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WTF is wrong with dudes?? (a rant)

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thaen243

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so I've been trying to hook with some dudes on craigslist the past couple weekends. every dude seems to only want to fuck and I dont like ass sex, and its a concept none of these dudes seem to get. kissing, jerking, blowjobs; i like that stuff but dudes only seem to want to do ass stuff. so wtf is wrong with dudes? if all that other stuff doesn't seem interesting with them I must be straight, cuz it seems to be gay or bi you HAVE to like anal.

the kicker is this one dude who I almost let come over. he said he was bi but only like to fuck dudes, NOTHING else. i told him i wasn't into anal but the other stuff. i was horny enough to tell him he could come over and I'd blow him but he wouldnt let off the anal. he kept saying "well we'll see ;)", so i told him if we tried it he'd have to blow me and he flat out refused and kept saying by the end of the night he'd be fucking me. finally i told him if he came over we'd just jerk off and I'd blow him, nothing else unless he was gonna reciprocate some. here was his response

"haha..cool.. I will be there in 25 minutes.. im not sucking you off though but make sure you are clean lol.. if you shower it will be nice :P.. so your ass will be clean in case you want to bottom haha"

i responded not to come over, he asked what if he did anyway and I told him I'm a gun owner and could easily fake a break & enter self defense scenario.

another dude told me i was pretty obviously straight since I didn't want to fuck. so dudes, what the hell is wrong here, thoughts??
 
I don't know where your located and whether that plays a role in your problem, but there are A LOT of gay and bi guys out there who don't care for anal. And there are a lot more guys who enjoy anal who don't always need to perform anal to have a good time. I am one of them. If I know a guy only wants to make out and blow each other and jerk off, I'd be super horned up for that.

If you're turning to Craigslist for hookups, then I suggest you post your own ad instead of waiting to reply to the posts of others. That way you can specify in the ad: "I am looking for x, y and z ONLY. DO NOT EMAIL if you are looking for anal."

The guys who are egging you on with pseudo-insults like "you're obviously straight" are clearly trying to peer pressure you into giving in to their demands. They either get off on pushing your limits or they are really arrogant or desperate to hook up. There are 1000 reasons why you wouldn't want to do anal with a guy from Craigslist, from health concerns all the way down to just not being that into anal.

So stop worrying about it and post your own ads...and screen out the guys who insist on pushing for anal. If someone asks for it in the first email, don't even bother responding.
 
midnight81 said:
I don't know where your located and whether that plays a role in your problem, but there are A LOT of gay and bi guys out there who don't care for anal. And there are a lot more guys who enjoy anal who don't always need to perform anal to have a good time. I am one of them. If I know a guy only wants to make out and blow each other and jerk off, I'd be super horned up for that.

If you're turning to Craigslist for hookups, then I suggest you post your own ad instead of waiting to reply to the posts of others. That way you can specify in the ad: "I am looking for x, y and z ONLY. DO NOT EMAIL if you are looking for anal."

The guys who are egging you on with pseudo-insults like "you're obviously straight" are clearly trying to peer pressure you into giving in to their demands. They either get off on pushing your limits or they are really arrogant or desperate to hook up. There are 1000 reasons why you wouldn't want to do anal with a guy from Craigslist, from health concerns all the way down to just not being that into anal.

So stop worrying about it and post your own ads...and screen out the guys who insist on pushing for anal. If someone asks for it in the first email, don't even bother responding.
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^ What he said.
 
i am the same way, I love giving BJ's ,rimming, kissing all that stuff & usually dont do anal either. If the guy is into anal & keeps pressuring me, then I ask if hes a top or bottom, & no matter what he says, I say I am the same thing too, so it wont work. then we just get off orally.
 
Why did you keep talking to the guy that told you he wanted anal? He told you what he wanted. It didn't match in any way what you were looking for. Why didn't you end the conversation right there? You tell him you only want to blow him. He tells you he only wants to fuck you. You kept trying to convince him to let you just blow him. You did the same thing he did. He said no to what you wanted but you kept trying to change his mind.

If it's not what you want, move on.
 
the "straights" only want to do ass stuff because a hole is a hole is a hole
 
yeah I'm just starting to realize the normal guys who post on craigslist are few and far between. I got another e-mail from that dude asking if i was ready to get fucked today and I told him to piss off. then he e-mailed me back and said okay I could just give him head, and again I told him to piss off. i'm just gonna stick to girls
 
Look, I see where you're coming from, but how can you not understand where they're coming from? Do you have a penis?

