He wasn't exactly a "bully", but there was this guy at school that seemed to take a dislike to me for no reason. I could tell he was trying to make me miserable, but we didn't run in the same social circles, so it was easy for me to rise above it and ignore. He was ridiculously hot, always with different women etc
Anyway, it's now been 8 years since I left school, and 10 since he left (he was 2 years above me).
He's engaged, has a kid and lives not too far away from me (though he never did live far away - we've always lived in the same suburb, from living with parents to living on our own).
A few years ago, one of my female friends that was working in a nightclub behind the bar at the time, said that he'd came in once really REALLY drunk. He'd been on a night out with friends and lost them all. Apparently he was telling her that he is "bi" and no one would understand and that it's been hard for him...she said he was almost in tears.
Fast forward a couple of years and he adds me on Facebook. Since school it seems he's done a bit of growing up because I'd bumped into him a couple of times in the street and he'd stopped to talk to me, asked how I was doing etc. I was happy to chat away, because regardless of our past, I'd always fancied the pants off him and would do anything to get into his pants (or so I thought....). Needless to say, I had no issue with adding him on Facebook.
A few weeks after adding me on Facebook he started messaging me quite frequently, sometimes sober, sometimes drunk. Eventually he told me that when he saw me in the street he "liked the look of what he saw" and started asking me if I'd be up for some "discreet fun to help him experiment".
It gave me great pleasure to turn him down
Now when I see him in the street, it's a bit awkward (for him, not me) and I've seen him out in town a few times (I never really go to gay bars/clubs - not my scene). Everytime I see him with a few drinks in him he makes a point of ditching his friends and following me around like a lost puppy, "accidentally" groping my ass when no one is looking etc. Tbh, when I've got a few drinks in me, I enjoy leading him on, I guess as some sort of payback for the way he treated me in school. I've even got a taxi back from town to where we live a few times and he's been very forward, begging me to come in (he lives alone right now because he and his fiancé are having relationship problems - BIG SHOCK!), and I turn him down every time
Therefore, I say add him. If you're out the closet and he knows about it....it could lead to a similar situation, allowing you to get the
payback I did
