . Maybe he grew up with the rule that those who sit on inside seats make sure to arrive early, so they don't have to put anyone out by "squeezing by", and was annoyed that these people didn't follow protocol. If you don't communicate (in a non-judgmental way) you will never truly understand where he was at, emotionally. The question is, are you interested enough in him to give this a try, or do you just blow him off?

 

[gdude30]

It really depends.

Some people do hit on men when in public. Even if they are coupled, dating, married, life partners or whatever.

But all it is really is "EYE CANDY"

They don't take the men back to the bedroom and have sex or make love like they do with their partner, lover, buttbuddy, or whatever.

I have seen my Sir stare at some cubs at home depot before. I've done it too and seen some guys and thought "GOD DAMN"

And me and Brother both hit on a guy who was staying at Sir's for a while because they are old friends and he was staying with Sir until he could find a place to stay.

But even with the comments like the "God damn what a nice ass" or "I'd love to suck his cock" it generally doesn't happen.

And that's the crucial difference. Damn I remember this one couple I knew in NC and one of the guys would honk the horn at guys he saw walking who he thought were cute.

It really just depends on your view of it.

Some people wouldn't take offense to it and some would.

Now I agree if that's ALL they do if you are dating them. But if they just take a quick glance and make a small comment than as long as you don't catch them in bed together there ain't nothing wrong with it

 

[jamie_01930]

lmao thats when you turn to him and say
"Why can't you have an ass like that?"


I don't think it's a big deal...
If he was obviously better looking, i'd rather him say it outloud than think it to himself while with me. :|

GOOD ONE !