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[Young] Married Guy

All apologies, Mr. Sovereign Dictator of all that is Righteous ... your word is just and dictates heavenly. You know more than everybody else, especially what is right and what is wrong. Let us all herald your world, Mr. David Koresch, or would you rather the mantle of Charles Manson?
 
you should respect their marriage and more importantly yourself. if letting yourself know you are someone's sloppy seconds is alright then whatever.
 
stevexxx said:
You should make a thread about me and share your comments and concerns. because i seriously don't give a fuck what you think or say. if im concerned and give a fuck what you think i would ask you, other than that, you can shut the hell up and keep your comments to yourself.
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I saw your profile, and ALL is understood. You're a child. Children have foolish thoughts. You obviously care what I think, because you keep replying to my comments. (Not only in this thread) . What do you think the purpose of this thread is? It is to share opinions and comment among one another. Not to drop hateful "bombs" and condemn anyone who has a different view. Debate over an issue is one thing, but to demonize and ridicule someone's thoughts or beliefs is another issue. If you don't like it, get out..There are some of us who deal with serious issues in the real world, and look to their peers for advice and guidance. Not dumbass remarks about "sinning and morality"....What the hell do you think you know about the world @ 20 years of age?
 
stevexxx said:
You should make a thread about me and share your comments and concerns. because i seriously don't give a fuck what you think or say. if im concerned and give a fuck what you think i would ask you, other than that, you can shut the hell up and keep your comments to yourself.
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I think I'll call the Thread, "Dumbass 20 year olds, who live with Mom and Dad, who have nothing better to do than criticize those who have a Life, and haunt a predominately Gay Website." How's that sound, Cupcake?(!)
 
rysmiley88 said:
I think I'll call the Thread, "Dumbass 20 year olds, who live with Mom and Dad, who have nothing better to do than criticize those who have a Life, and haunt a predominately Gay Website." How's that sound, Cupcake?(!)
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Well, cupcake, I actually own my own house and two vehicles, but I'll still never be as pompous and full of myself as you, but that['s only because you're so insecure, and we should feel some sympathy for you.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
If and when "it" crosses that microscopic fine line into being in love, I'll break it off in a nanosecond. Firstly to save myself heartbreak and secondly to save his marriage and family.
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How nice of you to break things off IF he falls in Love with you...You seem to be such a GREAT Guy because you don't want to break up his family...:rolleyes:.....Dude give us all a break...You don't care about his Family TODAY; why should we believe that you will start caring about his family when he tells you he's in love with you? You're trying to CONVINCE yourself that you're still a Good guy...It's a hard-sell isnt it?

Since you decided to put your bizness "out there" I advise you to find yourself a single Gay man and begin a friendship that could turn into a LifeTime partnership...You deserve better..Do you believe you deserve better?

Everything would have been okay had you not met his wife @ the Motel..Now her face will be in your head every time you get together...Why are you putting yourself through that?
 
While I do agree that it is his job to keep his marriage together, those of you who seem to think that the dirty mistress is blameless are a bit deluded.
 
How about this crazy idea. Why don't you NOT cheat on your wife asshole. I'm with Steve.
 
Sorry,if you're looking support from me, you aren't getting it.
He may be hitting on you but it's no excuse to give in and add to the humilation and betrayal of his wife.
 
Wouldn't it be so perfect to be as righteous and committed as Stevexxx? I swear that that guy has risen from death and walked on water!
 
stevexxx said:
i hope you aren't being sarcastic
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I support the original poster in his quest to find bliss.

Why so many on here want to dictate morality , I find to adtually be base and devalue human experience .. You all claim he has no goodwill toward his lovers wife or family.

Do you single guys know how much more marriage is than sex, and how honest sexuality can save a marriage/partnership.

Everyone has different needs. take care of yours. As for Karma, yes it will come back around and perhaps many of you will fall head in lust with someone who is "not supposed to be happy with" and you will find yourselves less than godlike.

