Yep, it was a date.

[gmoney]

I had a feeling she was looking for more than friendship.

I've never been in your shoes, so I really don't have any advice.

Just let her down easy and tell her she's attractive, but there were no vibes when you were together.

 

[GL]

lord i wish i had your trouble. i got "rescheduled" upon tonight.

anyhow, i think you handled it as best as possible. you were honest without having to be mean in any way. you let her down easily.

 

[Alpha1851]

Wow, that was really thoughtful and mature of you Transpogue! That took guts.

I, on the other hand, opt for behaving like a heinous bitch in the hopes that the fella will eventually lose interest and go away on his own. I've just never had your guts when it comes to those things. Your method is definitely cleaner and quicker. Kind of like pulling off a band-aid rapidly.

Don't ya just hate it though when someone likes you and you don't return her affections? *sigh*

 

[Alpha1851]

But in my experience, it's the butch ones who tend to attract the straight women. I'm always tickled by that.

I think most women have no problem admitting that another chick is hot.

Oh, oh, I get it. You mean, that if there's two women walking by those straight females, they'd find the butcher dyke hotter than the femmy dyke? Hmmm...that's interesting. Predisposition for desiring so called masculine traits maybe?

I really thought the results would be just the opposite.

 

[Alpha1851]

Makes sense. But about 70% of the straight women who talk about who they'd date if they dated women will say butches, in my experience.

I'd go for a fem. woman. We could share clothes. Plus, I'd finally get to be the top in the sack.

So, did she handle it all well?

 

[alley]

I am kinda oblivious sometimes...I have had a few dates and did not realize that they were meant to be dates until after the fact.

Hope she took it well.

 

[fetaby]

BUt you will hear back from her... you're too much lady to let go of easily....

And if push comes to shove, and she gets all pissy, you have lost her as a client, there will be more clients... but I don't think this will be the case....

I think that she will fall deeper into your spell... she will say that no one else has had the guts to be honest like you did, and she wants to rub on your naughty bits...

yup.

 

[TKNAKED]

here's my two cents ... I had a woman who wouldn't accept the fact that I just wanted to be friends with her after all the years we had known each other. She kept telling me she loved me and could feel the vibes from me that I loved her but was to scared to admit it.
BULL ... I'm 100% out and plan never to play that side of the fence again.
Anyway I finally told her that until she could accept the friendship on my terms as just friends ... well ... SEE YA.
There was a bit more water under the bridge over the years ... and not good I might add.
But, I hope things don't get so drastic for you and you can work it out easily.
But you have to look out for your own sainty and don't keep beating your head against a wall.
GOOD LUCK.

 

[freefall]

Don't think about it too much. The truth may hurt but she's gotta move on. You've done something good to her by facing her towards the truth, when you can fool her around and play with her heart.

Except if she either had committed suicide or she's too angry since she's obsessive about you