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yet another confused soul

I have to admit that I was wrong about Navyhusky. I thought he was just playing the religious card as an exit strategy, but no, apparently not.

So Navy, you got some great advice on how to come to terms with yourself and just remember, there isn't an eleventh commandment about being a homo. Leviticus is a social, not a religious manifesto. Jesus never once said, 'Stone the homos'. And Paul had a lot of advice for everyone else in Ephesus; not only for the homos.

Even the Catholic Church acknowledges homosexuality as a natural God-given state...they just don't want the homos to fuck. But at least de-listing queer as Satanic possession is a start.

So, as Lex has said, 'live it'. Be happy. Experience joy and love.

Eventually, your country is going to grow up and take it's place in the civilized world and then you won't have to hide anymore.
 
Just stop getting down on your knees to pray and just, well, get down on your knees.

No but seriously, the old testament is bullshit and has a bunch of crazy rules. Christians just got to pick and choose which ones they were going to culturally stick with. It's nonsense. Being gay is totally natural, go with it.
 
Hey NavyHusky I see that some of the comments made here must have given you some words to think about and ponder. I hope that you find them comforting and yet also enlightening and challenging to you. God loves you no matter what your lifestyle is after all He created you. The only thing He cares about is how you live your life.

I noticed that in the Show Yourself Off section that you have decided to take one giant step out of the closet and show yourself off. That shows progress in your thinking and coming to terms with things in your own mind. Take it one day at a time and one step at a time.

It sounds like you have a great friend in Vamp and it sounds like he wants to be there with you to help you. Accept is friendship and is offer to help you get through this. At least he will be a sounding board for you and will listen to you.

Good luck to you in accepting who you are and remember you can still love God and be a Christian and also be one heck of a great gay guy too.
 
I don't mean to come off as bashing your faith, but when you get into religious issues with homosexuality, you have to look at all of the other backward issues that the Bible advocates and how we have evolved as a species since it was written.

Among other things, the Bible commands:

-children to be killed for disrespecting their parents
-the allowance of slavery and the beating/abuse of slaves
-rape victims should be forced to marry their attackers
-that genocide is noble when its against people that don't believe in God
-that women are not allowed to speak in church

Now, if you're a person with a modern sense of morality, you probably find most of those things rather distasteful, exactly as you do the Bible's teaching that homosexuals should be killed.

Eventually, I hope you can come to recognize that not even Christians follow all of the teachings of the Bible today, because there's some truly pathetic things in there. They may say they do, but none really do (unless they agree with the above, which would not be many).

So, if you feel that you need to keep your faith, I would suggest focusing on the positive aspects of the Bible and rejecting the hate filled messages like we have rejected those dealing with slavery, misogyny, et al.
 
I say buy the boy a book about Buddhist teaching. Scoop him out of that pit black hole of his....let him see the light.

Are you replaceable? You probably are to him if he dumped you for his religion or whatever bugging his "moral"
1) You can fight to get him back...but don't play the I'll-be-his-friend card because I don't know....I feel like that will lead to more heartbreaks for you.
2) Ignore him and find someone else that deserve your love and attention.
 
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