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Perhaps, I should have named this thread, ALL NAYSAYERS, JUDGERS, AND CONDEMNERS ABOARD!!, but just give me a moment.

I have a slightly younger cousin, who everybody attributes to the break-up of a marriage; she was 22, and he was 43 and the one married (to another) at the time. Long story shorter, "she" was younger and wasn't the one that pledged before God and all assembled to remain faithful. As in all other five forums I frequent, a common theme is: "It takes two to tango."

Apparently, now my outrageous flirting has once again put me in a tight spot. A hot guy I've known from church for like 3+ years and 2+ years, but has been married for 4+ years has put a move on me. Once he told me that he was married, I toned it down big time, but the seed had already been planted. He moved out-of-state, and I thought that was that, but the job fell through, and they moved back. But since he no longer worked at the supermarket I frequented our [3] brief encounters were brief.

Friday night found us at the casino playing on neighboring slot machines and he flat-out told me that he's dated a guy before. Blah, blah, blah, invited me to the restroom where he showed me his cock. I complimented him and left, but before the "show" I did give him my number, which he prompted put into his cell. And yes, his cock was awfully "purdy"!!! Lol

Not knowing his number, which he did offer, but politely refused, I don't know how to receive his call. I've had exactly two cell number phone calls I didn't recognize, and both refused to leave a message. All I know is, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!!!!

I do NOT EVER want to break up a marriage! Normally, I show great restraint and almost disdain for the closet-cases. But truth be told: the Church condemns us just for being gay, regardless of devotion to the Church or our partner.

We all know that a baby doesn't a marriage make, and her baby wasn't his.
 
Personally, I would ask him about his circumstances. It IS possible that he has some sort of loose relationship, or that his wife and he are separated already. However, if he's just flat out cheating... I would get out. That's just me, because I would never want to be an affair. You'll have to make your own call.
 
yeah. just ask him straight up - "what about your wife? what would she think about this?"

on the other hand, sounds like this guy will end up cheating on his wife with or without your help....
 
It was circumstance that brought us together ... we both worked as managers at supermarkets, while still going to school.

I made joke of that when I first met him, and it all went from there.
 
Your gonna end up just being used by him as a cum bucket. But then again life is short and some guys are into that ;) .
 
Had he just told me, I would have been just flattered and thought about it for a day ... but since he went out of his way to share his beautiful, cut, soft cock with me I find myself still obsessing over this physically perfect specimen days later!

Marriage is a deep commitment on paper and not a trap with a baby lie.
 
I don't understand the lead in paragraph, but that said, sex can be gotten fairly easily for most people if that's all they want. Having been married I can imagine the turmoil and frustration he feels. He seems destined to full blown cheating, but it doesn't have to be with you.

The sex drive is powerful for a reason, but if you're interested in every pretty dick, you best get busy if you need to check this one off your list.

Your flirting did not cast a spell. It confirmed you were interested, something you continue to do. Now your both in a game of cock teasing.

It seems that gay guys have always been willing to enable married gay, bi or straight. We probably have no way of knowing how many married guys cheat with men, but it seems that, like women, there are are gays who like their married men. What's a quick blow and go to one person can be committment to another and exciting addictive intrigue to yet another. Since we are not just dogs sniffing around I the back yard we face consequences being intimate with another person and whatever agenda they bring.

Will it be exciting? Probably. Will there be unforeseen consequences? Probably.
 
Perhaps, I should have named this thread, ALL NAYSAYERS, JUDGERS, AND CONDEMNERS ABOARD!!, but just give me a moment.

I have a slightly younger cousin, who everybody attributes to the break-up of a marriage; she was 22, and he was 43 and the one married (to another) at the time. Long story shorter, "she" was younger and wasn't the one that pledged before God and all assembled to remain faithful. As in all other five forums I frequent, a common theme is: "It takes two to tango."

Apparently, now my outrageous flirting has once again put me in a tight spot. A hot guy I've known from church for like 3+ years and 2+ years, but has been married for 4+ years has put a move on me. Once he told me that he was married, I toned it down big time, but the seed had already been planted. He moved out-of-state, and I thought that was that, but the job fell through, and they moved back. But since he no longer worked at the supermarket I frequented our [3] brief encounters were brief.

