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Would You Date A Guy Who Had...
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Roguefanam:
Your profile doesn't mention which country you are from but to give you a quick answer, "No, it probably doesn't matter to most guys".
The longer answer is that in some countries like Australia or the US where uncircumcized penises are less common, the reaction can vary from surprise (many US guys have never seen an uncircumcized penis) to a fetish (when you've seen the same old circumicized penises, a uncircumcized penis is exotic and pretty cool).
The thing that you should think about is how you feel about having phimosis. If you're not comfortable, then this will be more of an issue for you. Good sex and being comfortable with your body are closely related.
If you have issues about the appearance of your penis, then you should see a urologist. Phimosis is treatable. The treatment can be non-surgical using a device that stretches the foreskin or in some cases, it can be resolved with surgery to remove or release the tight band of foreskin.
Your profile doesn't mention which country you are from but to give you a quick answer, "No, it probably doesn't matter to most guys".
The longer answer is that in some countries like Australia or the US where uncircumcized penises are less common, the reaction can vary from surprise (many US guys have never seen an uncircumcized penis) to a fetish (when you've seen the same old circumicized penises, a uncircumcized penis is exotic and pretty cool).
The thing that you should think about is how you feel about having phimosis. If you're not comfortable, then this will be more of an issue for you. Good sex and being comfortable with your body are closely related.
If you have issues about the appearance of your penis, then you should see a urologist. Phimosis is treatable. The treatment can be non-surgical using a device that stretches the foreskin or in some cases, it can be resolved with surgery to remove or release the tight band of foreskin.
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First off, welcome to JUB! 
As to your question, I've always tended to date a bit before heading to the bedroom, so assuming I liked you enough to take you there, I really doubt something like this would be much of an issue at all. It'd probably be nice to be told before the pants came down, just so I wouldn't thinking "Should I mention it?"
I may be mistaken, but I thought some people with phimosis found erections extremely painful, in which case I'd suggest some treatment might be in order. If that wasn't the case, I can't see it being an issue in the slightest.
Lex
As to your question, I've always tended to date a bit before heading to the bedroom, so assuming I liked you enough to take you there, I really doubt something like this would be much of an issue at all. It'd probably be nice to be told before the pants came down, just so I wouldn't thinking "Should I mention it?"
I may be mistaken, but I thought some people with phimosis found erections extremely painful, in which case I'd suggest some treatment might be in order. If that wasn't the case, I can't see it being an issue in the slightest.
Lex
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something new learnt everyday! its weird how i am actually using JUB to learn new stuffs and know abt current event.
thanx JUB!!
and to answer the q, yes i will.
thanx JUB!!
and to answer the q, yes i will.
sunshinesteve
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Haha, one of my favourite boys has phimosis and is totally covered in the most beautiful fur. These are 2 things that some guys would find a bit of a turn-off, but he is so very comfortable in his skin that i find him incredibly sexy.
My advice...just love being you and you will find the person to love you
My advice...just love being you and you will find the person to love you
evilest
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I am. It's not an issue at all.
G-Lexington
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>>>And honestly, I'm not totatlly sure I would blame him ending a relationship with me because of that.
One common thread you'll see a lot of running through CO&R here is the belief that "I won't ever get laid/have a boyfriend because I'm __________." And you can fill in that blank with pretty much anything: short, tall, fat, skinny, not white, too white, poor, rich, hairy, bald, under-endowed, over-endowed, you name it. Trust me - it's not just the perfectly sculpted, totally at-ease, perfectly adjusted, hot guys that get laid, or find boyfriends, or settle down with a guy. Don't let it worry you none. Get out there, start meeting people, get into a relationship, and start having sex with your phimotic dick. My guess is that it won't be an issue at all.
Lex
One common thread you'll see a lot of running through CO&R here is the belief that "I won't ever get laid/have a boyfriend because I'm __________." And you can fill in that blank with pretty much anything: short, tall, fat, skinny, not white, too white, poor, rich, hairy, bald, under-endowed, over-endowed, you name it. Trust me - it's not just the perfectly sculpted, totally at-ease, perfectly adjusted, hot guys that get laid, or find boyfriends, or settle down with a guy. Don't let it worry you none. Get out there, start meeting people, get into a relationship, and start having sex with your phimotic dick. My guess is that it won't be an issue at all.
