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stevexxx said:
why blame someone who acts upon it? because i would think people would have some common sense and respect for marriage and themselves. gay or straight: still applies the same
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It must be difficult living alone atop your mountain; you with nothing but your mighty righteousness and absolute purity. You have all the sanctities and holiness about the world and multi-verse wrapped in your little finger. Judaism and/or Christianity are probably but novelties to you in your infinite wisdom, because your judgment alone is absolute!

Being without sin, you are always the first one to cast said stone, proverbial or not.
 
stevexxx said:
why blame someone who acts upon it? because i would think people would have some common sense and respect for marriage and themselves. gay or straight: still applies the same
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I'll say it again..What are you doing on this Forum? If you're so happily married and so sanctimoniously stated that you are, why are you trolling around on this Forum? Go be with your Wife....If some guy who wants to have sex with me, that is married, so be it. I didn't make those vows..It's not my guilt...Shame on him for being a closet case.
 
uhm dude, i not married. so why don't you just stop talking out of your ass because the more you type the more you sound ignorant.
 
Well, two weeks and three hook-ups later, all is well. Lol ... his wife needed the car the last time, so she dropped him off at the motel, and even came in and introduced herself ... OMG! talk about awkward!! According to ... "Mr. X" she knew that he was bi when they first started dating, and she is just hopeful that our fling will get it out of his system and then they both could truly commit to their marriage.

He is one of the most affectionate lovers that I've ever had, forever caressing me with his fingertips with an almost need for constant bodily contact. We flip-flop, which is kind of odd, as I usually just do that with LTRs, but idk, it just felt right.

I am head over sneakers in lust with him, and he, me. I'm fully aware of infatuation's overwhelming enticement and find myself thinking of him constantly. If and when "it" crosses that microscopic fine line into being in love, I'll break it off in a nanosecond. Firstly to save myself heartbreak and secondly to save his marriage and family.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Well, two weeks and three hook-ups later, all is well. Lol ... his wife needed the car the last time, so she dropped him off at the motel, and even came in and introduced herself ... OMG! talk about awkward!! According to ... "Mr. X" she knew that he was bi when they first started dating, and she is just hopeful that our fling will get it out of his system and then they both could truly commit to their marriage.

He is one of the most affectionate lovers that I've ever had, forever caressing me with his fingertips with an almost need for constant bodily contact. We flip-flop, which is kind of odd, as I usually just do that with LTRs, but idk, it just felt right.

I am head over sneakers in lust with him, and he, me. I'm fully aware of infatuation's overwhelming enticement and find myself thinking of him constantly. If and when "it" crosses that microscopic fine line into being in love, I'll break it off in a nanosecond. Firstly to save myself heartbreak and secondly to save his marriage and family.
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Please do not take anything I have to say personal (if thats possible). So here you go:

I don't have any stones to throw as I am as flawed as the next guy, but I'm going to say this anyways.

Isn't it awfully reckless of you to treat someone this way? I mean i get it he flitted with you, and he started it, but don't pretend to care about his family after you've already started the affair.

If you truly cared you wouldn't have started this in the first place. Sure the wife may be okay with it know, but I doubt she'll be too happy when/if the guy falls in love with you.

Then when you "break it off" the damage will have already been done to him. You should have been the responsible one in this situation and not have started anything.

Again. I'm not trying to been snotty; I just think its pretty shitty thing to say that you would end it as soon as he started feeling for you. You're using the poor guy and I hope he doesn't develop feeling for you.

Maybe you should hook up with a single guy...
 
Are you wooing and proposing to me, White Stripe? I've seen your nudes and would date you like yesterday!
 
aussiesurferboy said:
yeah. just ask him straight up - "what about your wife? what would she think about this?"

on the other hand, sounds like this guy will end up cheating on his wife with or without your help....
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agree with aussiesurferboy! This chum wants to have his cake and eat it too. Unless of course theres some things we dont know, like he might already be separated from his wife (which if he hasnt already told you, i highly doubt). Anycase i wouldnt want anybody to treat me like that if i was the wife... what did they say about karma again?
 
This married guy is not being satisfied sexually with his wife so he is having to hunt around for it. He could be gay/bi and in denial. He will fuck around if not with you, then with someone else. He is old enough the make his own decisions, including suffering the consequences of getting caught. His marriage is doomed for hardship if not for failure. Anyways, his marriage is not your problem.

Hook up with this guy and enjoy. You may help this guy to realize his true sexuality which is the best possible situation for him and his wife.
 
Not here to judge you, just hope that you're aware of all the drama that it's very likely to be coming your way. If, while knowing it, you still want to keep this... situation, well, the choice is yours, and it isn't anyone else's business.

Good luck, whatever you decide to do.
 
Clint100 said:
agree with aussiesurferboy! This chum wants to have his cake and eat it too. Unless of course theres some things we dont know, like he might already be separated from his wife (which if he hasnt already told you, i highly doubt). Anycase i wouldnt want anybody to treat me like that if i was the wife... what did they say about karma again?
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what goes around comes around. i see syobsutsuj getting an std in a week.
 
its a rough situation. and a lot of factors come into play. it would be different if they were both bisexual and had an understanding. but since that doesnt seem to be, be very careful what you do. that marriage might only have one straw left holding it together.
 
Not trying to make a statement about you at all here.
But the poor wife, if she thinks he'll 'get it out of his system' I don't know if that ever works.
Glad you two had fun and that the wife was understanding of it.
 
There is no way you could possibly break up someone else's marriage - only they can do that. Further, they are the one who has taken the vow - not you.

If you don't fuck him - someone will. If the marriage was meant to be - it will stand - if not - that's life.
 
Living up to the stereotype that all gay men are sexual deviants and predators. Good job keeping the stereotype alive
 
stevexxx said:
Living up to the stereotype that all gay men are sexual deviants and predators. Good job keeping the stereotype alive
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Isn't that the same belief for all "OTHER MEN" in heterosexual relationships? ... oh, silly me, I forget -- that's not part of your righteousness.
 
stevexxx said:
uhm dude, i not married. so why don't you just stop talking out of your ass because the more you type the more you sound ignorant.
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Ok, so you're not married.. My misunderstanding...What makes your opinion valid on this subject? Do you have any experiences you'd like to share with the Class?..No? Then shut it..

And I'm talking out of my ass?..
 
stevexxx said:
Living up to the stereotype that all gay men are sexual deviants and predators. Good job keeping the stereotype alive
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And good job to you, for keeping the Stereotype that Str8 people like you are a bunch of Homophobes. Suck a Dick, you'll feel much better.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Isn't that the same belief for all "OTHER MEN" in heterosexual relationships? ... oh, silly me, I forget -- that's not part of your righteousness.
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You are stupid. You can not justify what you are doing can you?
 
rysmiley88 said:
And good job to you, for keeping the Stereotype that Str8 people like you are a bunch of Homophobes. Suck a Dick, you'll feel much better.
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You should make a thread about me and share your comments and concerns. because i seriously don't give a fuck what you think or say. if im concerned and give a fuck what you think i would ask you, other than that, you can shut the hell up and keep your comments to yourself.
 
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