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Am I the Only One Grossed Out by Barebacking?

So if your partner were severely constipated and only managed a bowel movement every four or five days, then would you get into rimming? :D
You getting my point wrong. I wasn't stressing on frequency and that wasn't my intention either. My point is, it is a shit hole and I have no interest whatsoever to use my mouth on where the shit comes out. That being said, like the saying goes, to each and their own. If it compels you, go for it.;)
 
Can you imagine putting a dick in your mouth that squeezes out piss several times a day?
What would you choose if you are being forced to eat either shit or piss at gun point? And who said I love to suck dick anyway?
 
The risks far outweigh the rewards.

Never. Not even with somebody I trust.
 
As far as anal goes, barebacking or not. I always clean myself out before hand with an enema. I even got a shower hose attachment that is shaped like a thin penis with holes at the end for the water to get in. I like it clean.
 
It is a bit disgusting. You should always saddle your horse. If you dont, the horse's sweat soaks into the crotch of your pants and you smell like sweaty horse!

Oooops! My bad. You meant the OTHER barebacking...
 
No I am not grossed out by it. Unprotected sex feels ten times better. But it's not a good idea for health reasons.
 
You don't need a gun for water sports, I'm an adventurous guy. I don't like scat. A clean ass is a tasty ass.
I'm not against you on this. It simply just not my thing. If you even like licking a clean toilet sink, go for it. It's not my concern anyway.
 
I love bareback. I hate the feeling of condoms. I only have sex with guys I trust anyway.
 
Yeah and that ended up so well. Really proud era for us there. Pat yourself.

You have some fucked up idea of the world. The fact is, all STD's and diseases like AIDS are just simply opportunistic organisms. Just a nature thing. Like the common cold, or influenza or malaria. Which incidentally kill more people than STD's or AIDS.

I am glad to have lived in the age before AIDS.

And the great difference was that everything was not considered gross, or dirty, or dangerous.

And the attitude expressed toward sex isn't just about sex. The attitude has become pervasive among a coddled and tight-assed generation in just about everything they do from juvenile playtime to how you behave in the business world.

The need for 'Protection' hasn't just resulted in technological changes to how we have sex; it has become a core principle for how the young communicate and socialize. It has led to a generation being risk averse in every respect; unwilling and afraid to risk anything.

It shows in how people now communicate in a world where they increasingly are isolated from contact with other real people. Because you never know. You might catch something. Or be exposed to danger.

It is at the core of the 'Fortress America' philosophy, particularly in the post 9/11 era up to the present.

Proud Era? You got it buster. We didn't invent AIDS, but we're the ones who reacted to it and did the responsible thing when we found out how it was transmitted.

But what a shame, as Tyger pointed out, that we lost so much along the way.

If you want to understand better, read Susan Sontag's "Illness as Metaphor".

Oh, and by the way....no surprise that you're not into rimming. Probably not into kissing either. Or swallowing jizz. Or getting any on you. Or touching another guy's asshole with your finger. EWWWWWWWWWW. Right?
 
I spent 20 years in a married relationship and went "bareback" several times with two kids the result. I ended up having a vasectomy so I would not produce more kids but could enjoy having "unprotected" sex with my then wife.

My current boyfriend and I have been together over a year. When we started dating, one of our first nights out was to go to the Whitman-Walker Gay Men's Clinic and get tested together. We went back two other times to ensure we were both completely STD and HIV free and enjoy barebacking each other.

There is nothing like being in a relationship that you can totally give yourself to another and he to you. It is beautiful to snuggle into bed at night and have a gentle kiss begin to heat up the passions as you kiss and suck each other and then reach over to the lube dispenser and be able to slide it into the other. It is also beautiful to awake in the morning with an erection while spooning with your mate and not fearing being able to again slide it inside and totally give to the other.

Sex is a very beautiful thing that is often terribly distorted as just some animalistic action that must be satisfied versus a giving of something extremely special that it involves every portion of your intimacy.

Having volunteered with gay men's clinics and events, I preach testing, testing, and testing. Everyone should know their status and I applaud those who take precautions.

If every gay person was tested, knew their results and then took the appropriate measures, HIV would not be the epidemic it is.

Well said ;)
 
I don't find barebacking disgusting. But I don't find it any hotter than condom sex, either. To me, a guy putting a condom on says "I care enough about you to put this on." And I don't care what you think about it - to me, that's hot. :)

I honestly don't think I've lost anything having come of age in the day of condoms, anymore than I've lost anything in the age of seat belts. I don't see others as walking sacks of infection. I'm not afraid to kiss, to suck, to rim, to fuck. The condom is three seconds of "Hey, you never know", and back to the action. No biggie.

Lex
 
In fact if you are reading posts here you must know you are not alone, and many of us voice our objections. Yet this is a place with many opinions, and some here like to see unprotected sex and will pay to buy videos and pictures of it. And that is the way it is.

In fact, I agree with you. But there is a whole world out here who are willing to risk disease and even death.

Shep+:croynan:
 
i've always struggled with the world natural

in my belief system---anything that exists in this universe is natural--which makes even viagra natural--a human made it--and humans are animals---would we say a damn made by a beaver isn't natural because he had to construct it?

so why should dental dams (har har) or condoms not be considered natural? we are animals that built something out of something that exists in this universe...like birds build nests, etc etc

the same with acts--if a human does something --it is by nature a human act

what are we really saying when we say condoms aren't natural? that other animals aren't clever enough to make them, and the human brain is so technologically advanced that what we make is too processed to be considered natural? or that condoms haven't existed since the beginning of time therefore they aren't natural? if so, i don't think either of those reach the definition of natural


to answer to the original question, no i'm not grossed out by it, but i wouldn't do it either, condoms are fun and manly :)

Very interesting. I really like your belief system. :)
 
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