Lex
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As long as you keep it clean I don't know why it would be an issue...
my question to you is why do you find it embarrassing to get it treated? really! as if the urologist is going to get freaked out over something he/she probably sees everyday.
my question to you is why do you find it embarrassing to get it treated? really! as if the urologist is going to get freaked out over something he/she probably sees everyday.
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very obvious??????????
what they gonna do, amputate and re attach? surgically strip the exterior and fibre glass a new one? maybe put it in a walking cast?
i give up, so tell me what will be so embarrassingly obviousand on my future "patrols" i will look for others. rofl
what they gonna do, amputate and re attach? surgically strip the exterior and fibre glass a new one? maybe put it in a walking cast?
i give up, so tell me what will be so embarrassingly obviousand on my future "patrols" i will look for others. rofl
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Get over this. It is a penis. It is a condition of the penis. Doctors have been treating phimosis for centuries. Sometimes it can be done by stretching the foreskin, other times some surgery is required.
There should be no embarrassment because of this.
Go to your Doc. Get it looked after. Then you won't be worried about it anymore.
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roguefanam:
Quoting: I just wanted to know if it's worth going through such embarassment to get it treated.
While it is a little weird to make an appointment to show someone your penis, I can assure that a urologist will have seen many penises like yours. He will be very professional in his examination. There is no reason to be embarassed. After the exam, he will talk to you about your options and let you make a choice on what, if anything, you want to do. I am recommending this to you now because you are relatively young and non-surgical treatments are easier while you are young.
Just so that you will know, the non-surgical stretching exercises and stretching devices are something that your friends would never know about. If you go the route of surgery, you can talk to the doctor about how much foreskin to want to keep- it is possible to correct phimosis and still leave a generous amount of foreskin.
Make a urologist appointment and find out what your options are.
As for your present circumstance, you are in Texas where most anglo guys are circumcized but many latino guys are not circumcized, so depending on the experience of your partner, he may or may not have never seen an uncircumcized penis. If you are at a point in your relationship where you are considering sex wth your boyfriend, start slowly with a little foreplay with the lights on and let your partner see your penis and then play with your penis and see how he reacts before getting too far into things. Whatever you do, do not try to hide your condition- if you are comfortable with lettting him see it, touch it, feel it, etc. then the situation will be a lot less tense for you both.
For the long term, I suspect the phimosis is an issue that you will need to deal with eventually because it is something you are feeling uncomfortable about
Quoting: I just wanted to know if it's worth going through such embarassment to get it treated.
While it is a little weird to make an appointment to show someone your penis, I can assure that a urologist will have seen many penises like yours. He will be very professional in his examination. There is no reason to be embarassed. After the exam, he will talk to you about your options and let you make a choice on what, if anything, you want to do. I am recommending this to you now because you are relatively young and non-surgical treatments are easier while you are young.
Just so that you will know, the non-surgical stretching exercises and stretching devices are something that your friends would never know about. If you go the route of surgery, you can talk to the doctor about how much foreskin to want to keep- it is possible to correct phimosis and still leave a generous amount of foreskin.
Make a urologist appointment and find out what your options are.
As for your present circumstance, you are in Texas where most anglo guys are circumcized but many latino guys are not circumcized, so depending on the experience of your partner, he may or may not have never seen an uncircumcized penis. If you are at a point in your relationship where you are considering sex wth your boyfriend, start slowly with a little foreplay with the lights on and let your partner see your penis and then play with your penis and see how he reacts before getting too far into things. Whatever you do, do not try to hide your condition- if you are comfortable with lettting him see it, touch it, feel it, etc. then the situation will be a lot less tense for you both.
For the long term, I suspect the phimosis is an issue that you will need to deal with eventually because it is something you are feeling uncomfortable about
