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• Childhood Signs that You Were Gay?

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Re: • Childhood Signs that You Were Gay?

The White Stripe said:
Well...when I was younger I never really was. I am now a lot more. It is difficult to explain.

I find myself attracted more to person based on the way they carry themselves and their attitude. As I grew older I became more attracted to girls because of the way they act in general. I still find both males and females physically attractive, but that factor weights alot less as I mature.

So from my point of view...that makes me bisexual or maybe just a slut. Whatever ;)

lol
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I have some friends like that....just easier for me to not worry about labeling and just assume they like WHATEVER looks good to them male or female lol.
 
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I used to dress up in dresses... !oops!
 
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balljock said:
Like how young were you dressing up in dresses?
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I was really young... like 3,4, or 5. I hate that i ever did that. It's even worse that we have pics and videos of it. I want them DESTROYED!!! :mad:
 
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menRsexii said:
I was really young... like 3,4, or 5. I hate that i ever did that. It's even worse that we have pics and videos of it. I want them DESTROYED!!! :mad:
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lol too funny. I can imagine how you must feel.
 
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Oh my God, you dont even know! My EVIL sister has even gone as far as showing our friends the videos and stuff. When that happened, i was just like "kill me now!" :(:D
 
1. tried on my mums dresses and high heels as a little boy
2. Always hung out with the girls at school
3. Played with Barbies at my best friends house
4. Bad in sports- could neither catch nor throw a ball
5. Wanting to become a figure skater
6. Buying every teen Pop Magazine that had a Poster of shirtless Boybands in it
7. Masturbating to the men´s underwear section of the Sears Catalog by the age of 12
8. Listening and dancing to Britney and of course The Spice Girls in my room
9. Beeing asked by my male classmates if I was a fag

OMG...looking back I must admit it was VERY obvious ;)
 
I was a true "friend of Dorothy", obsessed with "The Wizard of Oz". I drove my parents crazy over it. Then there was that special feeling I got when I looked at another boy, something I could not explain, that never happened with a girl.
 
Honestly from the moment I first found out what being gay is I thought "what if that's me" so pretty much from the first day there were signs
 
LOL... funny thread.

Yep, there were signs that I was gay.
My real first memory or me realizing that I was different from other boys and girls was around 7 or 8 years of age.

I loved singing along to pop music of the day, Cyndi Lauper, Girls Just Want To Have Fun, Bananrama... etc.

I loved playing with Barbies with my girl cousins but I often played rough... Ripley Barbie needs no man to define her. :P

I did put on a dress but I never did it because I wanted to be a woman... or wanted to feel like one. I did it just for shits and giggles and often with my friends or boy cousins, we used to harass my great grandmother. She hated that we did that.

I never willingly put on makeup but my girl cousins put it on me... I must've been ravishing, older guys were hitting on me.

I used to perv on the Sears catalogue too... not to mention the sexy bible drawings of near naked Jesus. Woot.

At 10 or 11, I used to perve on the working crew that always seemed to be around my area, working on the road or the power stations.

I also perved at the swimming pool checking out the older guys... I especially loved watching this one Lifeguard, he must have been in his early 20s, handsome and toned... he always wore a black speedo. After 2 years of going to the swimming pool... I finally caught him in the change room late one evening... we showered together. He was nice to me, he must have known I was a little queer admiring his umm... kindness. :D

I also had a family friend who was Swedish/Danish in origin; he was gorgeous. Late 20's or early 30s, I never really knew but he had golden blond wavy hair and a beard or goatee most of the time.
He was also nicely toned with a sexy mat of golden chest hair. I recall my girls cousins would swoon whenever he'd go swimming with us by the lake.
He'd been a family friend for a long time even before I was born. He'd come visit on and off but my real first memories of him were around the age of 4 or 5 and then he'd disappear for long stretches of time and returned when I turned 8 and came more often until he was gone again...

