Re: Active Duty update thread
I would like to thank
LoveFindsHardy for his summary of Dink Flamingo's comment at post number 604 above.
Dink may perceive that his comments were "truncated," edited or taken out of context, but that is just not the case. Dink's comments are well written and very clear. Dink may have one view of himself, but that view is in complete contradiction to his actions.
I am person of color, of mixed race. I am fortunate that I have not experienced much racsim or discrimination, but I am very aware of the social ques that make me uncomfortable. I'm also very careful to not prejudge anyone, to be objective and whenever possible, to give people the benefit of the doubt.
As much as I have tried to walk away from this incident with
Active Duty, Flamingo's comments have made it necessary, once again, to express my opinion.
I guess it's best to describe my view of Dink Flamingo as out of touch, socially unaware and racially insensitive. For example, Dink describes an expereince of recruiting a black model as this:
I've also tried to recruit a fair number of black performers as well. One such case really turned out badly. The model came in for his solo and by the time it was all said and done he walked out with my camera, his tape, all his paperwork and a nice amount of cash. I was devastated.
Flamingo states that commentors believe that he is "lying" about this incident. Commentors are not saying that he lied about this. Actually, commentors are shocked that Flamingo has taken what appears to be a single incident and applied it, in stereotypical fashion, to an entire race of people! The Miriam Webster dictionary describes racism as, "a belief that race is the primary determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race ." Isn't interesting that the producer of Flamingo's other site, Amateur Straight Guys, caught ASG performer "Spence" stealing $7,000.00, yet ASG and
Active Duty still hires white guys? I guess it's only bad when black guys steal?
Moreover, what I find really interesting (and offensive) is this statement:
Regardless of the decision of the JUB MODS to ban Axl from the forums, he will remain working for active duty as our MEMBERS really love him. All of the email feedback that I've gotten from our members have been positive. I have yet to receive a single email that addresses the subject of his tats. It's apparent from all the feedback that I've gotten that they really like him.
Of course porn fans and members like him. He's perceived as good looking, a decent performer and now he has that "bad boy" quotient that so many people love. But that guys body is covered in tattoo's that many people find offensive. Regardless of the bad decisions that "Axl" made, his ignorance or his youth, for
Active Duty to further promote him is beyond reasonable comprehension.
Dink Flamingo can't possibly be racist. He grew up in a diverse working class neighborhood, his family employed African Americans and he has friends of all strips on Facebook...it's just not possible. While I doubt that many of these diverse people are members of
Active Duty, I'm sure they would be very supportive of his right to continue to feature and promote his new and popular performer with the racist tattoos.
I cannot argue that Dink Flamingo knows what's best for
Active Duty. Regardless of what those tattoo's represent, you have members who can't wait for his next "scorching" scenes. And, of course that trumps social responsibility (yes, even for porn.) I'm curious, what would Flamingo tell a hot Latino, African American, Asian, Middle Easterner or Native American military man that approached him to perform for
Active Duty? Sorry, I don't hire ethnic minorities (but guys with racist tats are cool.)
So, let's say for the sake of further debate that
LoveFindsHardy truncated Dink Flamingo's words. The one thing that cannot be denied, is that Flamingo's actions speak louder than than his words.