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Would you date someone who had few or no close friends?

Would you date someone with few or no close friends?

  • Yes.

    Votes: 35 52.2%

  • No.

    Votes: 4 6.0%

  • It doesn't matter.

    Votes: 28 41.8%
  • Total voters
    67
seriously? I don't care if they have a million friends or just a stuffed animal as a friend. I don't have much fiends just a few people at work i consider friends. In High School i thought i had friends and at the end they dropped me i pretty much figured the reason why there were my friends because i was the class clown and i made for good free comedy. We would just both have to go out more and stuff.
 
altlover85 said:
You're 26. That's not too old for most people.
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I am 26 and I haven't learned how to have friends! I am hopeless. Even if I started learning now... by the point I could get to have a boyfriend I probably be too would or nearly dead... It is just hopeless... and honestly, I don't think I should even try... I just not that good around people, and I am sure (as a fact) that they don't enjoy my presence, I can't blame them, there is no reason to enjoy me, and it is just hopeless.
 
I hope there are people out there who would date someone with few or limited friends, otherwise I'm gonna be alone for a very long fucking time.
 
Beachguyj said:
I don't understand the "it doesn't matter " option. Wouldn't that be the same as "yes"?
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I meant it as an "I don't care/indifference" option. Maybe it wasn't applicable in this case, but I figured maybe someone would ask why there wasn't a third option.
 
tipmyscales86 said:
Yes. I would rather date a guy that has little or no friends than a guy that has a bunch of bitchy friends that like to stir up drama for no reason. But I would hope that the guy would be open to going places and having a social life with me.
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Ditto.....
 
When I was actively dating, I judged any potential date by the friends he had and the people he hung out with.

If he was a "loner" and didn't seem to have friends, I sensed that there was probably a good reason for such.
 
I would totally date him. His friends, or lack thereof, is none of my concern.
 
It depends.

I don't think I could date them if they were a 'needy loner', that sounds really harsh but, those are the people who tend to get unreasonably attached in a short period of time. The people who are really full on and make you the central focus of their life after like, a week of dating (I had a girlfriend like that in high school...She smothered me and I had to end it in less than 3 weeks).

Despite my reclusive nature, I have quite a lot of friends I enjoy spending time with, and 5-6 really close friends (we've all been friends since Primary School).

So as long as he has a few friends (even just one or two) that he can either hang out with occasionally, or just have there to talk to about certain things, so that he's not too dependent on me, then that would be okay.

I try not to restrict myself with eliminating the idea of dating certain people, but overbearing neediness is a really big turn off for me, I can't help it.
 
I would date someone with a few friends. However, I would not date someone with no friends. I would not date a unibomber.
 
Few close friends I would view as a positive advantage. No friends maybe not because that would probably feel a little weird.

Maybe it's my insecurities coming out, but having a lot of friends might well put me off too. I think that's probably a jealousy/possessiveness thing on my part.
 
I think I would date someone with no to few friends. Although I would be somewhat apprehensive about it. I'd ask myself why they have few to no friends. Is there something wrong with the guy?

I'm a pretty social person. I think I would be concerned if my hermit boyfriend could handle my social life.
 
I have a few very good friends, about 4 or 5. I wouldn't mind dating someone who has the same. I probably couldn't date someone who had like a million friends and was constantly socialising.
 
It's so hard to find a good guy, if he has friends or not is inconsequential.

It might even be better if he doesn't have any, what if you don't get along with them, what if they are jealous of you....
 
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