10% of straight guys have been with other guys???

[inverhouse]

how str8 r they if they have gay sex?

 

[KennyD]

I'd be willing to bet that the per centage is actually higher .... I read that 51% of the "Single" women are NOT interested in getting a man; BUT rather building their career .... as compared to 24% just five years ago ...
So; single men are hunting for guy to guy sex on the down low .. and getting it ...

 

[FabFairy]

I would have said that the 10% is low and just because from time to time you may play on the other side doesn't mean your gay just interested.

It would seem these days that the younger members of society think of sex as just another pleasure to be enjoyed regardless of the gender.

 

[Singularity]

It says guys who consider themselves straight in the survey. And most of them are married.

Considering yourself straight and being straight are two different things. A straight man has never and will never have sexual contact with another man. These men are in clear denial - blame it to society.

 

[conrad]

Maybe if the percentage were much, much, higher we'd get around to some greater understanding in the so-called "straight" population.

and

If the so-called "gay" portion of the population also had a large proportion who had had some exposure to so-called "straight" sex we'd note a dramatic change in the tone of the line that's so familiar in these forums.

My attitude is that if you haven't been there you really can't know.

Peace!







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[blueto21]

I would say these men are in total denial. And as one poster said society is responsible for it. They are NOT straight. And anyone with half brain would know that. If you're deluded enough to believe that straight men will have sex with other men just to get off because they don't have a female or because their not getting any from their wives at home then I would say you are sorely mistaken. People wake up and stop spreading these lies for your smoke screens.

 

[PurpleBear]

What if it was a one time thing and they are not interested in it ever happening again? Are they still gay and in denial? If a gay man has sex with a woman, is he no longer gay? It's a double standard I'm sure most of you would agree with. For lack of better words, shit happens.

 

[quasar]

...My attitude is that if you haven't been there you really can't know.

How I wish that some of the 'bisexual-bashers' on JUB would take this on board before they spread their ignorant vitriolic bile and venom across the boards!

 

[TierraSimms]

I would say these men are in total denial. And as one poster said society is responsible for it. They are NOT straight. And anyone with half brain would know that. If you're deluded enough to believe that straight men will have sex with other men just to get off because they don't have a female or because their not getting any from their wives at home then I would say you are sorely mistaken. People wake up and stop spreading these lies for your smoke screens.

I agree with you Blueto21 to an extent, but how do you explain the male-on-male sex that frequently occurs in prisons?

I had to write a paper last semester that had to argue about the theory behind male-on-male sexual contact in prison environments for my Human Sexuality II course.

You may not believe it, and that is your right to have that opinion, keyword opinion. However, don't be that deluted to think it isn't possible.

 

[TierraSimms]

How I wish that some of the 'bisexual-bashers' on JUB would take this on board before they spread their ignorant vitriolic bile and venom across the boards!

You ain't never lied. Bisexual does exist, but it isn't as cut and dry as people try to make it out to be.

 

[ok455]

There used to be a saying that gay guys will do stuff that women woudnt do. Like blow jobs and ass eating i coudnt blow a straight guy and let him fuck me and get nothing in return.

 

[blueto21]

I agree with you Blueto21 to an extent, but how do you explain the male-on-male sex that frequently occurs in prisons?

I had to write a paper last semester that had to argue about the theory behind male-on-male sexual contact in prison environments for my Human Sexuality II course.

You may not believe it, and that is your right to have that opinion, keyword opinion. However, don't be that deluted to think it isn't possible.

That’s assuming that most of the men in prison are heterosexual. I don’t by that one bit, considering the fact that according to Kinsey, as his research indicated, that most men are bisexual and are at differing points on the sexuality scale. I could also as easily say “how do explain men in prison who don’t have sex with other male prisoners?” Are they really gay and just claiming to be straight? Of course not! In prison, I agree that there may be a small minority of men who have sexual relations with other men outside of their normal sexual orientation because of the unavailability of female sexual partners. But these men are in a MINORITY. Most of these men I believe do have homosexual urges (which makes them bisexual) and that allows them to have sexual gratification with other men. But the point (or more like smoke screen if you ask me) that you are trying to make is irrelevant to the discussion at hand anyway. Men in prison don’t have the option to seek out sex with female sexual partners. Their choices of sexual partners are limited.

These men in this study were not prisoners. They had the option of seeking out female sexual partners. Unless they were but face ugly as hell and or total jerks, are you telling me they couldn’t find at least ONE female interested in them? That’s absurd! The point is men who are truly HETEROSEXUAL don’t have sex with other men WHEN there are FEMALE SEXUAL PARTNERS AVAILABLE. They don’t. Heterosexual men don’t have sex with other men outside of these primitive circumstances.

