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21...never dated a dude

I'm 26, never dated, never been involved with either gender. How do you give off gay signals? I'm not flambuoyant or effeminate either and not out yet either.
 
i'm 21 too.never been in any relation ships with both sexes except with my right or left hand.
years go by,i just feel lonelier and lonelier,because nobody knows about the real you,and you are all by yourself..(yes,still in closet)
sometimes when you get so horny but sick of fulfilling yourself with hands and deep down wanting a man who will be there for you so bad...but there wasn't any..
i guess this is the consequences for not coming out of the closet....
 
im 22, not completely out, most people do know, but the most important, family, dont.

i know im not the best looking guy or anything either, but i have had 1 r'ship, a few hook-ups, and i was also seeing a guy, who ended up being my first love, unfortunately he just didnt feel the same way about me (well he didnt exactly help the situation with the way he was with me, but thats for another time, sorry for goin off topic lol)

i do honestly think it comes down to being confident in urself, and jus not thinking to much about trying to find someone, it will happen when u least expect it, an yes i know most of us dont want to wait, but thats all you can do (an this coming from a very impatient person lol)

being out maybe an issue, what are you trying to do to meet guys? do you go out an about to bars an stuff? if you dont, then it is very hard for you to have contact with other gay guys, and to meet an make friends. Ofcourse its totally your decision on whether to come out or not, and if you have no intention of doing so then thats fine, but it may limit your chances.

and about other guys not going for guys who are not out, well i dont think thats fair, everyone has their reasons for waiting to come out, or not to come out, but i dont think that it would affect the r'ship too much.

Ive also found that most younger white guys my age dont tend to go for the darker coloured guys, which is a pain for me as i prefer white boys lol i dont really think they're being racist, but just iggnorant, or its just thier preference, like how i dont really go for other indian/asian guys, well i think ive just not come acorss an indian guy that i like, but im not that bad, am i?

Sam x
 
I'm 21 too...black...not "hot" but I guess I look ok. I've gotten more compliments on my looks than I think I deserve, haha. And yes I'm dateless just like many of you. Yeah I'm a virgin too...never dated or been with a guy...no hookups either (yuck).

I'm only out to my immediate family and best friend...so maybe that has something to do with my datelessness. Look's aren't really an issue for me either though. Intelligence is more of a turn on for me.

With so many of us looking for sane guys and healthy relationships, you'd think more of us would find what we are looking for. :confused:
 
21, going to be 22 and i've never been on a date either. i've never done anything sexual. i really want someone to care for, but i'm not out so i don't think that'll happen.
 
it can happen just gotta wait for it or something i dont know how this works actually ive only been out for a month as of today
 
Reading you guys' posts helped calm down my raging desire for a date/relationship a bit, I do get asked sometimes "tall and handsome, why single?" type questions, so I guess I'm a nice looking guy... I've only had a few sexual experiences and never dated, technically I'm not a "vrigin", but obviously mentally, experience-wise I'm still pretty much one, the problem, mostly, being "not putting myself out enough". There might be other reasons too, just last week, I was talking to some guy online, he was like "Toronto gay community is racist towards Asian guys (referring to me being Asian), and blah blah". But I personally believe, not to sound cliche and politically correct, it really boils down to how you carry yourself, in a secure and confident way. It's not easy to do, hell I know I'm not there, but it's something I believe in. :)
 
it looks like this is an epidemic yall we can beat this...wait not like that oh man...shuts up now lol.

were all young and were all like yeah where the guys at why dont people just ask people out on here i mean it seems logical ...right?!
 
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