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Would You Give Your Brother Your Sperm?

Mark me down as Sure, Yes, to the hypothetical situation.
I'd even do it for a close friend.
I'm sure we'd be intelligent enough to be careful about everything.
And, yes, Jake and others have raised valuable considerations.
 
Dave_83 said:
Of course I would. I DONT like where you said " I don’t think I would be able to watch my brother raise my child. " That bugs me. JUST because it was your sperm doesnt make it YOUR "CHILD". You obviously didnt devolope any emotional attachment to this SPERM. Your brother would be the childs father and rasie him MAKING it HIS CHILD not yours. You were just the doner.
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OK, I‘ve never been good at Biology, but the last time I checked YOUR SPERM creates YOUR BABY. No, you may not be the daddy, but you ARE the father; the reason why that child is in this world. You may be able to forget that fact, I wouldn’t be able to.

Why is that we place more emphasis on maternal feelings than paternal feelings. I do believe you’d be hard-pressed to find many women who would give their eggs to their sister, and then think of that child not as their own but as their niece or nephew. Women who act as surrogates sometimes fight to keep the baby they’re carrying, and it’s not even their own. But so many men give their sperm away without any thought.

Maybe you guys who said yes don’t want kids of your own, I don’t know. But I know I do want kids, and me giving my brother my sperm would be like me giving him my child. I just couldn’t do it. I would be agreeable to do it for a female friend who doesn’t have a husband or boyfriend because I could be the child’s father. But if she did have a husband or boyfriend, I couldn’t.

Kurn said:
Why do you have to detatch yourself?? You can be a second daddy--or an "uncle" if you don't want to be too involved.
Actually, in many cultures, such arrangements are not at all unusual.
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You’re gonna have to detach yourself because you’re gonna have to stop yourself from feeling any paternal feelings. For me, that would be impossible. For those who say they could, I would like to see them when that child has hurt themselves and they are crying for daddy, but you have to go find your brother. Or when that child wins the Noble Prize, are you gonna feel like the proud papa, or the proud uncle?
 
There is nothing I wouldn't have done for my brother. Nothing.
 
No because thats my baby and I dont get along with my brother. I can't stnad him we had this big falling out and blah blah blah.
 
I suppose I would in the case that if something were to happen to him and his wife that I would be willing/wanting to raise the child myself. I don't think I could separate my feeling from knowing that it was my biological imprint on this child.
 
Hell yes I'd give my brother my sperm! Have you seen him? I've been trying to give him my sperm for years!

Oh, wait....oh I see what you meant....I think I misunderstood....
 
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