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wtf are all gay clubs like this REALLY?

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Today was my first time going to a gay bar, I was nervous as hell.

I arrived at one gay bar and stood outside for about 30 secs (getting cold feet), and a car honked at me and I was worried it was someone i knew and about had a heart attack, but it wasn't thank god. Must have been wanting sex lol.

But I went in and the bartender was a fat old guy wearing a bunny hat, Everyone in there was like late 30s and up.

I left.

I went to another one. Went in. Had a hot baretender, but Same thing. Nobody my age but one guy, but he was a queen so no chance with that...

I started thinking about it. Gay guys my age are usually still stuck in the closet and go to gay bars for fear of being caught. I guess I am doomed to meet people my age and the only chance of fucking someone at gay bar is by getting a desperate old guy (no thanks).


What a let down. If I cannot meet people my age I might as well try to turn straight
 
No all gay bars are not like anything.

Of the gay bars/clubs in my city, each has a pretty unique vibe and clientele. You might need to become more familiar with the typical demographics of the gay establishments in your area.
 
How old are you, 12?

I've been to six gay bars/clubs and one club that had a gay friendly crowd on Thursday night.

The only one I went to that had an older clientele was near the Drunken Unicorn in Atlanta, and I went in there by accident. Shocked the hell out of my best friends' brother.

Not like there aren't other ways of meeting gay men other than the club, but if you're gonna turn straight because you went to two that had older men(and one queen your age - of course maybe if you weren't so against THE QUEENS, maybe he could have suggested a place that is more to your liking)... something is wrong with you.
 
MoufOfKhaos said:
How old are you, 12?

I've been to six gay bars/clubs and one club that had a gay friendly crowd on Thursday night.

The only one I went to that had an older clientele was near the Drunken Unicorn in Atlanta, and I went in there by accident. Shocked the hell out of my best friends' brother.

Not like there aren't other ways of meeting gay men other than the club, but if you're gonna turn straight because you went to two that had older men... something is wrong with you.
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I am 22 and I live in indianapolis.
and the straight was a joke....

I am so horny and want to tyr with a guy but I don't want to date people double my age . I have only one experience with a guy and it wa s acouple days ago. Meet him on craigslist and he was a hot 27 year old, btu I accidently busted in his mouth lol.
 
Don't give up. Indianapolis may not have a lot of bars, but see if you can find a local magazine or newspaper with listings. They might tell you what the crowd is like at various places. You're looking for "a younger crowd" or "a college joint" or something like that.

Watch out for code language. There's one bar in NYC that used to be listed as "the place where young entrepreneurs meet older investors." That means it's a hustler bar!
 
whoa2whoa said:
Nobody my age but one guy, but he was a queen so no chance with that...
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. . .also, it's Sunday. And Easter besides. The crowd at the bar is going to be thinned.
 
Maybe you should do a bit of reasearch before you try a gay bar again.

According to gayindy.com, there are 17 gay bars and clubs in Indianapolis. I think you will be able to find a venue more to your liking.

You might also want to have an open mind when you go out. If you judge everywhere you go as harshly as two place you went to, you are never going to have a good time.

http://www.gayindy.com/bars_clubs.php
 
Whoa, young lads don't go in gay bars (at least where I live), they go in gay CLUBS where you get high, drunk and dance all night long.
It is very good place to pull, all lads are friendly, horny and carefree.
Good for casual sex, but don't expect to find your next BF in there.
 
fluxflux said:
Maybe you should do a bit of reasearch before you try a gay bar again.

According to gayindy.com, there are 17 gay bars and clubs in Indianapolis. I think you will be able to find a venue more to your liking.

You might also want to have an open mind when you go out. If you judge everywhere you go as harshly as two place you went to, you are never going to have a good time.

http://www.gayindy.com/bars_clubs.php
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I would agree with this.
 
Depends what time you went too. Here in the UK, the youngsters don't really hit the bars and clubs until about 10pm where I am. That said, most of my success has been in the trendy straight bars anyway.... ;)
 
whoa2whoa said:
Today was my first time going to a gay bar, I was nervous as hell.

I arrived at one gay bar and stood outside for about 30 secs (getting cold feet), and a car honked at me and I was worried it was someone i knew and about had a heart attack, but it wasn't thank god. Must have been wanting sex lol.

But I went in and the bartender was a fat old guy wearing a bunny hat, Everyone in there was like late 30s and up.

I left.

I went to another one. Went in. Had a hot baretender, but Same thing. Nobody my age but one guy, but he was a queen so no chance with that...

I started thinking about it. Gay guys my age are usually still stuck in the closet and go to gay bars for fear of being caught. I guess I am doomed to meet people my age and the only chance of fucking someone at gay bar is by getting a desperate old guy (no thanks).


What a let down. If I cannot meet people my age I might as well try to turn straight
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internet 2 gotta be da quiet time fa great lands populaces

anyway
woteva ya post on about

ya ya own bar so let ya figa it out
ans if planet lands full so amazin humans a supa everythang ins their neva
stop babbulls maybe figa out sumthang

ans planet get sum sleep

thankyou

yes please wipe afta slippin in ma bar

ha
 
booboo,

the older men are where it's at, they have money, their own place, a car and they're usually pretty hot, I get where you're coming from though, getting with someone your own age is cute, but why rule out the hot bears and dilfs ?
 
In Calgary when I was growing up, nobody would be caught dead at the bar until midnight. And then the gay community was big enough for a great party but small enough that people didn't split off into their own isolated bars. It was everybody from 18 to grandpa, leathers to feathers, university professors to unemployed labourers.

So, it might be i)wrong bar, ii)wrong time, iii)wrong attitude. It's not like file sharing. You can't just log in to a bar and download someone you'd like to fuck.

You have to actually meet a whole bunch of different people, see where things go, make friends, have them introduce you to their friends, and then all of a sudden after only a year or two, you've found someone great.
 
All the best gay clubs and bars are underground ones. You'll have to do a lot of research to find the good ones where the hot young ones go, but once you'll find it, it'll totally be worth the effort.

Lex
 
A few points, young grasshopper:

- Just because YOU are in the closet doesn't mean that all young gay men are. I'd say that a younger guy is more likely to be out than in these days.

- If your attitude at the bars is anything similar to the attitude displayed in your post, then it's no wonder you can't meet anyone.

- A cursory search on google reveals (surprise!) what you can expect from almost any bar in the country.

- Please tell me more about how those 2 bars in Indianapolis are representative of gay bars in general.

- If your goal when going to bars is to find some weenis, then you're just as desperate as the old guys who frequent them.
 
>>>the older men are where it's at, they have money, their own place, a car and they're usually pretty hot.

The older guys with their own place, a car, and looking hot? They're not at the bars.

Lex
 
Usually there are a few token bitter queens at bars but never the ENTIRE bar.
 
If the club had a hot bartender you should've asked him about other clubs, give him a good tip always eases it. Works for me...|
 
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