WTF is with the gay men

[jstanthrguy88]

So as a general question to all flat out gay men I want to ask what in the hell makes any of you so much better than me? I was out tonight with my ex girlfriend and when a guy came up to me we talked for a bit and then he asked about my ex and I explained that she was an ex that it just didnt work with and he got a look like he was discusted even talking to me and called me a "greedy" bastered as he pranced away. I have gotten this reaction several times from gay men and I really want to know why it seems that every time a guy finds out I'v had my junk in a chick I'm treated with a hillbillie redneck attitude and they have the right to turn their nose up at me like I have something to be ashamed of. Can it really repulse a guy so much that I find a girl good company every now and then? All it takes is a "sorry I don't like guys that date girls ." Thats all it takes but no as a typical gay man most have to make it some big thing. And I have had a guy have the ball to say to me that its because he dosnt want to be left for a chick. I'm not sure if you would feel better if I left for another man, that just means you where doing a really crappy job at what you do. At least if I leave for her its cuz shes got something you dont. On the other hand a Bi man dosnt just say I think I want some of this today and damp your ass for the day, its the type of person that your with that is going to stab your ass in the back and go looking elsewhere. But I guess I'v missed that its only bi guys that with mess around behind your back and and leave you for someone else, a gay man would never do that. So next time you brush a guy off because hes bi and you end up alone you can sit down and think hes always got a date for Friday night because hes just that greedy.




Also I would like to say in no way shape or form do I think cheating is ok and even if you where crappy in bed I'm not dating you for your ability to swallow.

 

[kallipolis]

As you have issues with people who self appoint themselves judges of your right to live your life as you please, it is wise not to imitate their behaviour, by presuming to repay them with the same coin.

To do so would be the unacceptable face of hypocrisy.

Do your own thing, and grow a thicker skin.

 

[rareboy]

Relax. Dude.

 

[Paws]

Do I see this right? One huge paragraph of text without a single comma?

Can someone translate what he wrote?

 

[treanir]

I know how this thread will play out (hint: search for any of the other bi-bashing/bi-defending threads in HT), but because some things must take their natural course (and because the main characters aren't present yet) I will refrain from giving any spoilers. I'll just grab the popcorn and watch the show.

 

[kallipolis]

Do I see this right? One huge paragraph of text without a single comma?

Can someone translate what he wrote?

Bias free, translation:

I'm not really queer. Merely, multi choice.,

 

[giftart]

Do I see this right? One huge paragraph of text without a single comma?

Can someone translate what he wrote?

LOL! this made me laugh.

 

[kallipolis]

I've been thinking about the concept in my mind, what I think is this that a gay guy expects to end up in a relationship or at least 'hook up' with another gay guy, regardless of if he's slept with a girl in the whole awkward coming out process or not, so the girl in the past thing is presumably exaggeration.

However gay guys in general like to hold a belief that maybe someone else could be attracted to them as a person not a gender or something like that, mainly straight guys, I know a lot of gay men who would and could happily have sex with a straight men in fact probably over a gay or bi man. However this would only be for the sexual conquest for the majority of the time as opposed to an actual relationship. But that's only because it's a conversion, defining someone's marginal sexuality as possible proof of your own appeal. Yet then there's something like bisexuality that comes along, it's definitive, in that yes you are attracted to both men and women, your boundaries are wider then gay mans and that you may leave the gay man for anything, guy or girl so no surprise. Plus your sexuality isn't a mythological sex fantasy, it's boring, it's not the same, and it's too much.... for most gay men.

Most of us discover who we are through a variety of relationships with our fellow traveller.

Many gay men were once self identified bi men.

The process of self discovery needs us to engage in intimate relationships that bare all that we are. This takes time.

Each person should face the truth and accept our naturally occurring sexual identity, in order to become all that we are, and live our life in freedom so that we may better know who we are.

There are those people who will live in self denial of who they are. Such a person guarantees them self a life time of misery. Such self deception predictably will include a wife and children.

 

[ronnie_h]

So as a general question to all flat out gay men I want to ask what in the hell makes any of you so much better than me? ...

1. I love to suck dick... and I KNOW how to do it! BUT... If it just remotedly smells like fish you can go and practise self-sucking.

Want me to continue?

 

[BearBoi]

To the OP:

Some of my good friends are bi. I know a gay man who is married to a bisexual man who used to be married to a woman.

I'm sorry you've had bad experiences with bi-phobes. I suspect they are just projecting their fear of vag on to you. Try not to take it personally.

 

[GL]

i am superior to you as a gay man because i see myself as a trekker more so than a trekkie. that i prefer dc comics over marvel.

so as you can see that really isn't much of a big deal.

 

[Reality101]

WTF if with gay men??? WTF is with you?? You want me to politely tell you that I'm not interested in being with a fish dicked coward? Well excuse me, but I am far too disgusted with you and the whole idea of your "bisexuality" I have the balls to stand proud and be gay. What about you? You keep your foot in the closet like we don't see it. Pffft, my manners take a backseat to lying, weak, douche bags like yourself. Sorry... try getting some sympathy from your girlfriend's pussy. Seeing as how you like eating it and all

Was I convincing? Did I get it right? Sorry the bitch came out. It happens when I burp.

 

[rubberGay]

I'm gay but as a bottom have been with bimales as well as gay guys, I have no problem with biguys but tend to prefer gay guys as they tend to have more in common with me, to each his own!

 

[HornyHenry]

I'm a gay Top and discovered early on that a bisexual's ass is just as good a fuck as a gay's and most suck cock just as good too. Most of the bottoms I fucked said that a bisexual's cock is just as good. A man is a man.
The gays should be glad you're man enough to fuck a man as well as a woman. As one bi friend said, Bis have twice the opportunity to score.

 

[Ddouble]

Do I see this right? One huge paragraph of text without a single comma?

Can someone translate what he wrote?

No, there's punctuation in there -

not that any of it helped.

I was unable to make any sense of it either.

I read about four lines of it and then I was like,
WOTTHEHELL are you talking about?!?

 

[G-Lexington]

I guess I can sum it up (briefly) with:

Attention, you holier-than-thou faggots. I'm bisexual. Not "undecided," not "chicken shit", not "having my cake and eating it too". And you only feel that way because I get laid more than you.

...or something to that effect.

Lex

 

[Yohan1989]

bisexual are still gay anyways...

 

[954dude]

It's not "gay men", that's SOME people who do things like that. Don't generalise...not everything has to do with sexuality.

 

[Yohan1989]

^^^Aww. You can get away with saying that because your avatar is so cute.

Aww thanks

 

[Horschallen]

Those who look down at you and put you down are really shallow to begin with and are insecure about their own selves. So remember if one gives you the treatment, just know he is shallow AND insecure. And let me add, miserable. With that, that makes you above him. Good for you!