I cannot share this sentiment.
About a year ago, I had to have a prostate surgery (a resection) after years of problems. My urologist was a young guy new to the clinic, but he wasn't that young.
He proffered the operation as a remedy to replace drugs that were not working, most of which I was actually allergic to. There would be a simple operation, then I wouldn't have to be on medicines any more. There were NO side-effects described, only positive results, and in most cases. The operation was almost an out-patient type, but did require one night's stay after for observation.
When I recovered, I learned that the surgery indeed had a certain side-effect, and in every instance: retrograde ejaculation. The term simply means that one will always ejaculate back into the bladder and will not have normal ejaculate, ever again.
I was mortified. Although I had not had a boyfriend in years, and no prospects, it shattered me that my enjoyment of sex was now going to be marred, and I would feel embarrassment whenever I had to explain in future why I was not coming.
My first thought was to bring legal action, but in the end, money was going to be cold comfort.
I wouldn't care if I were infertile, but I feel like damaged goods now.
I think that's as good as the orgasm!
