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Younger Brother

yeah, i know i went through a phase where i thought i was bisexual too and your brother might well be. luckily he does have a brother to talk to. I would definitely let him know that ur there for him if he needs u
 
i think all you really need to do is tell him that you are available. if he finds he needs someone to talk to, he'll get back with you.
 
He is probably still figuring himself out. He might even....surprise.....decide that he is straight. Maybe he was just curious, or maybe he likes sex with anyone (I mean guys or girls...not EVERYone) but feels connected "relationship wise" with girls.
 
Agreed TX. Everyone is different.

I knew I was freaking gay at 14. I woke up one day and decided, "I like cock"

I agree with the others Quanchi. Sometimes people will tell you things. Important things that you should listen to.

But really sometimes you are either not ready to hear some things or sort of refuse to.

You can hear the words coming out of someone's mouth. But you can't hear the message. So as long as you tell him that you are there for him for now, that's enough.

Who knows. He might read this thread.
 
I caught myself looking at the guys in the locker room around 13 or 14. Came out at 17 and i'm 23 now. I guess some are late bloomers for, I just don't see how.
 
He may well turn out to be Bi or straight, only he can decide. Best you can do is to be there if he needs someone to talk to. You have done your bit by coming out and showing that it is ok and that you are accepted. The rest is up to him.
 
Hey Quanchi's li'l brother. Your big brother is there for you if you need someone to talk to.

There, that wasn't so tough.
 
I consider myself gay now but when I was 19-20 I thought I was just bisexual for a while.
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
19 is a young age to know what your sexuality is going to be.
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Erm I knew when I was 16, and my boyfriend said he knew when he was 4. Yes...FOUR.

As for the topic of this topic, it can be up in the air. Just make yourself available for him.
 
Does he look up to you? Maybe he thought it would be cool to be gay like his older brother? Did you think he was gay before he came out?

I think you're doing a great job so far, not being too pushy.

Maybe a friend of his put a notion in his head that he can't have kids or won't get a job or won't be accepted. Or maybe he had a bad experience with someone. You might poke around to see if he has any sore spots; just don't poke too hard. :)
 
Just a thought here I do not know your family dynamics however, maybe since you are all ready out he is feeling pressure to be the "normal one" if you know what I mean? If you are only two kids in the family it could be hard on him as the second one to come out. Maybe he thinks your parents would be devastated to have to gay children. Just something to ponder??


Disclaimer: Notice that "Normal one" is in quotes, I do not believe that being gay is not normal, used that term to explain how his brother may be thinking.
 
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