Young and old

[virgoboy]

In the hetero world, it is common for older men to have young mistress or girls.
Arnie, Berlusconi and even Osama had 3 young wives in 1 house.

In the gay world it is much harder for older men to get young guys. Imagine Osama living with 3 young hareems. The question for an older man is how successful have you been in attracting younger guy?
For the younger guys, is it likely that you would accept and older lover? say 6 to 15 yrs older? any preconditions?

 

[ronnie_h]

Money is the most successful way of attracting a younger guy when you get older. Become a sugar daddy. It works the same way in the hetero world... Okay, skip the muslim world as they got other means to convince a woman to get breeded by you, even though there is money (or camels) involved in most cases as well.

 

[SuperDave]

My boyfriend is 10 years older, hes 30 and im 20 in June. It's scary how much alike we are even though we have a pretty big age gap. Sometimes I do wish he was my age cause it can seem like we're on different paths of life but most of the time i dont care at all. I dont care about money either, its all about love for me.

 

[castoono]

I am always looking for guys 5-10 years older. When I'm 90 is going to be difficult to find a thing.

 

[mbamike]

I have been very successful at attracting younger guys. Typically, 10-15 years younger.

 

[MindBlast]

I'm 27 but I'm only interested in guys near my age or older (from approximately 24-35, but those aren't hard limits). I get teenagers and 20-21 year old guys hitting on me all the time, and I don't like it one bit.

In an older guy, I'm not interested in money AT ALL. They just have to be self-sufficient like I am. Physically, he better have some good muscles. That's what I like, as well as getting along well with me.

Trust me, if you're older and built, you will have young guys all over you. I have friends who are 48 and 53 (they're a couple), and both huge muscular men. They have young guys as young as 19-20 after them all the time.

 

[rjmrjm21]

Every older gay guy I know (over 50) uses money and material goods to keep younger men around. None have probs hooking up but, keeping the younger guy hanging on is another story. the ones with money= lots of "friends." The ones without, not very many.

 

[juicyjack]

I generally don't give age a lot of thought. I'm 23 and I've been with both men and women of many ages, from 18 to late 40's. I don't think I could go older than that though, but it's more attitude than actual age. I was with a 40 year old guy once but he referred to himself as daddy as I was fucking him. I was not a fan of that lol.

 

[Anders123]

I'm 20, and am most physically attracted to those 30-55, but have found myself emotionally attracted to people outside of that age range, too (the only man I've ever actually dated was 27).

I loathe the concept that an older/younger relationship is a 'dad/son', 'dominant/submissive', 'mentor/mentee' etc. relationship. It absolutely abhors me. It seems a stretch for most people (even those involved) to simply identify this type of relationship as an amalgamation of two equals. It seems there has to be an element of fetish, kink, or even monetary exchange to it. It frustrates me, as I am a young man who is typically attracted to older guys, but I do not wish to be treated as the student to the teacher, the submitter to the dominant, or the 'son' to the '(sugar) daddy'. I'm actually somewhat mortified by these concepts. It just seems that everywhere I look, that's what 'those types of people' are searching for. I'm fine with kinks and fetishes, really. If something gets you off, all power to you, go for it (within reason, of course ). I just don't like the assumption that I'm some sort of submissive 'son' or 'boy toy', when all I am doing is expressing interest in the type of men I find physically and emotionally attractive.

I went off topic in another thread with the above rant, though I feel it better suits the topic here (I edited parts of the text for contextual reasons).