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x-cess said:
honey, the other guy is not your problem. he didnt betray you (unless he was a friend of yours). your soon-to-be-ex is your problem, he lies and he cheats, and he wont change. put the blame where it belongs, and leave the other guy out of this.
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Yes, he was my friend. That's how much of an asshole he is. And he knows we've been together for over 3 years.
 
allyigator said:
You have yourself to blame for making yourself so miserable. I know you think your bf is going to change, but he won't anytime soon. Stop hurting yourself and let him go. Go out with friends to get your mind off him.
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I appreciate everything else you said and the advice you gave, but you're wrong. This shit is not my fault, and I did not make myself miserable. Can't believe you would say something like that. He is hurting me. I am finding the facts and presenting them so I can PROTECT MYSELF and make a decision.

In case anybody was still wondering, I am leaving him. He was my first boyfriend, and is the only person I've been with. I was 19 when we met, he was 52. That was ~3 years ago. I thought I loved him, can't believe he would treat me this way.

I have been through so much shit in my life, time to shovel this pile out of the way.
 
>>>I appreciate everything else you said and the advice you gave, but you're wrong. This shit is not my fault, and I did not make myself miserable. Can't believe you would say something like that. He is hurting me. I am finding the facts and presenting them so I can PROTECT MYSELF and make a decision.

I don't want to put words in his mouth, but I don't think he meant that your guy cheating on you was your fault. You were at fault simply for keeping it going for so long. For expecting things to change. Because, as we've said, that was tacitly saying "I'll keep forgiving you".

Lex
 
G-Lexington said:
>>>I appreciate everything else you said and the advice you gave, but you're wrong. This shit is not my fault, and I did not make myself miserable. Can't believe you would say something like that. He is hurting me. I am finding the facts and presenting them so I can PROTECT MYSELF and make a decision.

I don't want to put words in his mouth, but I don't think he meant that your guy cheating on you was your fault. You were at fault simply for keeping it going for so long. For expecting things to change. Because, as we've said, that was tacitly saying "I'll keep forgiving you".

Lex
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Ok sorry about that. Was just in a bad mood. I want to put this behind me now and forget about it, but still learn from it.
 
Well hopefully you've learned to exercise better judgment for next time.
 
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