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Your own Definition of "Bisexual"

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I was wondering how people define "bisexual."

It seems many people have different views on what constitutes someone being bisexual. Do you think its something that's open to interpretation or are some people just in denial? Does it even matter?

Just curious to hear some opinions. :D
 
You're attracted to guys... and girls.

Does it really need to be more complicated than that?
 
A person is bisexual if the people one is attracted - either romantically/emotionally or physically/sexual - are of both genders. I think bisexuals can go through periods where they're predominately attracted too e gendr or the other, and they might favor one their entire lives. I don't think a straight guy fooling aroubd with another guy once makes him bi, nor a gay guy who gets a stiffy looking at a woman once or twice. I'd consider those mild abberations.

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Myself, I'm attracted sexually to other men, but not romantically/emotionally or even physically (if that makes sense).

To me it seems if you are heterosexual/homosexual you are both attracted emotionally and physically to your partners, while being bisexual is a more "and/or" situation.
 
^Pansexuality renders all things according to gender identity irrelevant, so no, it's not more accurate, because - as per your scale and per the guy that asked the question - bisexuals are not that flexible and - for lack of a better term - "free-loving".
 
The use of the term bisexual also seems to be a way for some gay men to keep one foot in the closet door.
 
A human whether male or woman who loves them some sexy dick and sweet pussy. They have so many options and unlike Santa, The Easter Bunny, and Vampires they actually exist.
 
Not sure I follow your logic. What do you mean?

I can't see myself ever dating another guy, cause I don't have the emotional/romantic connection with guys like I do with girls. Also I'm not physically attracted to other men, how men look doesn't do anything for me.

I do very much enjoy engaging other guys sexually, the same way I do for girls. It's weird :S
 
I was wondering how people define "bisexual."

Someone attracted to any two genders.


It seems many people have different views on what constitutes someone being bisexual. Do you think its something that's open to interpretation or are some people just in denial?


I think it depends on how and what was meant when defining it.
 
I'm not comfortable with bisexual being arbitrarily defined. If that is not a fixed pole, then sexuality, humanity, attraction, and everything else is up for grabs. (pardon the puns) Granted, sexuality is diverse and complex, but basic terms are basic.

One of the things we regularly see on the boards here is the redefining of different terms, most often because someone has connotations that are not consistent with this or that, or because clinical terminology isn't as user-friendly as street terms.

Bi is bi.

I'm glad you are exploring the topic that so closely affects you, btw, just not at peace with the specific question. The discussion of bisexuality here has a long history of invectives, histrionics, and politicized positions on gay liberation.

That's a reason I entitled this thread "Your own definition" instead of "the definition" as it seems very subjective (and i don't believe it is something with a single, definite answer). I personally don't care for labels; I'd rather just live my life and do what I enjoy.

But in talking with other guys I get asked "are you gay, straight, or bi?" and I don't really know how to answer.
 
Plain and simple, my definition of the word bisexual, is someone (whether that person is male or female), is sexually attracted to both sexes.
 
"Has been known to swing both ways."

Doesn't necessarily mean they are constantly swinging.
 
Personally, I think the word Bisexual has attained its limit.

As for Heterosexual and Homosexual, which refer to the act, the sexuality. I hate these words, because my feelings of being gay are so much more than the sexual act (that I have never done, but that doesn't prevent me to say and to know that I'm gay).

That's the reason why I created the word Androphily (well I discovered afterwards that I didn't create it, someone invented it before :) ). To express the feeling of being in love with a man, not just the sex.

So, with regards to Bisexual, by definition it seems that it describes people who are inclined to have sexual relations with either a man or a woman (with different levels of attraction, one may be 70% more attracted sexually to women and 30% to men, everything is possible).

But that doesn't reflect well the feelings. We should have a word which describes that some people are capable of falling in love and having a fulfilling relation with either gender. An Anthropophile (??) could have one LTR in his life with a woman but also being capable of falling in love with a man, even if that doesn't ever happen. And vice-versa. An Anthropophile could have a LTR with a woman and break up with her and have a LTR with a man afterwards. Or with another woman.

Just my opinion.

To the OP : for the question "are you gay/straight/bi" you could answer, I have romantic feelings towards women only but I can have sex with either gender. You don't have to reduce yourself to a single word ! If people don't get that, they won't get much anyways.
 
. Also I'm not physically attracted to other men, how men look doesn't do anything for me.
I do very much enjoy engaging other guys sexually, the same way I do for girls
. It's weird :S

Would you mind elaborating? "not physically attracted but enjoy engaging sexually". If there is no physical attraction, is there something guys do better than girls that makes you enjoy the sex?
I've had sex with people that I wasn't physically attracted but I think that's completely different from what you're saying.
I'm just curious how you work that out.
 
Would you mind elaborating? "not physically attracted but enjoy engaging sexually". If there is no physical attraction, is there something guys do better than girls that makes you enjoy the sex?
I've had sex with people that I wasn't physically attracted but I think that's completely different from what you're saying.
I'm just curious how you work that out.

Short answer is I love sucking cock and girls don't have dicks :D

It's hard to describe. If I see a hot girl I might think "holy shit, she's hot," but I never have these thoughts when looking at men, no matter how attractive he may be perceived as. But if I think about sucking their cocks than that drives me up the wall :D:D:D
 
Bisexuality to me is somewhat a grey zone. I like to view it as when someone is not just heterosexual nor just homosexual, providing it encompasses attraction toward humans.
 
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