Additionally, I remember I used to love playing airplane with him... (the person lifts you up using the soles of their feet upon your stomach/belly). I was 11, I loved the body contact afterwards when he'd descend me. He slept in my room and was like an older brother.

Even though nothing sexual happened, I always remember that he was always sporting a boner during our play time. :)
 
Yeah I had the doll thing too. I'd mostly say that I was a bit more on the effeminate side. I've mostly grown out of it but I was a little blonde kid who played with dolls and did crafts and baked. I still had the robot toys and other things but never much bothered with em.
 
I was always a little different than the other boys, most of my friends were girls. I had forgotten about the doll thing, but as a 5 or 6 yr. old I played with my friends dolls, I also liked dressing up to look like a girl. Another thing I had forgotten about until reading this thread.
I didn't have an attraction to other guys until I was 13, before then I just liked to peek at other boys in the bathroom in grade school.
 
My brother and I were at a music store. He was looking at CDs of Korn, Limp Bizkit, Metallica etc. I was looking at records of Spice Girls, Britney, Christina Aguilera etc.
 
I don't know if the word was actually used about me, but I was considered the delicate child, because I was so small. I always knew I wasn't delicate. My aunt, my dad's sister, used to make remarks about me that hurt my feelings. She would tell me I had smooth skin like a girl or long eyelashes like a girl or that my hair was curly and that was how girls like their hair. I don't know if she perceived something about my sexuality, but it pissed me off. When I was about six, she made one of those remarks about me at my Grandma's house. I got angry and said "I am not a girl, you are stupid". She got furious and stood up to hit me. My Grandma told her to shut up and shit down and stop always saying such nasty things to me. One of the reasons I knew I was not delicate is that I just stood there waiting to take a beating from her without backing down. Fortunately, the year I turn sixteen, I had a growth spurt and I grew to 6'3" by sophmore year of college.

I used to go out and dance on top of the picnic tables while I sang songs to myself. That was pretty gay.
 
This is a whole thread full of stereotypes about sexuality and gender identity.

I'm pretty sure there is no inherent difference in the gayness index between a kid who likes watching ballet and a kid who likes watching nascar.

But I'm pretty sure the same stereotypes send messages to kids before they hit puberty about what their interests are supposed to be. So if you like nascar you're supposed to go for vag? If you like ballet you're supposed to go for dick? I think a lot of our sexuality is built on the power of suggestion that way.
 
I saw porn for the first time shortly before I hit puberty. My stepdad had this mysterious locking briefcase, and one day I saw that it was unlatched, so I took a look inside. Well, it was packed full of porno magazines, so I browsed a copy of Swank. I read it, looked at the pictures, and even though it was (obviously) full of women, I was much more fascinated by the few men that was in it.
Also, Swank is probably one of the most lewd, hardcore straight magazines ever made. What an introduction to porn! It would have been a mid-1990s issue, but I found an archive of all the covers and I can't remember what it looked like.

NSFW: I think it was this one. Is there a smiley of a grimacing face? lol
 
Re: • Childhood Signs that You Were Gay?

I was a sandbox and trucks kid...then I was a nerd...and a rebellious badass for awhile..

...but there was this one thing that looking back pretty much indicated there was a gay boy in me...

This clip of Diana Ross and the Supremes on Ed Sullivan .....I was mesmerized......I think I was 8 or 9 at the time....I thought they were the most fabulous creatures I had ever seen ...

 
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Realizing I had a crush on one of the hottest guys in the 2nd grade, playing house with the girls during recess (but I sometimes played football and soccer with the guys too), having a (now out of the closet) gay friend play tie up games with me... maybe that explains my kinky side developed and having my mom tell me I'm going to break a lot of girls hearts when I grow up.

I'm extremely thankful I wasn't bullied very much in school and was called a sissy only once that I can remember which made growing up gay pretty much normal for me. Our school district also had a zero tolerance stance against bullying based on race, gender or sexuality also which helped set the tone.
 
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