Even so, there are plenty of gay guys (me included) who would be more than happy with not doing anal. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place.
 
i hear ya man. there are some dudes who only want to get sucked and fuck ass. They are not into returning the favor. Next time you post ad. on cragistlist, make sure you specify what you are looking to get into and what things you are not into. and even after that if they keep asking you to do stuff that you are not into then just don't chat with them anymore. move on. guys like buses. one gone another is on the way! Also if they are having sex with guy then they are not straight. Either they are bi or gay. lol
 
thaen243

Don't get discouraged so easily. I know what excatly you going thru. Some guys are assholes and selfish. They are only interested in satisfying themselves. Next time you post ad. on craigslist, specify what excatly you are looking to get into. and if they keep asking you to do stuff that you are not into, stop chatting with them and move on. guys are like buses, one gone another is on the way.
 
Don't look for it on Craiglist, simple solution to the problem. The majority of people on there are too horny for their own good and you don't want to do anything with them, especially if you do it at your place because they know where you live and will keep coming back for more and more sex when you don't want it, it's really bad idea and an lead to situations similar to rape..

If you want to do something with a guy, go out to a local bar, meet some people, do stuff in real life, don't just use the internet for it. Even if you just want sex, it's a much better choice to meet people in real life, that aren't sitting on their internet waiting for someone they can fuck.
 
Sorry - I'd be one of those guys. :) All that stuff sounds great as foreplay - but it is foreplay. Nothing blows you nuts off like good spirited fucking. Don't have to ass fuck every single time - but I don't think I could relate to a guy who didn't like it.

I used to fuck this hot little bottom boy - I kind of lost interest in him because - he doesn't like to suck dick. So I naturally started fucking other boys who do suck dick and like their asses fucked...... they are served first - because they are more fun.

Sorry you don't like ass fucking - I'd call that a hang up - and it would bore me.
 
looks like a lot of guys should just stick to dildos and masturbation, then you can adjust the speed and pressure and only yourselves to love/blame.
 
I am gay more top than bottom. I get turnd on getting a str8 guy off but have fond most str8 or curious guys want to fuck.

Talking to str8 friends of mine who have not fucked me, I had one that put it best. "Every porn flic I have ever seen has at least one scene of a guy fucking a girl in the ass. Ask most girls and no way they will let you in. So although I do not want to fuck a guy I understand". Str8 gfuys who have fucked me have said the same.

If they want my ass it has to be face to face and I want there tongue in my mouth. Needless to say most wont but the few that did God it was great grin.
 
DrewbieDoo said:
the "straights" only want to do ass stuff because a hole is a hole is a hole
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No, the bi/curious guys have their heart set on anal because they fantasize about it so much, but girls won't let them do it. They figure that anal is THE way gay guys have sex, so that's what they want to use us for.




thaen243 said:
yeah I'm just starting to realize the normal guys who post on craigslist are few and far between. I got another e-mail from that dude asking if i was ready to get fucked today and I told him to piss off. then he e-mailed me back and said okay I could just give him head, and again I told him to piss off. i'm just gonna stick to girls
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You could stop with craigslist already; that's where all the weirdos go. If you MUST try a site, try adam4adam or manhunt; there are quite a few "oral only" guys on there. Find someone who respects you, not someone who just wants to shove their dick in you.
 
Perhaps it is my location, but I have never once had a problem with anyone on craigslist. No weirdos, no creepy guys, no one pressuring me to do something I don't want to do. Just really hot guys and a few really hot encounters.

craigslist is just a tool. It is neither bad nor good. It's a tool used buy many people. Craigslist isn't the problem. The people are the problem.

Like it was suggested above just post exactly want you're looking for. You may have to weed through a few different emails until you find it, but that's the price you pay for choosiness. lol
 
Curiosity69 said:
Don't look for it on Craiglist, simple solution to the problem. The majority of people on there are too horny for their own good and you don't want to do anything with them, especially if you do it at your place because they know where you live and will keep coming back for more and more sex when you don't want it, it's really bad idea and an lead to situations similar to rape..

If you want to do something with a guy, go out to a local bar, meet some people, do stuff in real life, don't just use the internet for it. Even if you just want sex, it's a much better choice to meet people in real life, that aren't sitting on their internet waiting for someone they can fuck.
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That is WAY too much effort. Plus doing it that way, you run the risk of leading them on. The internet is much more expedient, and you don't even have to change out of your PJ's.
 
i won't be doing anything on craigslist anymore. crazy asshole kept e-mailing me today so I stopped replying. i went to a comic store nearby cuz I'm a nerd and crazy asshole was there (i didnt know what he looked like he would only send me body pics, he has a butter face too btw). crazy asshole started to follow me home and part of the way there he got my attention and told me who he was and recognized me. i freaked my shit and told him to fuck off and started running through the neighborhoods and lost him. done with craigslist.
 
So, I arranged for a hookup with a guy on craigslist. I met him in a parking lot by where I live, and invited him out of his car and up into my place. Well, he drove off and emailed me back saying he thought I was a girl and it was an accident. WTF is up with that?
 
craigslist is a full of psychos. If you want some man-to-man actions i would suggest you open an account at adam4adam.com and manhunt.net. Not to say you wouldn't find crazy people on these sites but at least its better than craigslist. just my 2 cents.
 
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