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You think this is way too fast?

Dominus

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So, after waiting for my husband of 8 years to come back for a year and a half, my husband and I finally sealed the deal. We mutually agreed to permanently split and go our separate ways.

About a week later, I found someone on a dating site. We met up, went out on a date, etc. Oh my goodness, we are so compatible. Even our ages That was 2 weeks ago. I have begun moving my stuff into his house. We have started doing grocery shopping together. Etc. Heck, he made me cum 3 times and I made him cum 3 times yesterday.

People in his life as well as mine are telling us we are moving way way too fast.

Especially older gays, think this is a disaster waiting to happen?
 
Your divorce attorney will likely advise against moving in with your new lover.
 
jaysizzles said:
Your divorce attorney will likely advise against moving in with your new lover.
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Why? What could result from this?

My ex and I have promised each other to not involve any lawyer. We are still on good terms. Heck, we still talk with each other everyday. Way too much, I know. There really is no bad blood between us.

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I should add that he moved to paradise a year and a half ago, about 2000 miles away.
 
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I can't imagine that I'd move in with anyone after only 2 weeks. The multiple orgasms I could live with.
 
I knew the first week I hooked up with my partner of 39 years that we would be living together and would have done it right away except he moved back to his hometown for 3 months while I was taking courses in order not to distract me.

And when he came back we got an apartment together.

In your case, if he is letting you move your stuff into his house...he must be feeling the connection or he would be holding off.

The most important thing thought....do the two of you love one another?
 
I would at least wait a year to see how things go before moving in with someone.


I had to turn down a guy once because he was moving too fast after we hung out the first time he asked me out twice.
 
It will all come to an end on stuffed cabbage night :(
 
So sorry to hear that the breakup is permanent, you made the hubby seem so damn hot over the years of this on going soap opera, glad to see another season has been green lighted.
 
Although that is too fast, I think that you will be able to handle whatever the outcome is.
 
It is incredibly fast and yes the odds are against you, but stranger things have happened this might last it might not, but currently he is a rebound fling don't be surprised if in 6 months to a year you might possibly seeking other accomodations, Moving in together after 14 days is practically light speed!
 
ShadowCat said:
It is incredibly fast and yes the odds are against you, but stranger things have happened this might last it might not, but currently he is a rebound fling don't be surprised if in 6 months to a year you might possibly seeking other accomodations, Moving in together after 14 days is practically light speed!
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LOL or may be I am his rebound fling. His partner just ran away, too LOL.
 
Only you can tell if it is too soon.

But life is short. When you find an opportunity for happiness, grab it.

I hope all works out well for both of you. :D
 
The only ones who can say it is too fast is either you or your partner. If you're both comfortable with how things are going, then it isn't too fast.
 
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