Would you date an Indian guy?

[thisisinteresting]

You don't see a lot of them because typically homosexuality is frowned upon/extremely taboo in their families.

 

[rareboy]

well, you have to get rid of all the baggage first,
then get rid of the weight ... etc and be happy with yourself ...

Oddly enough, this.

I've fucked a few guys of Indian and East Asian heritage and ethnicity.

The closeted ones dragging around all their cultural baggage and self-image issues were just not bf material.....too much effort, particularly the self-absorbed 'princes'.

A couple were amazing fun though and if we had been living in the same city or had the opportunity to carry on our friendship, I could have seen either of them as ltr possibilities.

Fortunately I never discussed their politics with them, because if any of them had an immature and narcissistic socio-political ethos, it would have been over before it began.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

I tend to look at substance not colour of the skin!!

 

[hylas]

look, i can see where youre coming from. im asian, and yeah, i think worldwide, the majority has been brainwashed into thinking that 'caucasian' is the most attractive ethnicity. i cant even exclude myself, being a bit of a potato-queen myself (although i am trying, with moderate success, to pry my mind open). its not really the fault of somebody, its the way our world is built currently. its not fair, and its good to be aware of the issue. but theres no use in whining. life isnt fair, regarding this and many other issues. whinyness, resignation, bitterness, and desperation are some of the most unattractive character traits a person can have. deal with whatever you face, be it fair or not; stay gracious and dignified; and emerge on the other side smiling and victorious.

 

[dontaskme69]

absolutely. in fact i met a middle aged indian guy at a bar about a week ago who was, in a word, amazing. brilliant, handsome, completely down to earth and not full of himself, and he was even making dave chapelle references! ive liked indian guys on a few other occasions but ive never been that hard up for one before, lol.

 

[dontaskme69]

oh and this is random, but i would also like to add that one of largest dicks ive ever caught an accidental glimpse of in a public restroom was an indian. it was fucking huge. i had to pick up my jaw lol

 

[pat grimshaw]

^
was he South Indian?

 

[dontaskme69]

^
was he South Indian?

hahahah! i have no idea, but i have definitely jerked it a ciuple of times thinking about that monstrous mofo. lol

 

[wilbur33]

Yes, I certainly would!

 

[FirstPlace]

Nationality means nothing in gay land as long as someone finds you attractive or you have a great cock or ass. Don't give up!!!

Wrong. Unfortunately, for some people it means everything.

 

[glasvegas]

I actually been to India and seriously, Indians are really really hot. I would love to date an Indian guy. Don't bother about people who judge you on your color, is just an organ.

 

[7abiib_azzubb]

I dated two S Asians. One of whom introduced me to Trikone.

 

[JayQueer]

I dated two S Asians. One of whom introduced me to Trikone.

Oh wow, thanks!

I didn't know there was a local group for South Asian (Indian) people. Unfortunately, they are based in the San Francisco Bay area (I'm in Southern California).........but it's nice to know that there are LGBT organizations for people of Asian Indian background.

 

[navigaytion]

Hi everyone,

As some of you may know, I'm an Asian Indian gay guy in my 20s living in Southern California.

Whenever I go to West Hollywood, or I'm around other gay people, it seems like most other gay people are White (with some Latinos, Blacks, and Asians). But I don't really know any other gay Indians.

When I sometimes browse dating sites like match.com, it seems like most gay guys, regardless of their own ethnicity, (in their profiles) state that they're looking to date a White guy. The next most common ethnicity requested is Latino, followed by Asian & Middle Eastern, and then 2nd to last, African-American. "East Indian" is an option, but it is chosen the LEAST out of all of the ethnic groups.

Would you guys be open to hypothetically dating an Asian Indian gay guy? Or would you rule him out, simply because "Indians aren't desirable?"

Please, "no flames", but do you guys honestly think that I might someday be able to find a man who will love me for who I am?

If I were you, I would take the responses here with a grain of salt. Often times people will say that ethnicity/race does not matter in threads like this to make the person in question feel better (and make themselves appear open and non-racist), but 99% of the time their dating patterns and preferences suggest something different. What difference does it make if you've tried a couple of Indians in your sea of white men (or Latino men, black men, etc.)?

I appreciate making people feel better about themselves, but I doubt your situation will improve, regardless of your geographic location. Sorry.

And it seems that you really want to date "masculine white guys," as someone else here noted. Well, dear, if you are applying strict racial standards to the people that you want to date, what makes you think they won't be applied to you, and that you won't be excluded?

Cheers.

 

[mapiyu]

at the above post...

Yes, Jayqueer, I would date an Indian guy. And I'm not just trying to make you feel better, nor am I trying to make myself feel open-minded or colorblind.

To my eyes, attractive guys come in all races. I would date white men, black men, Latino men, Asian men, Indian men, basically any kind of man under the sun.

Yes, maybe a lot of guys have a certain preference (like your preference for white guys). But even someone with a specific preference can be attracted to hot guys outside of that preference.

Hot guys are hot. Simple as that.

 

[bankside]

I have.

It didn't work out. Messed up emotionally desperate closet case who lied to me about some basic facts in his life, like his name for instance. But handsome and very sociable, so he fooled me. Not for long though. 2 weeks max.

And now I'm 13 happy years into my relationship with someone else.

 

[mbamike]

Yes I would! Indian guys are hot!

 

[pat grimshaw]

Some of you are happy to make generalisations about a whole nation and some of you specify parts of the place. I wonder why.

 

[Willie Boy]

I don't judge based on skin color or ethnicity. If the person is nice, cute, fun to be around.... then it would be a possibility, if I wasn't already spoken for.

 

[navigaytion]

Hot guys are hot. Simple as that.

Yes, dear, hot guys are hot.

And if that was really the case, a thread like this, started by JayQueer, wouldn't exist, and JayQueer's own expressed preferences wouldn't even register. But clearly that isn't the case.