 

[jhnphilipps]

That’s assuming that most of the men in prison are heterosexual. I don’t by that one bit, considering the fact that according to Kinsey, as his research indicated, that most men are bisexual and are at differing points on the sexuality scale. I could also as easily say “how do explain men in prison who don’t have sex with other male prisoners?” Are they really gay and just claiming to be straight? Of course not! In prison, I agree that there may be a small minority of men who have sexual relations with other men in prison outside of their normal sexual orientation because of the unavailability of female sexual partners. But those men are in a MINORITY. Most of those men I believe do have homosexual urges (which makes them bisexual) and that allows them to have sexual gratification with other men. But the point (or more like smoke screen if you ask me) that you are trying to make is irrelevant to the discussion at hand anyway. Men in prison don’t have the option to seek out sex with female sexual partners. Their choices of sexual partners are limited.

These men in this study were not prisoners. They had the option of seeking out female sexual partners. Unless they were but face ugly as hell and or total jerks, are you telling me they couldn’t find at least ONE female interested in them? That’s absurd! The point is men who are truly HETEROSEXUAL don’t have sex with other men WHEN there are FEMALE SEXUAL PARTNERS AVAILABLE. They don’t. Heterosexual men don’t have sex with other men outside of these primitive circumstances.

well said> i could not have said it any better mself. have a gr8 day JUB'ers!

 

[KennyD]

Well , you have your STR-8 guys who have Female sex partners BUT the woman will NOT give him "Oral" or/and "Anal" ... so he goes out gets it with younger (usually) guys on the "down low", as they say ....
Would these guys be Labled as gay or bisexual ? Again; I will repete myself by saying that we don't need to "Lable" anyone ... we are all just Sexual Beings ....

 

[blueto21]

Oh, in my earlier post it should be "buy" and not "by" that one bit. LOL! But anyway, I would think if a straight guy isn't getting oral sex from his wife/girlfriend or anal stimulation (which is VERY ironic to me because the straight men that I know don't want a finger near their ass) would find another female to give them that pleasure. That still isn't an excuse for infidelity nor is it an indicator that their just acting on their sexual frustrations with their female partners. Yes we are all sexual beings but we all have our preferences and attractions. Most gay men have specific types that they are attracted to, while straight men can do just about any female, that's why they have that cruel joke "just put a bag over her head." And this notion about doing away with labels is ridiculous. You can't live in human society without labels. It’s a way for us to communicate with each other. Should we just do way with the label "female" because a few people don't want to be identified as female even though they are FEMALE? Should we just do away with the label "male" because a few people don't want to be identified as male even though they are MALE? A label is just that, a label. It is not meant to harm or hurt someone’s identity. It's only there to help them identify their identity and help us understand them better.

 

[TierraSimms]

That’s assuming that most of the men in prison are heterosexual. I don’t by that one bit, considering the fact that according to Kinsey, as his research indicated, that most men are bisexual and are at differing points on the sexuality scale. I could also as easily say “how do explain men in prison who don’t have sex with other male prisoners?” Are they really gay and just claiming to be straight? Of course not! In prison, I agree that there may be a small minority of men who have sexual relations with other men outside of their normal sexual orientation because of the unavailability of female sexual partners. But these men are in a MINORITY. Most of these men I believe do have homosexual urges (which makes them bisexual) and that allows them to have sexual gratification with other men. But the point (or more like smoke screen if you ask me) that you are trying to make is irrelevant to the discussion at hand anyway. Men in prison don’t have the option to seek out sex with female sexual partners. Their choices of sexual partners are limited.

Okay, I accept your explanation. However, some of it is obviously YOUR OPINION without proof, but I accept it because it is YOUR OPINION.

These men in this study were not prisoners. They had the option of seeking out female sexual partners. Unless they were but face ugly as hell and or total jerks, are you telling me they couldn’t find at least ONE female interested in them? That’s absurd! The point is men who are truly HETEROSEXUAL don’t have sex with other men WHEN there are FEMALE SEXUAL PARTNERS AVAILABLE. They don’t. Heterosexual men don’t have sex with other men outside of these primitive circumstances.

This part was what I was agreeing with you on from the beginning.

 

[KennyD]

Everone is entitled to his or her opinion ... BUT; I do not believe that Sexual Orientation should be Labled ... You have the right to think what you will ; just as I have the right to think and say what I believe.
Just don't shove it down my throat that we HAVE to label peoples sexual identity ; because we don't ...

 

[SixPackInBoxers]

Some of these post are pretty simplistic. Sexuality is far more complicated. Guys do it with guys under all sorts of situations. They may see themselves as straight, bi, or gay. However there is probably very few in any (edit meant any - not an) categary who have not experimented in another.

 

[Telstra]

Re: 10% of straight guys have been with other guys

^ at the moment, i still think butthole is for export only and not for import because i can't find any G spot to excite.

but i mine may change.

 

[lionsexy]

Re: 10% of straight guys have been with other guys

I can't even count the amount of lovers I have had who call themselves straight