Friday night found us at the casino playing on neighboring slot machines and he flat-out told me that he's dated a guy before. Blah, blah, blah, invited me to the restroom where he showed me his cock. I complimented him and left, but before the "show" I did give him my number, which he prompted put into his cell. And yes, his cock was awfully "purdy"!!! Lol

Not knowing his number, which he did offer, but politely refused, I don't know how to receive his call. I've had exactly two cell number phone calls I didn't recognize, and both refused to leave a message. All I know is, I WANT, I WANT, I WANT!!!!

I do NOT EVER want to break up a marriage! Normally, I show great restraint and almost disdain for the closet-cases. But truth be told: the Church condemns us just for being gay, regardless of devotion to the Church or our partner.

We all know that a baby doesn't a marriage make, and her baby wasn't his.

You are an example of a Stereotypical gay guy.
 
You are an example of a Stereotypical gay guy.

On the contrary!!! My two brother-in-laws are infinitely more handsome, and I am friends with a few hotter, more financially successfully men who are also married. I am not swayed by just a beautiful penis or personality ... idk ... it's just _______ that actually churns my butter.
 
Well, I did it ... I agreed to a hotel date this Friday afternoon. We all know what's going to happen, but how and where afterwards has yet to be determined.
 
Well, I did it ... I agreed to a hotel date this Friday afternoon. We all know what's going to happen, but how and where afterwards has yet to be determined.

Home wrecker. What you will do is why so many people have STD's, especially HIV. the vicious cycle that never ends. I hope you wise up because if you fool around with married men, yo will catch a disease sooner or later.
 
How idiotic and presumptuous of you to think that I don't insist upon condoms.

Home wrecker. What you will do is why so many people have STD's, especially HIV. the vicious cycle that never ends. I hope you wise up because if you fool around with married men, yo will catch a disease sooner or later.
 
How idiotic and presumptuous of you to think that I don't insist upon condoms.

You are both adults and can make decisions. Who knows maybe you and he will have a wonderful relationship together. Go for it enjoy it. You are single and he will be the one to have guilt. Can I watch :)
 
You are both adults and can make decisions. Who knows maybe you and he will have a wonderful relationship together. Go for it enjoy it. You are single and he will be the one to have guilt. Can I watch :)

no wonder people think gay people have no morals
 
no wonder people think gay people have no morals

No wonder why so many straight people have no morals and get divorced 54% of the time and 45% of the time it's due to infidelity...

We are a society that lacks in morals but lusts in love
 
No wonder why so many straight people have no morals and get divorced 54% of the time and 45% of the time it's due to infidelity...

We are a society that lacks in morals but lusts in love

that's true. But you wouldn't go after a married man, that is common sense. But people are ignorant and say well she' or he won't know. Ignorance is not an excuse
 
that's true. But you wouldn't go after a married man, that is common sense. But people are ignorant and say well she' or he won't know. Ignorance is not an excuse

Well Steve, if you're STR8 like your profile says, then why are you on a site that caters mostly to Gay Men? What's your situation? I realize these posts are in the Str8 and Bi Forum, but come on...I get propositioned by "STR8" Married guys all the time. It's not my problem that they want to lead a secret life. Why blame someone who acts upon it?
 
Weeeyehell ... for all you holier than thou, folk ... nothing really happened except for some heavy petting and mild blow jobs (tasting, just really). His wife and his "son" were both sick, and he felt too guilty to stay the night.
 
Man you write you WANT IT, YOu WANT and WANT IT..

so he's offered IT to you.. go for it if that is what you want..

I don't know you at all. not sure if you want a LTR with the guy (or any guy).. a one or two time thing, well lot's of guys do that..

Up to you.
I very much doubt he will end in a LTRN with you.. but, hey.. a short time is always fun too.

You know as well as I do man.. well he is just after a bit of sex.. and, well if you are up for that, so what? I"m not here to say you should do otherwise..
Just don't fall in love with him..
good luck to you man..
btw - you are a pretty handsome guy.. I'd guess that there a about a million guys that would want to be with you..
 
Well Steve, if you're STR8 like your profile says, then why are you on a site that caters mostly to Gay Men? What's your situation? I realize these posts are in the Str8 and Bi Forum, but come on...I get propositioned by "STR8" Married guys all the time. It's not my problem that they want to lead a secret life. Why blame someone who acts upon it?

why blame someone who acts upon it? because i would think people would have some common sense and respect for marriage and themselves. gay or straight: still applies the same
 
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