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Would You Live in a "Dry" Home For Someone You Love?

  • Thread starter Thread starter Soilwork
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Would You Live in a "Dry" Home For Someone You Love?

  • No, don't think I could give that up

    Votes: 7 9.9%

  • Maybe, not sure

    Votes: 9 12.7%

  • Yes, I can make that sacrifice

    Votes: 36 50.7%

  • I don't drink, so it wouldn't matter

    Votes: 19 26.8%
  • Total voters
    71
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Soilwork

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No. And it's not that I "couldn't" like your question says, it's that I don't want to,

I'm a vegan. But I don't make others follow it in my house.
 
Yes, I would live in the dry home for someone I LOVE. I would drink outside of the home at restaurants or with friends. A dry home is not a deal breaker for me.

If my partner wanted me to stop having sex with other people, then it would be a deal breaker! :lol:
 
I don't have to drink to have fun, I don't drink alone, and I don't drink to get shitfaced.

That stated, I won't live with someone that states I can't drink at all - respect only goes so far, which is to say that I'll respect an alcoholic enough not to bring drinks around him if he'll let me live as well.

Having to live in a "dry" home would be like me having to attend bible study because he hosts it every month. That's just a problem waiting to happen.
 
I could but that makes me think of a funny story. Well funny from the inside...lol

After my father died my mother was trying so very hard to crawl deep inside a bottle. My sister wasn't being very helpful in Cincinnati and I lived in Memphis at the time so I couldn't help her daily. SO I moved my Mom to Memphis to help her stop drinking so much.

Now this is the funny part. That same year I had built a fourteen foot bar, put in karaoke, trivia machines and for all intents and purposes made my great room into the after hours bar for the servers and bartenders of Memphis. Around this fourteen foot bar was shelving three high stacked with booze. That is the house I brought my Mother to so she could slow down her drinking.....
 
I already live in a dry home but I am not sure I would want to share it with an alcoholic.
 
I don't drink alone at home, but I enjoy to have drinks when my friend comes over for dinner (wine) and a movie (LI iced teas) I haven't been drunk since I was in my early 20's. I hadn't even been buzzed until just recently. I'm very paranoid about losing my license so I don't like to drink much when I go out. Plus I don't like to spend a lot at bars, so I go when they have good specials, or I go to a club where you can bring your own bottle and leave it there. the mixers are free, you just tip the bartenders.

My friend was thinking he was having a problem with drinking and for a while, a few weeks maybe he decided to stop. I didn't drink around him then.

I don't know if I could give up having it at home, but for the right guy I wouldn't rule it out.
 
I feel like I don't drink that much, and while it is fun to drink every once in a while, I like being sober :) everything is much more clear and my senses are all opened up! ^.^
 
Yes, I can make that sacrifice. If there were someone I really loved, then I'd do it.
 
I don't drink heavily, but I do like to be able to have a drink or two at home. (For one thing, it's a lot cheaper than going to a bar.)

I think the relationship would have to be pretty serious for me to live in a completely alcohol-free house.
 
One time this girl I knew back 20 years or so ago was having a get together and she started dating a guy who had quit drinking. She said no alcohol for the party. I don't think anyone had a good time at the party.
 
MoufOfKhaos said:
I don't have to drink to have fun, I don't drink alone, and I don't drink to get shitfaced.

That stated, I won't live with someone that states I can't drink at all - respect only goes so far, which is to say that I'll respect an alcoholic enough not to bring drinks around him if he'll let me live as well.

Having to live in a "dry" home would be like me having to attend bible study because he hosts it every month. That's just a problem waiting to happen.
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I agree completely, x2 on all that.

It's sad if you have to drink to have fun, but saying you can't drink at all is far too socially repressive of an atmosphere for me.
 
I am an alcoholic. There is not and will not be any alcohol in my house........even after 34 years.
 
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