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Would you date an ex convict?

If you love him you should be as supportive as possible. He has PAID his debt to society and was set FREE. If you feel uncomfortable or unsafe and this is too much for you to handle, move on. On a side note I can't stand medaling, nosey relatives that interfere with other peoples relationships. His sister has sabotaged your relationship by disclosing this information. I wonder what's going on in her personal life (drinking problem/no man?) that she would feel the need to drop this bomb on you behind her brothers back. He said he wasn't going to tell you but maybe one day he would've. She robbed him of that and robbed you of your peace of mind. I wish you both good luck moving forward.
 
Have you considered looking into it to find out whether his version is true? You seem not to have checked the facts but are just going by what you've been told.

If he's lying about what actually happened and there was more violence in his past than this one event, I would end it. If however, he's telling the truth, you can't blame him for defending himself.
 
You could do an online inmate search for federal, state or county jails and come up with a case number to research. The amount of time he served could depend on what kind of deal he made with the prosecutor. Even people who have committed heinous crimes don't always serve the full amount they deserve and you don't know for sure how serious his charge was. If he didn't tell you about it he had his reasons but it's your life and your safety you have to think about now there is/was (don't know if OP has finally resolved the matter) this dimension to the relationship.

I had a co-worker whose husband served time in prison. When he got out he began pressing her to take out life insurance and she began to feel odd then uncomfortable about it. They don't spend time in a vacuum, no matter their original charge they do spend time learning things from other inmates.
 
^Whether a spouse spent time in prison, or not I would become suspicious were they to coerce me to take out life insurance. Those with criminal intent do not need to have served time in prison to advance their criminal plans.
 
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