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your first love... nob or not?

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wanted to know that im not the only person thats been screwed over by my first love. i was 17 when i met him and he was 22, uni student in nursing and he was a looker. at first it was weird having such a great looking guy be into me, but then i got to know him and he was what seemed like a great guy. 7 weeks in we got into our first argument over him being drunk and acting like a child, falling into bushes and calling people names like jesus and mary, quite funny now but sooo annoying at the time. so i fell unconditionally, or what seemed that, in love with him. he fell for me too that much i know. but it turns out he lied all the time .. over the smallest of things too like a facebook picture that he tried passing off as himself when it wasn't. or how much things cost or where he got them from. it didn't matter to me about the price tag but the lying bothered me much. it got worse and he went on to tell me one his closest friends was coming onto him all the time. feeding him Viagra and putting on gay porn whenever he stayed over. (all in all 3 of our close friends at the time was actually in love with him. 2 male and one female) then one day out of the blue, after 5 months of him putting me through the pain and paranoia, he tells me he was lying and expects me to not give a crap. i loved him so i let it go, but then he cheated on me with one of our friends... and laughed in my face when i asked him what he'd done. i couldnt stand it no longer. the pain was too much for me to bare with and eventually i drifted apart from him, then i snogged someone else, so i stold him and i split up with him. it was the best and worst two years of my life. every now and then he trys to get back with me, i did once but that lasted a week as id apparently gave him genital warts (that tured out to be an allergic reaction) after 3 days LOL.! pathetic :(
 
If those were the best 2 years of your life, all I have to say is, you're in for a pretty awesome life, because things will probably be much better than they were with him.

You aren't the only one to have gone through things like that.

I would not get back together with him. You should move on.
 
Yeah I have I was 20 my ex boyfriend was 21 the first few months of our relationship were great, but then he got into drugs and everything slowly went down hill from there. He would lie to me steal from me and he beat me up once said I deserved it. I don't know why I put up with him for nearly two years. I regret ever dating him and wish I'd never met him. He;s out of my life for good now he tried to re add me on facebook but I ignored his friend request I don't need people like that in my life. I'm pretty sure he cheated on my because he gave me a STD. And I know for a fact he didn't get it off me. My nan said I could do better than him but I didn't listen and now I know she was right. I just don't get how people can be so cruel It really makes me mad but in the end I win because we had a good thing and he blew it I don't love him anymore and I haven't for along time. He's outta my life for good and will never get another chance I'm not even attracted to him anymore, I don't know what I saw in him I guess I was naive and probably stupid but that's life I guess.
 
Kel, it sounds like you had something good to give, but he wasn't taking it.
 
When you're young, you are more tolerant of the drama and the mess. Hopefully after a couple of these experiences, you learn that you can't fix these screwed up guys- only they can fix themselves. For you, it's not worth the effort.

Delete is number from your phone. Unfriend him on Facebook. When he says he wants to get back together, turn and walk away. And tell yourself that you can do better.
 
You are so right alt lover and Kara that is so true I agree with you 110% :)
 
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