Advice: precautionary steps to hiring an escort?

[fabulouslyghetto]

Actually... he's right.

Porn stars and escorts do generally have a lower STD rate because it's their business not to have them. So they get themselves tested, Vaccinated, treated and know how to protect themselves not by just practicing safer sex but knowing how to spot things that a lot of people won't notice like tiny HPV warts or the very early stages of a herpes breakout.

I know a lot of gay guys who only have sex while drunk and they take a lot of chances that they often don't remember. So they don't get tested, don't get treated and pass things on.

Don't get too high up on your horse.

you mind quoting a study? As a porn actor or director or however the hell you whore yourself out clearly you have a vested interest in painting the industry as the epitome of sexual health in spite of countless stories about porn actors spreading disease and the mega-industry of bareback porn.

Im not on a high horse, simply happily disease free and HONEST about sexual behavior of our community. Dont shit on a platter and tell me its swiss chocolate.

 

[Soilwork]

As a porn actor or director or however the hell you whore yourself out clearly you have a vested interest in painting the industry as the epitome of sexual health in spite of countless stories about porn actors spreading disease and the mega-industry of bareback porn.

Oh I see. I'm a "whore" now. I work in the adult industry and clearly know more about it than you so you'll start calling me names. How very brave of you, "Karen."

And can I just say that no matter how many times someone on JUB (a gay porn site) tries to score a cheap point by saying "oh yeah...welll... YOU MAKE PORN!," it never gets less funny?

Im not on a high horse, simply happily disease free and HONEST about sexual behavior of our community.

Well bully for you. I hope you can breathe with the air so thin that far up in on that pedestal you place yourself upon, you highness.

I'm also disease-free and so are all working straight porn stars and any gay porn stars that work for the "test all performers" studios. There are gay studios that sero-sort and some studios that use condoms and other precautions (you'll never see a facial cum shot in a Titan movie, for instance) and some that don't. It's up to the performer.

You wanna show me how the general public, straight and gay, drunk in bars are doing any better? Do you have access to the STD tests of every person you have relations with (and those tests were done within the last few days)?

Dont shit on a platter and tell me its swiss chocolate.

Don't talk from behind a sock puppet, take personal jabs at me, set yourself up in a little Ivory Tower and THEN claim you're being "honest" about anything. The only shit here is located between your ears.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Oh I see. I'm a "whore" now. I work in the adult industry and clearly know more about it than you so you'll start calling me names. How very brave of you, "Karen."

And can I just say that no matter how many times someone on JUB (a gay porn site) tries to score a cheap point by saying "oh yeah...welll... YOU MAKE PORN!," it never gets less funny?




Well bully for you. I hope you can breathe with the air so thin that far up in on that pedestal you place yourself upon, you highness.

I'm also disease-free and so are all working straight porn stars and any gay porn stars that work for the "test all performers" studios. There are gay studios that sero-sort and some studios that use condoms and other precautions (you'll never see a facial cum shot in a Titan movie, for instance) and some that don't. It's up to the performer.

You wanna show me how the general public, straight and gay, drunk in bars are doing any better? Do you have access to the STD tests of every person you have relations with (and those tests were done within the last few days)?



Don't talk from behind a sock puppet, take personal jabs at me, set yourself up in a little Ivory Tower and THEN claim you're being "honest" about anything. The only shit here is located between your ears.

testy are we? Im amazed at how you wrote several paragraphs without answering a simple question, you mustve been a quarterback with those dodging abilities. But im patient i can wait for you to prove your claim.

But stop making this about you (surprise surprise) the author isnt asking about porn, and we arent heterosexuals so i dunno what their std rates have to do with anything but numbers dont lie, as gay men our std rates are in the stratosphere.

As for me personally, i believe my body is exclusive so i can count my sexual partners on one hand. Now, you gonna provide a link to that claim of yours?

 

[Soilwork]

It is my impression - per advertising from gay porn sites advertising condom free sex - that there are porn stars engaging in bare back sexual activity leaving me perplexed when you refer to porn stars knowing how to protect themselves.

There are very few porn studios left that make bareback movies. Most have gone condom-only and many will only work with models who've been tested in the last few days.

Yes, there are studios that make bareback porn. Judging from the mail I get from readers of my blog... it's a lot more common for people who AREN'T in the industry to bareback. It sure is a lot more common, in my experience, for people to get drunk, meet a stranger and then make some very bad choices about sexual activity and partners. That generally doesn't happen in porn.

I do remember reading a study done in the 90s about infection rates among high-class gay escorts and the general gay population and it found that you were much more likely to come into contact with someone with an STD from someone who didn't escort, plus non-escorts were much more likely to have unsafe sex or not know how to protect themselves AND they didn't get tested regularly.

I could spend a while looking it up but to be honest, after Karen's childish little rant of name calling and self deification, I just can't be arsed.

 

[Soilwork]

But stop making this about you (surprise surprise)

Actually... it was you who made it about me. It was you who decided to tell me I "whore myself out" because of my job in the adult industry. I work very hard, have dedicated my life to my work, I love what I do and you know what? I do it pretty fucking well.

As for me personally,

Yes, Karen.. let's hear about you... personally.

