I'm glad this had a good ending.
I'm concerned about your professor though. She outed this guy to you even though he is in the closet. That really wasn't fair to him.
In the end, things have worked out, but what she did to him, she can do to you. Unless you want her telling others about you, I'd visit with her and make sure she understands that what you told her, you told her in confidence and that you expect her not to repeat it. Unless, of course, you want her to tell other gays she knows who come to her like you did, then that's another matter.
Anyway, congrats. Looks like you have a new friend!
I'm concerned about your professor though. She outed this guy to you even though he is in the closet. That really wasn't fair to him.
In the end, things have worked out, but what she did to him, she can do to you. Unless you want her telling others about you, I'd visit with her and make sure she understands that what you told her, you told her in confidence and that you expect her not to repeat it. Unless, of course, you want her to tell other gays she knows who come to her like you did, then that's another matter.
Anyway, congrats. Looks like you have a new friend!


