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would you be freaked out or flattered?

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loki81 said:
I got a message on A4A from a guy who said that he saw me on the subway and described exactly what I was wearing... I can't decide if I should be flattered or a little freaked out !oops!
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Now that he knows what you look and dress like, ask him to send you a picture of him naked. Then you can decided :badgrin:
 
If he sees you and introduces himself to you - be flattered.

If he sees you and doesn't introduce himself, but contacts you again on A4A - be freaked!
 
Has he only once thus far contacted you on A4A?

It's one thing if he doesnt appear enamoring. But because he saw you in person, and decided to approach you via the internet makes it freakish?... Why else did you sign up for an online service?

I would probably be more freaked out if a stranger came up to me and asked about my online profile.. Not sure as to why, it probably has to do with why I don't even list myself under any personals ad in the first place..
 
derelictdarrel said:
Has he only once thus far contacted you on A4A?

It's one thing if he doesnt appear enamoring. But because he saw you in person, and decided to approach you via the internet makes it freakish?... Why else did you sign up for an online service?

I would probably be more freaked out if a stranger came up to me and asked about my online profile.. Not sure as to why, it probably has to do with why I don't even list myself under any personals ad in the first place..
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That sort of happened to me once. I was a little freaked out. At a party a guy I never knew came up and said, "OMG I SAW YOU ON XTUBE". Even though I have NEVER put a single video on xtube (not that I don't have any) he realized that it wasn't me that he saw :O

To be honest I thought the OP was talking about missed connections on craigslist first. I could understand that. But on an online dating site. That's a tad weird.
 
A salesman from Best Buy recognized me online a couple of months after the fact. I was flattered.
 
A couple of years ago, I was talking to a guy on Manthunt who kept saying he recognized me from around town, yet refused to ever tell me who he was or what he really looked like.

"Wow, I saw you at Wal*mart and you're really CUTE!"


I wasn't flattered.
 
Be flattered because he remembered me. Unforgettable!
 
He recognized you from a profile you posted...he did not bother you in public and gave you the opportunity to say you if you were interested or not...would not bother me. I say be flattered...unless he keeps pressing the issue after you have turned him down.
 
huntneo said:
You should be flattered.

So, what if he would like to be your friend?

Or are you friends with only those guys who are your type?:rolleyes:
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I think it really depends on what the conversation between this guy and loki81 was like and what it says he was looking for on his profile. We don't have all the details.
 
loki81 said:
he's the same age as my dad, I couldn't imagine hanging out with him and not feeling weird and awkward.
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Generally you can find some common ground to be friends with most people unless they are total jerks. You just have to be open-minded.
 
I would be flattered not many people give me compliments or say they've recognized me from some where.
 
Why don't you ask him to meet? If he refuses and then still reports your appearance the next day, you might want to hire a bodyguard :eek:
 
Es liegt an ob du wirklich superfantastisch (oder nicht) bist. Ich finde nicht, von was du geschrieben hast.

Really, aren't you a little paranoid to be in the least freaked out by somebody merely remembering you from an event and then feeling motivated to contact you after seeing your profile online? Is your confidence really so low that this is a problem? Like somebody else asked, why on earth did you join this online intro service if not to meet guys who are interested in you? And this one saw you in the flesh, so he already decided that you look okay enough to really meet. Sadly, you indicated that you are a little shallow and insecure...

As for feeling flattered - don't - given that he's clearly mistaken you for being an entirely different sort of person: He's speaking to a person whom he imagined you to have been, but whom you have shown him you are not. So the compliment/s don't really belong to you.
 
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