What is your real name...? where do you work...? let's see some pictures and know that your claim of having sex partners you can count on one hand has any truth to it.

I mean, you clearly know ALL about me and what a "whore" I am... let's see what kind of person you really are.

I don't feel like a debate with a sock puppet who can just make up any silly little lie to back up their claims of moral superiority.

 

[Soilwork]

Oh, and by the way, Karen... You want me to prove that escorts have lower std rates?

I think you were the one who brought that up... So how about YOU prove it?

Go find a study to back up your claim that gay escorts have a higher rate of infection and std transmission and get tested and treated less often. Don't ask me to do your dirty work.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Oh, and by the way, Karen... You want me to prove that escorts have lower std rates?

I think you were the one who brought that up... So how about YOU prove it?

Go find a study to back up your claim that gay escorts have a higher rate of infection and std transmission and get tested and treated less often. Don't ask me to do your dirty work.

Ohhh so this is a misunderstanding based on your poor reading comprehension skills. I said gay men as a whole have higher std rates in many respects. Escorts are included under that umbrella and if you need proof of gay american std rates your head is so far in the ground theres just no hope for you.

 

[Soilwork]

Ohhh so this is a misunderstanding based on your poor reading comprehension skills. I said gay men as a whole have higher std rates in many respects. Escorts are included under that umbrella and if you need proof of gay american std rates your head is so far in the ground theres just no hope for you.

No, it's based on your saying "Be weary of stds, our rates are in the stratosphere. I cant imagine how diseased escorts must be."

But sure... while you're at it... let's have you back your shit up and show us some studies telling us that gay men have more STDs than straight people.

But like I said... your points are meaningless since they're all just a platform for your obvious self-hatred and internalized homophobic bullshit. A way for you to shit-talk the whole gay community while telling us bogus stuff like "I've only been laid five times" and "I don't have any STDs" which are both probably bullshit.

You've been called out... if you want to take jabs at me personally... you're going to have to tell us a bit about yourself. Post a self-pic, tell us your real name, tell us who you are and where you work and what you do.

If you're going to start that... you better be willing to back it up.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

No, it's based on your saying "Be weary of stds, our rates are in the stratosphere. I cant imagine how diseased escorts must be."

But sure... while you're at it... let's have you back your shit up and show us some studies telling us that gay men have more STDs than straight people.

But like I said... your points are meaningless since they're all just a platform for your obvious self-hatred and internalized homophobic bullshit. A way for you to shit-talk the whole gay community while telling us bogus stuff like "I've only been laid five times" and "I don't have any STDs" which are both probably bullshit.

You've been called out... if you want to take jabs at me personally... you're going to have to tell us a bit about yourself. Post a self-pic, tell us your real name, tell us who you are and where you work and what you do.

If you're going to start that... you better be willing to back it up.

girl you are reaching but the shelf is too high! Self hatred? Homophobic? Anyone who knows my post history knows A) i have posted pics of myself B) not only am i proud of my sexuality and out to the entire world but C) im an advocate for the equal rights of all homosexuals, even greasy narcissistic sluts like you. You may or may not recall my petition for CNN to document gay american life and culture in the same vein as their Black in America series. You may not remember cuz it failed, or maybe because it wasnt about you and i didnt glue the petition to your mirror. On a more successful note you probably also dont remember my change.org petition to have DOMA repealed, because my homophobic self-hating self believes gays should be allowed to serve openly in the military.

Its not my job to educate the uneducated, if you think a higher percentage of stds = we have more stds then your lack of comprehensive reading skills is worse than i thought. Im not your fetch boy and you are no one that i have to validate myself to, if you wanna compare hetero/homo std rates get your ass on google the same way you do when youre looking for more smut to get you in the mood. Or you can keep denying the truth and spinning it as homophobia, either way its your ignorance not mine.

 

[Soilwork]

Ah.

So now I'm a whore and a greasy narcissistic slut. Im sure you gave your best friend (your reflection) a smile for that one.

You have the balls to whine that you're not my "fetch boy" after telling me to go fetch, you whine that I didn't pay attention to things you posted probably during the year and a half I didn't post here and you think ranting about your education that I doubt you actually have means something.

It doesn't.

You posted something you can't back up and resorted to calling me names and telling me I'm a whore and a slut and I guess short. Oh, and tried to turn my making porn into an issue. On a porn site. Because you're clueless.

You're a sad little man whose sex phobia and desperate need to set herself up on a pedestal make you look... Well much like your sock puppet.

And girl... You're posting on a fucking porn site. Do not shit-talk people who jerk off to porn on the Internet, it just makes you look even stupider than you repeatedly prove yourself to be.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Ah.

So now I'm a whore and a greasy narcissistic slut. Im sure you gave your best friend (your reflection) a smile for that one.

You have the balls to whine that you're not my "fetch boy" after telling me to go fetch, you whine that I didn't pay attention to things you posted probably during the year and a half I didn't post here and you think ranting about your education that I doubt you actually have means something.

It doesn't.

You posted something you can't back up and resorted to calling me names and telling me I'm a whore and a slut and I guess short. Oh, and tried to turn my making porn into an issue. On a porn site. Because you're clueless.