To anyone who says 'don't you deserve better' date a single guy. How coventional and unrealistic .Why would you seek out a any guy when your needs are already being met. Same goes for heterosexed men /women . If your needs are being met..you won't endup flirting or registering for hotel sex..

This advice is free, but throw dollar down next time your in church feeling better than everyone else
 
Apollosfire said:
I support the original poster in his quest to find bliss.

Why so many on here want to dictate morality , I find to adtually be base and devalue human experience .. You all claim he has no goodwill toward his lovers wife or family.

Do you single guys know how much more marriage is than sex, and how honest sexuality can save a marriage/partnership.

Everyone has different needs. take care of yours. As for Karma, yes it will come back around and perhaps many of you will fall head in lust with someone who is "not supposed to be happy with" and you will find yourselves less than godlike.

To anyone who says 'don't you deserve better' date a single guy. How coventional and unrealistic .Why would you seek out a any guy when your needs are already being met. Same goes for heterosexed men /women . If your needs are being met..you won't endup flirting or registering for hotel sex..

This advice is free, but throw dollar down next time your in church feeling better than everyone else
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your right, we shouldnt have any morals. why give a fuck about gay people and they rights right? i mean they shouldnt get married and hell if people want to be racist and lynch a black man, no one should stop them as long as it makes them happy?

we have morals because it keeps social order. if we didnt have any morals we would all be dead
 
Well, it's happened ... he wants to leave his wife and move in with me. I enjoyed our situation as it was, and here I was worried that I'd be the one "falling in love."

I can't accept blame for the demise of their marriage, as his was fully aware and condoning per her dropping him off at our motel meetings and my house. Now my quandary is: do I really want him as a full-time REAL boyfriend?

He spent the night here last night and brought up the subject of moving in with me permanently, and I was speechless. Don't get me wrong, he is HOT and all, but he's not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree. Intelligence has always been a major issue with me, especially when it comes to relationships.

Ack! I don't want to come across as being so shallow! Maybe I should just become serious with him, as the pickin's up here are mighty slim.
 
If you both want it - go for it! None of us are perfect and it seems his wife may have some idea. All this self righteousness is laughable. Can you all say you're holier than thou?? Maybe this would be good for his marriage. I am not saying it will be but it's possible!

The comments about STD's are immature. You know nothing of their sexual history. It is easy to judge, and whilst your opinions are totally valid, there is no need to be so nasty, it's this kind of bitchiness that is ridiculous.

Straight people, as well as gay people cheat so let's not pretend we are all different in that sense.

Do what you feel is right in the situation. You probably shouldn't do it but we all have to make decisions, and deal with the consequences.

Take care!

Dez
 
Regardless how this turns out, you did this guy (and his wife) a big favor by getting the truth out into the open. Everybody is going to be happier in the long run (thank goodness no kids). I can see dating, but moving in together is a little premature, no matter how hot he is.
 
stevexxx said:
Home wrecker. What you will do is why so many people have STD's, especially HIV. the vicious cycle that never ends. I hope you wise up because if you fool around with married men, yo will catch a disease sooner or later.
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Maybe the wife is also bi and doesn't have a problem with it? We don't know - and frankly it's not for us to judge other people.
 
syoBsUtsuJ said:
Well, it's happened ... he wants to leave his wife and move in with me. I enjoyed our situation as it was, and here I was worried that I'd be the one "falling in love."

I can't accept blame for the demise of their marriage, as his was fully aware and condoning per her dropping him off at our motel meetings and my house. Now my quandary is: do I really want him as a full-time REAL boyfriend?

He spent the night here last night and brought up the subject of moving in with me permanently, and I was speechless. Don't get me wrong, he is HOT and all, but he's not the brightest bulb on the Christmas tree. Intelligence has always been a major issue with me, especially when it comes to relationships.

Ack! I don't want to come across as being so shallow! Maybe I should just become serious with him, as the pickin's up here are mighty slim.
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Those who think that the dirty mistress deserves no blame have a guilty conscience.


Good job, you're officially a home wrecker. :=D:





And really? Being shallow is your only qualm here?
 
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