Yo Mama So Homophobic, She. . .

[Nomenclature]

So, over the past two days, my mother has suddenly shown her true colors to me as a completely hateful, vulgar-mouthed-and-minded, homophobic bitch. And this is coming from the son who's offered her nothing but my love and support through everything over the years, including the painful divorce from my father.

She's known that i'm gay for over three years now, and while there were some outbursts had, it was something that was rarely spoken of. To my disbelief, we even managed to get along fine during the between-times. But now, she's decided to let me know how she REALLY feels about having a gay son. And it's just like "Who are you, and what have you done with my mother?" lol





Does anyone else has a batshit crazy, homophobic mother? Feel free to post in this thread.

 

[MMMonsterBoy]

I recently came out to my mother. So I figure she is just going through it? Here is a list of the BS she's spouted:

"This is the worst. I'd rather have a teen mom. I'd rather have a druggie. Being a gay man is the worst."

"I don't know why you would choose to be gay."

"Youre not my son. There is some demon following you. I'm going to pray everynight that this demon goes away."

"Youre not really gay. Men are bound to like women. It is nature."

"I'm so disappointed in your choice of lifestyle."

"Maybe you should be celibate."

"What does a man have that a woman doesn't?"

"Being gay is an illness. The world is corrupt and is on the verge of ending. Think about it, two men can't have children."

"If you choose to adopt they won't be my grandchildren."

"Please try it with a woman. I promise you will love it!"

So I feel for you! I just hope my mom makes a speedy recovery. She is far too stubborn to seek therapy.

 

[Ninja108]

Not to be jaded.... but usually the most homophobic and hateful parents are also the most "religious".
I got lucky in that my parents believe God loves us for who we are. I still find it amazing to this day with the hateful words and actions many of these "parents" do that they really think God is going to greet them with open arms when they finally die.

 

[Nomenclature]

I recently came out to my mother. So I figure she is just going through it? Here is a list of the BS she's spouted:

My mother's more like:


"You're a fucking faggot."

"No one's going to screw you in the ass and drop me off on my doorstep."

"You're too feminine and weak!"

"You're looking for a man to take care of you because you think you're a woman. . .that's not gonna happen!"

"Don't you know they all get AIDS and die? That's because it's a cursed life."

Not to be jaded.... but usually the most homophobic and hateful parents are also the most "religious".

My mother only insights religion when it's convenient, basically.

 

[Fucker29]

So, over the past two days, my mother has suddenly shown her true colors to me as a completely hateful, vulgar-mouthed-and-minded, homophobic bitch. And this is coming from the son who's offered her nothing but my love and support through everything over the years, including the painful divorce from my father.

She's known that i'm gay for over three years now, and while there were some outbursts had, it was something that was rarely spoken of. To my disbelief, we even managed to get along fine during the between-times. But now, she's decided to let me know how she REALLY feels about having a gay son. And it's just like "Who are you, and what have you done with my mother?" lol





Does anyone else has a batshit crazy, homophobic mother? Feel free to post in this thread.

Awww I'm so sorry to hear that. My mom's been perfectly fine with it but I know she hasn't fully accepted it yet. We've had arguements before but she's never said anything homophobic...she did once but that was years and years ago and I hadn't come out yet. I pity her the day she dares to say anything remotely homophobic to my face...'cause I've got a few things to tell her myself.
And I totally get what you're saying about standing by your mother, supporting her in more ways than one and getting nothing in return...other than her calling you names and be an inconsiderate bitch!

 

[SilverSurfer]

I had the great fortune to be born into a whole family of bigots. Not just homosexuals; African Americans, Jewish, Italian, Irish... basically "If you're not WASP, you're not right."

They all pretty much consider me some kind of throwback, although they are perfectly willing to accept me for who I am if a give my soul to Jesus and renounce my sinning ways.

My mother died in 1996, but to this day I can still hear the hateful things she would say without provocation.

Anyway, I chalk it all up to life experience that has made me who I am today, and I'm pretty okay with that.

 

[Lube]

Oh, jeez, it's terrible to hear all these awful stories.

But, you know, the most homophobic people are usually hiding something themselves. Maybe she sees your father in you, and hates herself for ever marrying him (even after the divorce).

Being gay is genetic. YOU GOT IT FROM YOUR FAMILY. So it's incredulous for them to act as if you came out of nowhere. There are other GLBT people in your extended family. It's virtually guaranteed.

In any case,

 

[lunarus]

LOL just throw it back at her, tell her she was the one that made you gay...

Maybe that would shut her hole...

You know people spout off that children are such gifts from their god/gods, yet they say such horrid things to them when they share an important part of their lives.

Such ass hats the lot of them...

 

[robbii-bob]

i never really told my mum that i was gay, i just kinda said "mum, this guy just asked me out and i said yeah" we never really talked about it but she seemed fine with him over facebook and the one time she met him. there was only one time when she really upset me. she was drinking one night, she rarely drinks so she got drunk real quick. then all of a sudden at 12 am-ish she gets up, declares she is going out into town and walks out of the house. so i follow her not wanting anything to happen and she cant find a way to get to town (being that drunk she forgot about taxi's LOL.! ) so she gave up parked her bum infront of a closed shop and starts throwing insults at me for following her. one of them was "gay boy" it kinda really hurt, it still does now. i dont think she remembers it but i sure do. i havnt said anything to her tho.. dont want to get into a conflict. we're somewhat close now :/

 

[SuperPsyze]

My mom hasn't really made a reaction, but my dad apparently went to my aunt's house yelling "My Son's a Fag" (although, to be fair, there isn't really an equivalent word in Vietnamese that doesn't have the negative connotation). I only heard about this by word of mouth, so it might have not even happened.

Both my parents think I should stay single and get rich, though.