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24 yo - Never had a boyfriend

Well....how bout you get out of your house. That's a start. Unless your waiting fo that guy who'll do a B & E in your house and hope that he falls madly in love with you then by all means stay and dont ever leave...but seriously just go out there and am sure you'll find someone. :)
 
1. Go online. (I have evidence you can do that part.)
2. Look up gay groups and/or activities in your area.
3. Find a couple that sound like they might be fun.
4. Contact them to see how you can give it a try. (Yes, this part is scary.)
5. Do it. (So's this part.)

Lex
 
start by working on being more social in general. not leaving the house means you lack in the friend department. you need to work on communicating and interacting with humans in general. And then work your way up to dating.
 
You have to be proactive, guys are not just going to fall down. Everyone is a little bit shy, and no one likes making the first move but you have to. Staying at home is not going to help. Good adivse from Lex, now you have to follow it through.
 
G-Lexington said:
1. Go online. (I have evidence you can do that part.)
2. Look up gay groups and/or activities in your area.
3. Find a couple that sound like they might be fun.
4. Contact them to see how you can give it a try. (Yes, this part is scary.)
5. Do it. (So's this part.)

Lex
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I haven't search for people in my area, but I did join some comunities about "gay nerds", at least is a step, I am trying to find someone around here with the same interests =p
 
I just never get out of the house... never.
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The first step is to get off your ass and out of your house.

Meet people.

Seriously.
 
If this makes you feel any better, I am 27 and I have never had a boyfriend. Maybe a question anybody should be asking is: "Why?", "Why do you not leave your house, ever?" I wish that I never had to leave my house ever. But I have a job. And I have met people at my place of work who I never talk to because I think that they are too good for me/won't be interested in me. I don't go to gay clubs ever. I am sorry this is supposed to be about you not me. The only thing that I can suggest to do is go out that is the first step. Go out and see what is out there. You may be surprised. I also go out sometimes to town to buy things. I see people then and I can't talk to them either. But you have to find the courage to speak to people (like I don't). Sorry for not helping much. Or at all.
 
BlueLantern said:
That is it.

I just never get out of the house... never.

I really don't even know how to start. =/
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As has been noted, if you don't leave the house you'll never have a boyfriend. If you won't leave the house, that's some kind of issue.

So why aren't you leaving the house, you must leave for some things - like work, how are you paying your bills if you don't leave the house?

Without more information, we can't help much.
 
georgeeadsfan said:
If this makes you feel any better, I am 27 and I have never had a boyfriend. Maybe a question anybody should be asking is: "Why?", "Why do you not leave your house, ever?" I wish that I never had to leave my house ever. But I have a job. And I have met people at my place of work who I never talk to because I think that they are too good for me/won't be interested in me. I don't go to gay clubs ever. I am sorry this is supposed to be about you not me. The only thing that I can suggest to do is go out that is the first step. Go out and see what is out there. You may be surprised. I also go out sometimes to town to buy things. I see people then and I can't talk to them either. But you have to find the courage to speak to people (like I don't). Sorry for not helping much. Or at all.
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I'll respond to the hiijack :wave:

GEF, how about working on yourself inside and out. You should NEVER EVER think anyone is too good for you to talk to. Do you not do a good job at work? Are you an inferior worker to your coworkers? If you think so, maybe you can work on that. You can hit the gym and buy a couple new items of clothes and work on your confidence. Go out anywhere and make friends and talk to people. Baby steps will help you be comfortable in the world. You just have to take them.
 
Thank you Spencer (btb I LOVE that name) but after 27 years of being me I ain't gonna change now or ever but that is okay because I still have my dvds and the internet. And my work, which whilst being like having your finger and toe nails pulled out with pliers, is still something. I forgot to mention that while I think I am not good enough to talk to others I, myself am a snob and might think that I am too good to speak to others. I care about myself too much to care about another person so i think that it is better if I am alone. However if I can help another at all I will never stip trying. Life is short and I didn't ask to be born so I just make do with what I have. Besides I can always pass the time with an occasional dalliance with a guy I work with who really shouldn't be doing what he is doing but whilst he still is I ain't gonna say no.
 
man you guys need hugs or something.

we can all go out this weekend, jeez, and be friends with each other.

I mean 27 and you're done from any sort of change? REALLY? Suit yourself, but I still think you need a hug.

You're in the UK and everything. Isn't camraderie like standard? You'd probably come to the US and fit right in :)
 
I'm in the same boat. I just haven't had the time or the energy in the last two years of graduate work to go looking.
 
This thread makes me sad, I'm 25 and a half and never had a boyfriend :( This past 3 years since I came out to myself I've been looking for love in all the wrong places and I'm feeling stuck and running out of ideas.
 
I am 21 and never had a boyfriend i am on the same boat as you i never leave the house.except work and shopping but my little corrupt city sucks there is absolutely no night life or anything to do here i pretty much stop talking to everyone that i went to high school with they change and i don't chase after people
 
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