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A fly starved to death in my apt :(

Aww, it was just a small anecdote...
Sure it is far eclipsed in weight and importance by the deaths of the people you mention, but will feeling bad about those deaths bring them back? Awareness and empathy are helpful, but sympathy and guilt like that is an unnecessary drain.
I see where you're coming from, but...
YOU CATCH MORE FLIES WITH HONEY THAN VINEGAR!!!! BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA....
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HA
Sorry, it was inevitable.
BTW, the reason why I came here:
WHO/WHAT/WHEN/WHERE/WHY/HOW/HOW MUCH IS MAHO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

Sensei Mama-san watch this :wave:

 
Sensei Mama-san watch this :wave:

Now I'm Sensei Mama-san? Taihensugiru desu ne, boku wa sensei ja nai to okaasan ja nai. Boku wa taihen ni nita to omotta, kedo ima wa minna ga boku yori taihen desu to omou. Mada, "Maho" ga wakarimasen. Dakara, nihongo de hanashoo. "Wakaranai" hito ni naritai mo ikai.
00:41 = me
 
I have more love for flies than mosquitoes. Those mosquitoes, especially the stripe ones, annoys the hell out of me. They are noisy and inflicts painful bites.
 
Hmm... this just got me to thinking wow i really need to put up some fly paper... is that wrong? :P
 
No, I just shove the toilet paper rolls down the toilet to try and choke it to death.... :mad:

What? I have issues.... *twitches eye*

If the toilet is already dead good luck in your attempt to choke it to death.
 
Aww, it was just a small anecdote...
Sure it is far eclipsed in weight and importance by the deaths of the people you mention, but will feeling bad about those deaths bring them back? Awareness and empathy are helpful, but sympathy and guilt like that is an unnecessary drain.

No.

Fake sympathy and guilt over a fly's death is an unecessary drain.

And the excuse of the intellectually and emotionally shallow to pretend to have some great depths of 'sensitivity'.

The fly isn't brought back by feeling bad about it either.

But if the OP is really concerned about starvation, he can do something about that.
 
:? So do you smack flies on your daily life? Or do you hush them away when they get around your food?
 
Who, me?......I usually let them lead me TO the food, then I steal it from their stubby grasp and eat it all myself. HAHAHA! (my morals have declined as I've gotten financially poorer....)
 
I'm so poor, I fight the flies for food around here....:)



Literally fight....usually armwrestle. I (usually) win.......

Mmm... with those muscles, I think anybody watching wins.
Couldn't help myself; I haven't flirted on a post since I got here.
 
No.

Fake sympathy and guilt over a fly's death is an unecessary drain.

And the excuse of the intellectually and emotionally shallow to pretend to have some great depths of 'sensitivity'.

The fly isn't brought back by feeling bad about it either.

But if the OP is really concerned about starvation, he can do something about that.
No what? No to the joke? I thought it was cute, and not to be taken so heavily, just like this thread.
I don't think he was trying to portray personal depth; I think he was just being candid.
I hardly even think he was that serious about it.
I agree, the fly is not brought back either nor does it challenge any shallowness, but it is what he has experienced personally. I think a little egocentricity is necessary to survive. He's making a silly thread about it, not declaring some stupid fly should eclipse more important deaths in value. I think we should be allowed to occupy ourselves with the insignificant, it's healthy. Half of what we do here is grandly insignificant, just like this.
I don't think "real concern" is a prerequisite for action. I think understanding, awareness and appreciation are. None of these require personal emotional connection. While an emotional connection may serve as a greater impetus, that ultimately makes acts of service self-serving an sometimes less productive. When we are emotionally connected to potential service by a force such as guilt, we often seek to remediate the problems of the "victims" in need of service solely to the point of remediating our guilt. If we are connected by a detached consciousness and will to help, we often more rationally evaluate the needs of the person we encounter and do more than it would take to just get rid of our guilt trip.
As much time as many of us spend on here, we are all to some degree self-serving. I think there's a balance that each must find for themselves between service and self-service. I do not think a silly, melodramatic thread about the death of a fly drastically throws off this balance, nor is it meant to eclipse the importance of other's deaths.
JyStar made a post somewhere about something to the effect of being empathetic but not sympathetic, you'd probably agree since you're both blunt and critical. That sentiment is what I'm trying to convey. SS can be emotionally self absorbed and still contemplate the pain of others in a detached fashion.
What does OP mean?
You seem smart and all, I respect that to an extent, but there seem to be a lot of FLIES on your high horse.
Sorry, couldn't help myself. *I'm childish*
 
I luv you, Sensei :D

Anata ga daisuki desu mo, kedo kurasu ni arinai nara, kirai deshoo.
"MAHO" WA NAN DESU KA?!?!?!
Video wo mimashita, mada "Maho" ga wakarimasen.
Anata ga Rareboy ga Commongirl ga setsumei suru hodo, nihongo de hanashimashoo.
Wakarimashita ka?
"Ie"
Omedetoo.
 
先生は非常に賢明な、魔法です

Damnit, why can't I beat YOOUUU!!!???!?!
The student has become...
The teacher's aide (only during block days... don't push it)
That penultimate kanji's too scrunched for me to read, not like my Japanese isn't shit anyways.
Thanks, I think, for the part up until "na". Let me find a kanji dictionary for the part up until "desu".
I'll get youuuuuuuu!!!!!!
 
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