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Would You Date Someone Who Does Have Their Act Together?

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Didn't want to hijack the other thread so I started a new one. The other thread begged this question.

If you met someone that wasn't as good looking as someone you'd point out at the bar or notice right away or your average not exactly cute but not ugly Joe, but found out that they did have their act together, would you date them on those attributes?
 
Yes. Looks are important but they aren't everything. I look at the whole package.
 
Me too!

I look at the whole package.

Just because someone doesn't look like they fell out of a male model print ad doesn't mean that I wouldn't date them.

In fact I've found that there are for more "pretty boys" out there that don't have their act together, than there are regular guys who do.

I tell my friends all the time that find themselves slobbering all over some stud, "I bet there's somebody out there that's sick and tired of their shit." :lol:
 
Having one's act together is pretty important to me. In fact, I wouldn't date anyone who didn't. It's just too much work. So, yes, count me with the two above.
 
yeah definitely...the people who look like they fell out of a modeling magazine are usually too aware of the fact that they are good-looking and this usually results in arrogance..but then again i suppose that the best thing to do is to consider the whole package as several others above have mentioned :P
 
No! No! No! I would NEVER date someone who had his/her act together. Life would be SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO boooooooooriiiiiinnnngggg! What would there be to do?
 
If I had to play Devil's advocate here, I would say that nobody has their act together in a full sense. If they did have their act together, they probably are not single either and the most boring person you would ever meet also.
 
Lets just examine the reverse: I wouldn't date anyone that was hot as fuck but didn't have their act together.
 
I've been with guys who were everything from damn hot to just so-so. I'm more interested in the person than the looks, although we have to connect at some level on looks.

By the same token, don't assume that just because someone is good looking that they're an asshole. Sure, some of them are, but when I've gotten brave enough to ask a really good looking guy out on a date, I've been surprised a couple times to find out their kinda lonely because everyone assumes they're so desirable.

In other words, just go after whoever you're interested in. Don't make any assumptions either way.
 
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