You're a sad little man whose sex phobia and desperate need to set herself up on a pedestal make you look... Well much like your sock puppet.

And girl... You're posting on a fucking porn site. Do not shit-talk people who jerk off to porn on the Internet, it just makes you look even stupider than you repeatedly prove yourself to be.

yup. Definitely touchy, i dont need to back up the truth it backs itself up. How ironic, a man who has sex for a living, a gay porn star being ignorant about std rates among gay men. Isnt that like a chef who doesnt know the appropriate temperatures to kill bacteria in meat?

 

[Soilwork]

Wow.

So... you know "the truth" but have no evidence to back it up and just insist that I back it up when I tell you that you're full of shit and your defense of this is "you have sex for a living" which is totally untrue. I've never had sex for a living and have never even been paid to have sex once.

I've been in a handful of scenes sucking dick (not having sex) and I was never paid for a single scene I did. I did those for the experience of knowing what it was like for a performer to make me a better director. And it did. But I am not and never have been a "gay porn star."

So you lose again. You must be used to that by now.

I'm not ignorant about the rates of STDs among gay men. But you're ignorant about whether escorts have a higher rate of infection and your reaction to having that pointed out was to call me a whore and a slut and a narcissist.

Oh and short.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Wow.

So... you know "the truth" but have no evidence to back it up and just insist that I back it up when I tell you that you're full of shit and your defense of this is "you have sex for a living" which is totally untrue. I've never had sex for a living and have never even been paid to have sex once.

I've been in a handful of scenes sucking dick (not having sex) and I was never paid for a single scene I did. I did those for the experience of knowing what it was like for a performer to make me a better director. And it did. But I am not and never have been a "gay porn star."

So you lose again. You must be used to that by now.

I'm not ignorant about the rates of STDs among gay men. But you're ignorant about whether escorts have a higher rate of infection and your reaction to having that pointed out was to call me a whore and a slut and a narcissist.

Oh and short.

i didnt say "escorts have higher std rates." If you didnt have so much semen swimming around your cranium you would understand that. Scroll up, show me where i said ESCORTS have higher std rates and i will post my name, address and anything else you want

Otherwise admit that your sole ability is aiming a camera and filming people having sex, leave the critical thinking to people who dont have dick on the brain 24/7.

 

[Soilwork]

Scroll up, show me where i said ESCORTS have higher std rates and i will post my name, address and anything else you want

Maybe you can explain what you meant by

Be weary of stds, our rates are in the stratosphere. I cant imagine how diseased escorts must be.

Unless you meant they must be... what... lower?

Otherwise admit that your sole ability is aiming a camera and filming people having sex, leave the critical thinking to people who dont have dick on the brain 24/7.

Oh really. "Critical thinking" to someone whose come backs are "you're a whore" and "you're a porn star" and "you're a slut" and "you're uneducated" and "you have semen in the brain" and "your sole ability is aiming a camera at filming people having sex" which you're saying on a gay porn site.

Wow.

That's some great critical thinking there, dear.

 

[Soilwork]

And I might add that for someone who rants and raves and throws hysterical paranoia fests about how everyone else but her is out having lots of sex and covered in disease... you aren't really in a position to be saying someone else has "dick on the brain 24/7."

In my experience, the ones who spend the most time pointing fingers at everyone else is usually the one who's the most obsessed with it.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

double post

 

[Soilwork]

By the way... the real Karen Walker would have back handed you and kicked your sorry ass out a 5th story window by this point for being... you.

Your next sock puppet should be "Maggie Gallagher."

She's also had sex with about 5 people and also loves to call other people names when her hysterical rants are shown to be... well... hysterical rants.

 

[fabulouslyghetto]

Maybe you can explain what you meant by



Unless you meant they must be... what... lower?



Oh really. "Critical thinking" to someone whose come backs are "you're a whore" and "you're a porn star" and "you're a slut" and "you're uneducated" and "you have semen in the brain" and "your sole ability is aiming a camera at filming people having sex" which you're saying on a gay porn site.

Wow.

That's some great critical thinking there, dear.

you just told on yourself. Lemme take you back to, oh, kindergarden. "Our" is a pronoun, possessive of "we" implying a group of which i am a part of, so for you to make sense and not be a raving, uber-sensitive lunatic i would have to be an escort otherwise i wouldnt have included myself in the group.

Maybe, now work with me here, just maybe i meant our as in gay men. But no, thats impossible, that would mean all these paragraphs youve written were based on failure to comprehend a three-letter word. Its painfully clear the only three letter word you understand rhymes with hex.

 

[Soilwork]

"Our" is a pronoun, possessive of "we" implying a group of which i am a part of,

um... yeah... I think we all got that.

You're saying that gay men's STD rates are through the roof and that Escorts must be much higher. And you wrote that using verbiage that my best friend's uptight fundamentalist mother would use.

"I can't imagine how...."

followed by some scandalous, shocking made up statistic.

 

[Soilwork]

And honey... you're on a porn site. If people not being ashamed of having/enjoying sex is something that gets you upset...

how about you go post on the Martha Stewart forum?